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Shewing the Ground from whence they flow , in their Godlike order in the Duty of Relations , as Husbands , Wives , Parents , Children , Masters , Servants , &c. With a Word of Direction to all Backsliders . By John Bunyan , a Prisoner of Hope . The Earth that drinketh in the Rain that cometh oft upon it , and bringeth forth herbs meet for them by whom it is dressed receiveth blessing from God : But that which beareth Briers and Thorns is nigh unto cursing , whose end is to be burned , Heb. 6. 7 , 8. London , Printed for F. Smith , at the Elephant and Castle without Temple-Bar . THE EPISTLE TO THE READER . Courteous Reader , HAving formerly writ some small matter , touching the Doctrine of Faith ; as Justification by Grace through the Faith of Christs Blood , &c. I do here , as the second to that Doctrine , present thee with a few lines , touching Good Works , that I might , as at first I shewed thee the Good and Glory of the one , so now shew thee the Beauty and Excellency of the other : For though we are justified , Rom. 3. 24 , &c. freely by Grace through Christ before God ; yet we are justified before Men , Jam. 2. 18. by our Works : Nay , a life of Holiness flowing from Faith in us that are saved by Grace , it doth justifie that Grace before the World that justifies us before God , 2 Cor. 6. 1 , 3. 2 Cor. 9. 12 , 13 , 1 Pet. 2. 11 , 12. I have not here only in general treated of this Doctrine of Good Works , but particularly ( after some discourse about Works flowing from Faith , and what makes it truly and gospelly Good ) I discourse of them as we stand under our several relations in this World among men ; As first , The Duty of the Master of a Family : Of the Husband to his Wife ; and of hers to him : Of the Duty of Parents to their Children ; and of Children to their Parents : Of Masters also to their Servants ; and of the Servant again to his Master ; with a brief touch upon Good Neighbourhood ; and a discovery of Covetousness , Pride and Uncleanness , which are great Obstructions to a truly Gospel-Conversation . I know there are many that have treated of Good Works in large and learned Discourses , but , I doubt , all have not so Gospelized their discourses as become them , and as the Doctrine of the Grace of God calleth for . However , I thoughtit my duty to add this discourse to all that are past ; and that for these Reasons . First , to take away those Aspersions that the Adversaries cast upon our Doctrine ( Rom. 3. 8. as also in the dayes of Paul ) that because we preach Justification without the Works of the Law ; therefore they pretend we plead for loosness of life , whose damnati●s just . Secondly , Because though there be much discourse about Works in general ; yet a particular Discourse of them , as afore is touched , is too much neglected , and by this means every one too much left at uncertainties ( as from them ) of their several works under their particular Relations , which I think is one reason of that disorder in Families and Places , where God's People live , to their shame , and the dishonour of their God. Thirdly , Because these few Books that do particularly treat thus of Good Works , are , I think , now so scarce , or so big , that but few have them , and few buy them , if they may be had , especially our new Converts ; for whose sakes principally this short Discourse is intended : and indeed this is one reason of my brevity , that the price might neither be burdensome , nor the reading long and tedious : Multitude of words drown the Memory ; and an Exhortation in few words , may yet be so full , that the Reader may find that in the side of a sheet , which some are forced to hunt for in a whole Quire , &c. The Lord teach us this Wisdom . Fourthly , I have written this Book , to shew that I bear a fellow-Testimony and Witness ( with all that know God ) of the Operation that Grace hath , and will have in the heart that hath savingly received it . Lastly , I have thus written , because it is amiable , and pleasant to God , when Christians keep their Rank , Relation and Station , doing all as become their Quality & Calling . When Christians stand every one in their places , and do the work of their Relations , then they are like the flowers in the Garden , that stand and grow where the Gardner hath planted them , and then they shall both honour the Garden in which they are planted , and the Gardner that hath so disposed of them : From the Hysop on the Wall , to the Cedar in Lebanon , their Fruit is their glory . And seeing the stock into which we are planted , is the fruitfullest stock ; the sap conveyed thereout the fruitfullest sap , and the dresser of our souls , the wisest Husbandman , John 15. 1. How contrary to nature , to example , and expectation should we be , if we should not be rich in Good Works . Wherefore take heed of being painted fire , wherein is no warmth , and painted flowers , which retain no smell , and of being painted trees , whereon i● no fruit . Whoso boasteth himself o● a false gift , is like Clouds and Wind without Rain , Prov. 25. 14. Farewel ▪ The Lord be with thy Spirit , tha● thou mayest profit for time to come . J. BUNYAN Christian Behaviour ; OR , The Fruits of true Christianity . Tit. 3. 7 , 8. That being justified by his Grace , we should be made Heirs according to the hope of Eternal Life . This is a faithful Saying ; and these things I will that you affirm constantly , that they which have believed in God , might be careful to maintain good Works . These things are good and profitable unto men . I Shall not at this time discourse of every Particular at large , included in these words , but shall briefly fall upon those things that I judge most necessary for the People of God : Neither shall I need to make any great preamble to the words for their Explication , they themselves being plain , and without tha● ambiguity that calleth for such a thing the general scop being this , That the which have believed in God , should be care●ful to maintain Good Works . But yet , to prosecute what I inten● with what clearness I may , I shall in 〈◊〉 word or two make way for what is to be the main of this Book . [ This is a Faithful Saying ] This Which ? Why that which goeth before namely , That being justified by Grace , w● should be made Heirs according to the hop● of Eternal Life . This is a faithful saying and these things I will that thou affirm con●stantly . Why so ? Why , that they which have believed i● God , might be careful to maintain Goo● Works . The meaning is , That the way to provoke others to Good Works , is constant●ly ( in the evidence and demonstratio● of the Spirit ) to shew them the certainty of their being by Grace made Heirs of Eternal Life . From this Scripture therefore I do gather these things observable . First , That Good Works do flow from Faith. Yea , Secondly , That every one that believeth should be careful that their Works be Good. Thirdly , That every Believer should not only be careful that their Works be good , and for the present do them , but should also be careful to maintain them ; that is , They should carefully study to keep in a constant course of Good Works . And lastly , That the best way to provoke both our selves and others to this Work. It is to be often affirming to others , the Doctrine of Justification by Grace , and to believe it our selves . This is a faithful Saying ; and these things I will , saith Paul , that thou affirm constantly , that they who have believed in God , might be careful to maintain Good Works . I begin with the first . That Good Works do flow from Faith. This is evident divers wayes . First , from the impossibility of their flowing from any other thing ; they must either flow from Faith , or not at all : For whatsoever is not of Faith , is sin . And again ; without Faith it is impossible to please Him , ( Rom. 14. 23. Heb. 11. 6. ) Every man by nature , before Faith , is an evil and a corrupt tree : And a corrupt tree cannot bring forth good fruit . Do men gather grapes of thorns , or figs of thistles ? ( Mat. 7. 16 , 17. ) Now a man is made good by Faith , and by that bringeth forth the Fruits that are acceptable to God , ( Heb. 11. 4. Col. 1. 4 , 5 , 6. ) Wherefore sinners before faith , are compared to the Wilderness , whose fruits are briers and thornes ; and whose hearts are the habitation of Dragons ; that is , of Devils , ( Isa. 35. 6 , 7. Heb. 6. 7 , 8. ) And hence again it is , that they are said to be Godless , Christless , Spiritless , Faithless , Hopeless ; without the Covenant of Grace ; without Strength ; enemies in their minds by wicked works , and possessed by the Spirit of wickedness , as a Castle by a Conqueror , Ephes. 2. 12. Jude 19. 2 Thes. 3. 2. Col. 1. 21. Luke 11. 21. Now these things being thus , it is impossible that all the men under heaven , that are unconverted , should be able to bring forth one work rightly good ; even as impossible , as for all the Briers and Thrones under Heaven , to bring forth one cluster of Grapes , or one bunch of Figs ; for indeed they want the qualification : A Thorn bringeth not forth Figs , because it wanteth the nature of the Fig-tree ; and so doth the Bramble the nature of the Vine . Good Works must come from a good heart . Now , this the unbeliever wanteth , because he wanteth Faith ; For 't is that which purifieth the heart ( Luk. 6. 45. Acts 15. 9. ) Good Works must come from love to the Lord Jesus ; but this the unbeliever wanteth also ; Because he wanteth Faith : for Faith worketh by love , and by that means doth good , as Gal. 5. 6. And hence again it is , That though the carnal man doth never so much which he calleth good , yet it is rejected , slighted , and turned as dirt in his face again ; his prayers are abominable , his plowing is sin , and all his righteousness as menstruous rags ( Prov. 15. 8. Prov. 21. 4. Isa. 60. 4. ) Thus you see , that without Faith there is no Good Works . Now then to shew you that they flow from Faith. And that , For that Faith is a principle of Life by which a Christian lives ( Gal. 2. 20 , 21. ) a principle of Motion by which it walks towards Heaven in the Way of Holiness , ( Rom. 4. 12. 2 Cor. 5. 7. ) It is also a principle of strength , by which the soul opposeth its lust , the Devil and this World , and over-comes them ; This is your victory , even your Faith , ( 1 John 5. 4 , 5. ) Faith in the heart of a Christian , is like the Salt that was thrown into the corrupt Fountain , that made the naughty waters good , and the Land fruitful ( 2 Kings 2. 19 , 20 , 21. ) Faith , when it is wrought in the heart , it is like leaven hid in the meal , Mat. 13. 33. or like perfume , that lighteth upon stinking leather , turning the smell of the leather the savour of the perfume ; it being the● planted in the heart , and having its natural inclination to holiness . Hence it i● that there followeth an alteration of the life and conversation , and so bringeth forth fruit accordingly . A good man ou● of the good treasure of his heart , bringeth forth good fruit , Luk. 6. 45. Which treasure , I say , is this Faith ( Jam. 2. 5. 1 Pet. 1. 7. ) And therefore it is , that Faith is called , The Faith according to Godliness , and the most holy Faith , Tit. 1. 1. Jude 20. 2. Good Works must needs flow from Faith , or no way ; Because , that alone carrieth in it an argument sufficiently prevalent to win upon our natures , to make them comply with holiness . Faith sheweth us that God loveth us , that he forgiveth us our sins , that he counteth us for his Children , having freely justified us through the Blood of his Son , Rom. 3. 24 , 25. Rom. 4. Heb. 11. 13. 1 Pet. 1. 8. Faith receiveth the Promise , imbraceth it , and comforteth the Soul unspeakably with it . Faith is so great an Artist in arguing and reasoning with the soul , that it will bring over the hardest heart that it hath to deal with : It will bring to my remembrance at once , both my vileness against God , and his goodness towards me ; it will shew me , that though I deserve not to breath in the Air , yet that God will have me an Heir of Glory . Now , there is no argument greater than this : this will make a man run thorow ten thousand difficulties to answer God ( though it never can ) for the Grace that he hath bestowed on it . Further , Faith will shew me how distinguishingly this Love of God hath set it self upon me : It will shew me , that though Esan was Jacobs Brother , yet he loved Jacob , Mal. 1. 2. that though there were thousands more besids me that were as good as me , yet I must be the man that must be chosen . Now this , I say , is a marvellous argument , and unspeakably prevaileth with the sinner , as saith the Apostle , For the Love of Christ constrains us , because we th●● judge , That if one dyed for all , then are all dead , and that he died for all , that they which live ( that is by Faith ) should not henceforth live unto themselves , but to Hi●● that died for them , and rose again , 2 Cor. 5. 14. Love , saith the Wise man , is strong as Death ; many waters cannot quench Love , neither can the floods drown it ▪ If a man would give all the substance of his house for Love , it would be utterly contemned . Song . 8. 6 , 7. Oh! when the broken dying condemned sinner , can but see , by Faith , the Love of a tender-hearted Saviour ; and also see what he underwent to deliver it from under that Death , Guilt and Hell that now he feels and fears , which also it knoweth it hath most justly and highly deserved : Then bless the Lord , O my soul ; and what shall I render unto the Lord for all his benefits ? Psal. 103. 1 , 2 , 3. Psal. 116. 1 , 2 , 3 , 4 , 5 , 6 , 7 , 8 , 10 , 11 , 12 , 13 , 14. Thus is Faith a prevailing argument to the sinner , whereby he is fetched off ●rom what he was , and constrained to ●end and yeeld to what before it neither would nor could , 1 Cor. 2. 14. Rom. 8. ● . And hence it is , that Gospel-obedience is called the Obedience of Faith , as well as obedience to the Faith , ( Rom. 16. 26. For it must be by the Faith of Christ in my heart , that I submit to the Word of Faith in the Bible , otherwise ●ll is to no profit , as saith the Apostle ▪ The Word preached did not profit them , it not being mixed with Faith in them that heard it ( Heb. 4. 2. ) For Faith alone can see the reality of what the Gospel saith ; and so I say , argue over the heart to the imbracing of it . 4. Faith is such a Grace , as wil represent to the soul all things in their proper colours : it doth not ( as doth unbelief and ignorance ) shew us all things out of order , puting darkness for light , and bitter for sweet , but will set every thing in his proper place before our eyes , God and Christ shall be with it , the chiefest good , the most lovely and amiable ; a Heavenly Life shall be of greater estee● and more desirable , than all the tre●●sures of Egypt : Righteousness & Sanct●●fication will be the thing after which 〈◊〉 will most vehemently press , because 〈◊〉 seeth not only Death and Damnation , 〈◊〉 the fruits of sin , but sin also in it sel● distinct from the punishment belongin● to it , a detestible , horrible , and odiou● thing , Heb. 11. 25 , 26 , 27. Phil. 3. 7 , 8 , 9 ▪ 10 , 11 , 12. Rom. 12. 9. By Faith we see this World hath n● abiding in it for us , nor no satisfactio● if it were otherwise , Prov. 33. 5. Heb ▪ 11. 15 , 16. & 13. 14. 1 Cor. 7. 29 , 30 , 31 ▪ And hence it is , that the People of God have groaned to be gone from hence , int● a state that is both sinless , and temptationless : And hence it is again , that they have run through so many Tryals , Afflictions and Adversities , even because of that Love to holiness of life , that Faith being in their hearts did prompt them to by shewing them the worth and durableness of that which was good , and the irksomeness and evil of all things else ▪ ●Cor . 5. 1 , 2 , 3 , 4 , 5 , 6 , 7 , 8. Heb. 11. 33 , ●4 , 35 , 36 , 37 , 38 , 39. 5. Faith layeth hold of that which is ●ble to help the soul to bring forth Good Works : It layeth hold of , and ingageth ●e Strength of Christ , and by that over-●ometh that which oppresseth . I can do ●ll things through Christ that strengthen●th me , Phil. 4. 13. In a word , A Life of Holiness and Godliness in this world , doth so insepa●ably follow a Principle of Faith , that 〈◊〉 is both monstrous and ridiculous to ●uppose the contrary . What , shall not ●e that hath life have motion ? Gal. 2. ●0 . He that hath by Faith received the ●pirit of Holiness , shall not he be Ho●y ? Gal. 3. 2. And he that is called to Glory and Vertue , Shall not he add to ●is Faith Vertue ? 2 Pet. 1. 4 , 5. We are ●y Faith made good Trees , and shall not ●e bring forth good Fruit ? Luke 6. 43. They that believe are created in Christ ●esus unto Good ●orks ; and God hath , ●efore the world was , ordained that we ●hould walk in them ; and shall both our second Creation , and God's fore-ordin●●tion be made frustrate ? Ephes. 1. 4. & 〈◊〉 10. Besides , the Children of Faith 〈◊〉 the Children of Light , and of the 〈◊〉 1 Tim. 5. 5. Lights upon a Hill , & Ca●●dles on a Candle-stick , and shall not the shine ? They are the Salt of the Earth shall not they be seasoning ? Mat. 5. 1● 14. The Believer is the alone Man , 〈◊〉 whom God sheweth to the World th● Power of his Grace , the operation of h● Peoples Faith , &c. The unbeliever● reade indeed of the Power of Grace , 〈◊〉 the Faith , Hope , Love , Joy , Peace , an● Sanctification of the Heart of the Chri●stian , but they feel nothing of that sin killing operation that is in these things these are to them as a story out of Rom● or Spain : Wherefore , to shew them i● others , what they find not in themselves God worketh Faith , Hope , Love , &c. i● a Generation that shall serve him ; an● by them they shall see what they canno● find in themselves ; and by this mean● they shall be convinced , that though sin● ●nd the pleasures of this life , be sweet to ●hem , yet there is a People otherwise-●●inded , even such a People , that do in●eed see the Glory of that which others ●eade of , and from that fight , take plea●ure in those things which they are most ●●verse unto . To this , I say , are Christi●ns called ; herein is God glorified ; Hereby are sinners convinced ; and by ●his is the World condemned , 1 Thes. 4. ● . 1 Pet. 2. 12. & 3. 1. Heb. 11. 7. Object . But if Faith doth so naturally ●ause Good Works , what then is the rea●on that God's People find it so hard a mat●er to be Faithful in Good Works ? I answer , First , God's People are ●ruitful in Good Works , according to the pro●ortion of their Faith ; if they be slender ●n Good Works , it is because they are weak ●n Faith. Little faith is like small can●les , or a weak fire , which though they shine , and have heat , yet but dim shining , and but small heat , when compared with bigger Candles & greater Fire . The reason why Sardis had some in it whose works were not perfect before God ; 〈◊〉 was because they did not hold fast , b● Faith , the Word that they had former 〈◊〉 heard , and received , Rev. 3. 1 , 2 , 3. Secondly , There may be a great mistak● in our judging of our own fruitfulness● the soul that indeed is candid , and righ● at heart , is taught by Grace to judge 〈◊〉 self , though fruitful , yet barren upo● two accounts ; 1. When it compareth it life to the Mercy bestowed upon it : Fo● when a Soul doth indeed consider th● greatness and riches of the Mercy be●stowed upon it , then it must needs cr● out , O wretched man that I am ! Rom ▪ 7. 24. for it seeth it self wonderfully t● fall short of a Conversation becomin● one who hath received so great a benefit ▪ 2. It may also judge it self barren , becaus● it falleth so far short of that it woul● attain unto ; it cannot do the thing tha● it would , Gal. 5. 17. 3. The heart o● a Christian is naturally very barren ; up●on which , though the Seed of Gra● ( that is the fruitfullest of all Seeds ) b●●sowen , yet the heart is naturally subjec● to bring forth weeds , Mat. 15. 19. Now , to have a good Crop from such ground , doth argue the fruitfulness of the Seed : wherefore I conclude upon these three things . First , That the Seed of Faith is a very fruitful Seed , in that it will be fruitful in so barren a soil . Secondly , That Faith is not beholding to the heart , but the heart to it , for all its fruitfulness . Thirdly , That therefore the way to be a more fruitful Christian , it is to be stronger in believing . Now for the second thing , to wit , That every one that believeth should be careful that their Works be Good. This followeth from what went just before ; to wit , That the heart of a Christian is a heart subject to bring forth weeds . There is Flesh as ● well as Spirit in the best of Saints : and as the Spirit ▪ of Grace will be alwayes putting forth something that is good , so the Flesh will be putting forth continually that which is evil . For the Flesh lusteth against the Spirit as the Spirit against the Flesh , Gal. 5. 17. Now , this considered , is the cause why you find so often in the Scriptures so many items & cautions to the Christians to look to their lives and conversations ▪ As , Keep thy heart with all diligence , Prov ▪ 4. 23. Watch ye ; stand fast in the Faith ▪ quit you like men , be strong , 1 Cor. 16. 13 ▪ Be not deceived , God is not mocked ; for whatever a man soweth , that shall he reap ▪ for he that soweth to the flesh , shall of the flesh reap Corruption : but he that soweth to the Spirit , shall of the Spirit reap life everlasting , Gal. 6. 7 , 8. All works are not good that seem to be so : It is one thing for a mans wayes to be right in his own eye ; and another , for them to be right in God's . Often that which is in high estimation with men , is abomination in the sight of God , Prov. 30. 12. Luke 16. 15. Seeing Corruption is not yet out o● our natures , there is a proneness in us t● build upon the right foundation , Wood Hay and Stubble , instead of Gold and Silver and precious Stones , 1 Cor. 3. 11 , 13 , 14 , 15. How was both David the King , Nathan the Prophet , and Vzza the Priest deceived , touching Good Works ? 1 Chron. 17. 1 , 2 , 3 , 4. 1 Chron. 13. 9 , 10 , 11. Peter also in both his defending his Master in the Garden , and in diswading of him from his sufferings , though both out of love and affection to his Master , was deceived touching Good Works , Mat. 16. 22 , 23. John 18. 9 , 10. Many have miscarried both as to Doctrine , Worship , and the prosecution of each . 1. For Doctrine . Christ tells the Jews , That they taught for the Doctrines of God , the doctrines and traditions of men , Mat. 15. Mark 7. As also saith the Apostle ▪ They teach things they ought not , for filthy lucres sake , Tit. 1. 11. 2. Also , touching Worship , we find how frequently men have mistaken both for time , place and matter with which they worshipped . 1. For time . It hath been that which man hath devised , not which God hath commanded , 1 Kings 12. 32. They change the Ordinances , saith Isaiah , Isa. 24. 5. They change God's Judgments into wickedness , saith Ezekiel , Ezek. 5. 6. 2. For place . When they should have worshipped at Jerusalem , they worshipped at Bethel , at Gilgal , and Dan , in Gardens under Poplers and Elms , 1 Kings 12. 26 , 27 , 28 , 29. Hos. 4. 13 , 14 , 15. Isa. 65. 2 , 3 , 4 , 5. 3. For the matter with which they worshipped . Instead of bringing according to the Commandment , they brought the lame , the torn , and the sick : they would sanctifie themselves in Gardens , with Swines-flesh and Mice , when they should have done it at Jerusalem , with Bullucks and Lambs , Isa. 66. 17. Again , Touching mens prosecuting their Zeal for their Worship , &c. that they do think right : How hot hath it been , though with no reason at all . Nebuchadnezzar will have his Fiery-Furnace , and Darius his Lyons-Den for Nonconformists , Dan. 3. 6. & 6. 7 , &c. Again , they have persecuted men even to strange Cities ; have laid traps and snares in every corner to intrap and to intangle their Words ; and if they could at any time but kill the Persons that dissented from them , they would think they did God good service , Acts 26. 11. Luke 11. 53 , 54. John. 16. 1 , 2. But what need we look so far from home , ( were it not that I would seal my Sayings with Truth ) we need look no further to affirm this position , than to the Papists and their Companions : How many have they in all ages hanged , burned , starved , drowned , wracked , dismembred and murdered , both openly and in secret ? and all under a pretence of God , his Worship , and Good Works . Thus you see how both Wise men and Fools , Saints and Sinners , Christians and Heathens , have erred in the business of Good Works ; Wherefore every one should be careful to see that their works be good . Now , then to prevent , if God will , miscarriage in this matter , I shall propound unto you what it is for a Work to be rightly Good. First , A Good Work must have , The Word for its authority . Secondly , It must , as afore was said , flow from Faith. Thirdly , It must be , both rightly timed , and rightly placed . Fourthly , It must be done , Willingly , chearfully , &c. 1. It must have the Word for its authority . Zeal without knowledge , is like a metled Horse without eyes , or like a sword in a mad-man's hand : and there is no knowledge where there is not the Word ; For if they reject the Word of the Lord , and act not by that , What Wisdom is in them ? saith the Prophet , Jer. 8. 9. Isa. 8. 20. Wherefore see thou have the Word for what thou dost . 2. As there must be the Word for the authorizing of what thou dost , so there must be Faith , from which it must flow , as I shewed you before : For whatever is not of faith is sin : and without faith , it is impossible to please God. Now I say , without the Word there is no Faith ; Rom. 10. 17. As without Faith there is no good , let mens pretences be what they will. 3. As it must have these two afore-named , so also it must have , first , right Time , and secondly , right Place . 1. It must be rightly timed : Every work is not to be done at the same time , every time not being convenient for such a work : There is a time for all things ; and every thing is beautiful in its time , Eccles . 31. 11. There is a time to pray , a time to hear ; a time to read , a time to confer ; a time to meditate ; a time to do , and a time to suffer . Now , to be hearing when we should be preaching , and doing , that is , yeelding active obedience to that under which we ought to suffer , is not good . Christ was very wary , that both his doings and sufferings were rightly timed , John 2. 3 , 4. & 13. 1 , 2. and herein we ought to follow his steps : To be at plow in the field , when I should be hearing the Word , is not good ; and to be talking abroad , when I should be instructing my family at home , is as bad . Who so keepeth the Commandment , shall feel no evil thing : and a wise mans heart discerneth both time and judgement , Eccles. 8. 5. Good things mis-timed , are fruitless , unprofitable , and vain . 2. As things must have their right time , so they must be rightly placed ; for the misplacing of any work , is as bad as the mis-timing of it . When I say , things , if good , must be rightly placed , I mean , we should not give to any work more than the Word of God alloweth it ; neither should we give it less : Mint , Anise , and Cummin , are not so weighty matters , as Faith and the Love of God , as in Mat. 23. 23. For a Pastor to be exercising the office of a Deacon instead of the office of a Pastor , it is misplacing of works , Acts 6. 2. For Martha to be making outward provision for Christ , when she should have sate at his feet to hear his Word , was the mis-placing a work ; and for her sister to have done it at her request , ( though the thing in it self was good ) had been her sin also , Luke 10. 39 , 40 , 41 , 42. Now , to prevent the misplacing of Good Works , observe , First , They misplace them that set them in the room of Christ , Rom. 10. 1 , 2 , 3. Secondly , They also misplace them that make them co-partners with Him , Rom. 9. 31 , 32. Acts 15. 1. This is , setting up our posts by God's posts ; and man's righteousness by the righteousness of Christ , Ezek. 43. 7 , 8. these are said to be teachers of the Law , not knowing what they say , nor whereof they affirm , 1 Tim. 1. 7. Thirdly , They also misplace works , who ascribe to a work of less moment , that honour that belongeth to a work more noble : and such are , 1. Those who count the ceremonial part of an Ordinance , as good as the doctrine and signification of it . 2. Such who count the dictates and impulses of a meer natural conscience , as good , as high , and divine , as the leadings and movings of the Spirit of Christ. 3. Those also who count it enough to do something of what God hath commanded ( and that something , possibly the least instead of all , and the things more necessary and weighty . Fourthly , They also much misplac● them , who count things indifferent , a● high as those that are absolutely necessary in the Worship of God. 5ly . But they grosser , who place men traditions above them . 6ly . And they greatest of all , who pu● bitter for sweet , and darkness for light . Al● these things we must shun and avoid , a● things absolutly obstructive to Good Works ▪ Wherefore , touching Good Works ; Obedience is better than Sacrifice ; that is , to do things according to the Word of God , is better than to do them according to my fancy & conceit , 1 Sam. 15. 22. Wherefore let all things be done decently and in order , 1 Cor. 14. 40. Again , as Good Works should be ordered and qualified as afore is touched , so they should be done from the heart , willingly , chearfully , with simplicity and charity , according to what a man hath , 1 Joh● 5. 3. 2 Cor. 9. 7. Rom. 12. 8. Col. 3. 20. 1 Cor. 10. 14. 1 Cor. 8. 12. Further , There are three things that a man should have in his eye in every work he doth . 1. The honour of God , 1 Cor. 6. 20. 2. The edification of his Neighbour , 1 Cor. 14. 26. 3. The expediency or inexpediency of what I am to do , 1 Cor. 6. 12. And alwayes observe it , that the honour of God is wrapped up in the edification of thy neighbour ; and the edification of thy neighbour , in the expediency of what thou dost . Again , if thou wouldst walk to the edification of thy neighbour , and so to God's honour , in the midst of thy observers ; Beware , 1. That thou in thy words and carriages , dost so demean thy self , that Christ in his precious benefits may be with clearness spoken forth by thee : and take heed , that thou dost not enter into doubtful points with them that are weak , Rom. 15. 1. but deal chiefly , lovingly , and wisely with their Consciences about those matters that tend to their better establishment in the Faith of their Justification , and deliverance from Death and Hell. Comfort the feeble-minded , confirm the weak , 1 Thes. 5. 14. 2. If thou be stronger than thy brother , take heed that thou do not that before him , that may offend his weak conscience ; I mean , things that in themselves may be lawful : All that is lawful is not expedient ; all that is lawful edifieth not , 1 Cor. 6. 12. Wherefore here is thy wisdom and love , that thou in some things deny thy self for thy brothers sake : 1 Cor. 8. 13. I will not eat meat while the world standeth , saith Paul , lest I make my Brother to offend . Wherefore have this Faith to thy self before God , Rom. 14. 22. but if thou walk otherwise , know , thou walkest not charitably , and so not to edification , and so not to Christ's honour , but dost sin against Christ , and wound thy weak brother , for whom Christ died , Rom. 14. 15. 1 Cor. 8. 12. But I say , all this while keep thy eye upon the Word ; take heed of going contrary to that under any pretence what●ver ; for without the Word , there is no●hing to God's glory , nor thy brothers edification . Wherefore , walk wisely in a perfect way , Psal. 101. 2 , 3. Having thus , in few words , shewed you what are works rightly Good , I beseech you in the Name of the Lord Jesus Christ , that you put your selves into a consciencious performance of them , that you may , while you live here , be Vessels of Honour , and fit for the Masters use , and prepared to every Good Work , 1 Tim. 6. 17. Study to approve things that are excellent , that you may be sincere , and without offence , until the Day of Christ , Phil. 1. 10. Covet communion with God ; covet earnestly the best gifts , 1 Cor. 12. 31. Ah! we that are redeemed from among men , Rev. 14. 4. and that rejoyce in hope of the Glory of God , Rom. 5. 2. we that look , I say , for the blessed hope , and the glorious appearing of the Great God , and our Saviour Jesus Christ , Tit. 2. 13. What manner of persons should we be in all holy Conversation and Godliness ? 2 Pet. 3. 11. To conclude ; For your further edific●tion , take a plain rehearsal of your sev●ral general Duties and Works , to whi●● God ingageth you in his Word , accor●ing to your places , callings , and relat●ons in this World. Touching the Master of a Family . If thou have under thee a Family then thou art to consider the several re●lations thou standest under ; and art t● know , that thou in each of them hast● work to do for God ; and that he expect●eth thy faithful Deportment under eve●ry one of them . As , First then in general , He that is th● Master of a Family , he hath , as unde● that relation , a work to do for God ; t● wit , The right governing of his own Fa●mily ; and his work is twofold . 1. Touching the spiritual State there●of . 2. Touching the outward . As touching the spiritual State of hi● Family ; He ought to be very diligen● and circumspect , doing his utmost indeavour , both to increase Faith where it is begun , and to begin it where it is not . Wherefore to this end , he ought diligently and frequently to lay before his houshold such things of God , out of his Word , as are sutable for each particular : and let no man question his Rule in the Word of God for such a practice ; for if the thing it self were but of good report , and a thing tending to civil-honesty , it is within the compass and bounds even of nature it self , and ought to be done , much more things of a higher nature : Besides , the Apostle exhorts us to , Whatsoever things are honest , whatsoever things are true , just , and of good report , to think of them , that is , to be mindful to do them , Phil. 4. 8. But to be conversant in this Godly Exercise in our Family , is very worthy of praise , and doth much become all Christians . This is one of the things for which God so highly commended his Servant Abraham , and that with which his heart was so much affected : I know Abraham , saith God , ( I know him to be a good man in very deed ) for he wi●● command his Children and his Houshold af●ter him , and they shall keep the way of th● Lord , Gen. 18. 19. This was a thing als● which good Joshua designed should b● his practice as long as he had a breathin● time in this world : As for me , saith he and my houshold , we will serve the Lord Josh. 24. 15. Further. We find also in the New Testament , that they are looked upon a● Christians of an inferior rank that have not a due regard to this Duty , yea , so inferior , as not fit to be chosen to any office in the Church of God. A Pastor mus● be one that ruleth well his own house , having his Children in subjection with all gravity For if a man knoweth not how to rule his own house , how shall he take care of the Church of God ? The Deacon also , saith he , mus● be the husband of one wife ; ruling their Children and their own house well , 1 Tim. 3. Mark a little , the Apostle seems to lay down thus much , that a man that govern●● his family well , hath one qualification belonging to a Pastor or Deacon in the House of God ( For he that knoweth not ●ow to rule his own house , how shall he take ●are of the Church of God ? ) which thing considered , it giveth us light into the work of the Master of a Family , touch●ng the governing of his house . 1. Then a Pastor must be sound and ●ncorrupt in his Doctrine : and indeed ●o must the Master of a Family , Tit. 1. 9. Ephes. 6. 4. 2. A Pastor should be apt to teach , to reprove , and to exhort : and so should the Master of a Family , 1 Tim. 3. 2. Deut. 6. 7. 3. A Pastor must himself be exemplary in Faith and Holiness : and so also should the Master of a Family , 1 Tim. 3. 2 , 3 , 4. & 4. 12. I , saith David , will behave my self in a perfect way ; I will walk in ( or before ) my house in a perfect way , Psal. 101. 2. 4. The Pastor is for getting the Church together , and when they are so come together , then to pray among them , and to preach unto them : this is also commendable in Christian Masters of Families . Object . But my Family is ungodly 〈◊〉 unruly , touching all that is good , What sh●● I do ? Answ. I answer , first , Though this● true , yet thou must rule them , and n● they thee : Thou art set over them● God , and thou art to use the authori●● which God hath given thee , both to r●buke their vice , and to shew them th● evil of their rebelling against the Lor● This did Eli , though not enough ; an● thus did David , 1 Sam. 2. 24 , 25. 1 Chro●● 28. 9. Also , thou must tell them how sad th● state was when thou wast in their cond●tion , and so labour to recover them o● of the snare of the Devil , Mark. 5. 19● 2. Thou oughtest also tolabour 〈◊〉 draw them forth to God's publick Wor●ship , if peradventure God may conver● their souls . Saith Jacob to his houshol● and to all that were about him , Let us ari● and go to Bethel , and I will make there a● Altar to God , that answered me in the d● of my distress , Gen. 35. 3. Hannah would carry Samuel to Sh●●● that he might abide with God for ever , Sam. 1. 22. Indeed a soul rightly touch●d , will labour to draw , not only their ●amilies , but a whole City after Jesus ●hrist , John 4. 28 , 29. 3. If they are obstinate and will not ●o forth with thee , then do thou get god●● and sound Men to thy house , and there ●et the Word of God be preached , when ●hou hast , as Cornelius , gathered thy Fami●y and Friends together , Acts 10. You know that the Jayler , Lydia , Cris●us , Gaius , Stephanus , and others , had not ●nly themselves , but their Families made ●racious by the Word ●reached , and that ●ome of them , if not all , by the Word preached in their houses , Acts. 16. 14 , ●5 , 27 , 28 , 29 , 30 , 31 , 32 , 33 , 34. Acts ●8 . 7 , 8. 1 Cor. 1. 16. And this , for ought ● know , might be one reason among ma●y , why the Apostles taught in their day , ●ot only publickly , but from house to ●ouse . I say , that they might , if possible , ●ring in those in some family , which yet ●emained unconverted and in their sins , Acts 5. 24. & 20. 20 , 21 , for some you know , how usual it was in the day● Christ , to invite Him to their houses , they had any afflicted , that either wou●● not or could not come to him ; Luke● 2 , 3. & 8. 41. If this be the way with those that hav● outward diseases in their Families , ho●● much more then where there is souls th●● have need of Christ to save them fro● Death and eternal Damnation ? 4. Take heed that thou do not negle●● family Duties among them thy self as reading the Word , and Prayer ; 〈◊〉 thou hast one in thy Family that is gr●cious , take incouragement ; nay , if tho● art alone , yet know thou hast both liber●ty to go to God thorow Christ ; and al●● art at that time in a capacity of having th● universal Church joyn with thee , for th● whol number of those that shal be save● . 5. Take heed that thou suffer not an● ungodly , prophane , or heretical Books o● Discourse in thy house : Evil Communi●cation corrupts good Manners , 1 Cor. 15● 33. I mean , such prophane , or heretica● Books , &c. as either tend to provoke t● ●●osness of life , or such as do oppose the ●●ndamentals of the Gospel . I know , that Christians must be allow●d their liberty as to things indifferent ; ●ut for those things that strike at either ●aith or Holiness , they ought to be a●andoned by all Christians , and especi●●ly by the Pastors of Churches , and Ma●ers of Families : which practice was ●gured out by Jacobs commanding his ●use , and all that was with him , to put away ●e strange gods from among them , and to ●ange their garments , Gen. 35. 1 , 2. Also those in the Acts set a good ex●mple for this , who took their curious ●ooks and burned them before all men , ●●ough they was worth five thousand pie●es of Silver , Acts 19. 18 , 19. The neglect of this fourth particular ●ath occasioned ruin in many Families , ●oth among Children and Servants . It 〈◊〉 easier for vain talkers , and their deceive●le works , to subvert whole housholds , than ●any are aware of , Tit. 1. 10 , 11. Thus much touching the spiritual State 〈◊〉 thy Houshold . And now to its outward . Touching the outward state of thy ●●mily , thou art to consider these th● things ; First , That it lyeth upon thee to c●●● for them that they have a convenie●● livelyhood . If any man provide not for 〈◊〉 own , and especially for those of his own hou●● he hath denied the Faith , and is worse th● an infidel , 1 Tim. 5. 8. But mark , wh●● the Word saith , thou art to provide 〈◊〉 thy house , it giveth thee no license 〈◊〉 distracting carefulness , neither doth 〈◊〉 allow thee to strive to grasp the World 〈◊〉 thy heart or Coffers , nor to take care f●● years or dayes to come , but so to pr●●vide for them , that they may have fo●● and raiment ; and if either they or tho● be not content with that , you lanch o● beyond the Rule of God , 1 Tim. 6. 〈◊〉 Mat. 6. 34. This is to labour , that you 〈◊〉 have wherewith to maintain good Works 〈◊〉 necessary uses , Tit. 3. 14. And never object , that unless you rea● further it will never do , for that is 〈◊〉 unbelief . The Word saith , That G●● ●●edeth Ravens , careth for Sparrows , and loatheth the Grass ; in which three , to feed , loath , and care for , is as much as heart an wish , Luke . 12. 6 , 24 , 27 , 28. Secondly , Therefore though thou shouldst ●rovide for thy Family , yet let all thy ●abour be mixed with moderation . Let our moderation be known to all men , Phil. ● . 5. Take heed of driving so hard after his World , as to hinder thy self and fa●ily from those Duties towards God , which thou art by Grace obliged to ; as ●rivate Prayer , reading the Scriptures , ●nd Christian Conference . It is a base ●hing for men so to spend themselves , and ●amilies after this World , as that they ●isingage their hearts to God's Worship . 〈◊〉 Christians . The time is short : It remain●th then , that they that have Wives be as ●hose that have none ; and they that weep , 〈◊〉 though they wept not ; and they that re●yce , as though they rejoyced not ; and they ●hat use this world , as not abusing it ; for ●●e fashion of this world passeth away , 1 Cor. ●● . 29 , 30 , 31. Many Christians live , and do , in this world , as if Religion were but a by-bi●ness , and this World the one thing nece●sary ; when indeed all the things of 〈◊〉 world are but things by the by ; and R●●ligion only the one thing needful , Luk● 10. 40 , 41. 42. Thirdly , If thou wouldst be such a M●ster of a Family as becomes thee , th● must see that there be that Christi● Harmony among those under thee , as b●comes that house where one ruleth th● feareth God. 1. Thou must look that t● Children & Servants be under subject● on to the Word of God : for though it of God only to rule the heart , yet he e●●pecteth that thou shouldst rule their ou● ward man ; which if thou dost not , he m● in short time cut off all , of thy stock , that p●●seth against the wall , 1 Sam. 3. 11 , 12 , 1● 14. See therefore that thou keep the temperate in all things , in Apparrel , 〈◊〉 Language , that they be not Glutteno● nor Drunkards ; not suffering either t●● Children vainly to domineer over t●● Servants , nor they again to carry the●●selves foolishly towards each other . 2. Learn to distinguish between that injury that in thy Family is done to thee , and that which is done to God : and though thou oughtest to be very zealous for the Lord , and to bear nothing that is open transgression to Him , yet here will be thy wisdom to pass by personal injuries , and to bury them in oblivion . Love covereth the multitude of sins . Be not then like those that will rage and stare like mad-men when they are injured ; and yet either laugh , or at least not soberly rebuke , and warn , when God is dishonoured . Rule thy own house well , having thy Children ( with others in thy Family ) in subjection with all gravity , 1 Tim. 3. 4. Solomon was so excellent ( sometimes ) this way , that he made the eyes of his beholders to dazzle , 2 Chron. 9. 3 , 4. But to break off from this general and to come to particulars . First , Hast thou a Wife ? thou mu●● consider how thou oughtest to behave th● self under that relation : And to do this ● right , thou must consider the condition 〈◊〉 thy wife , whether she be one that indee● believeth , or not : ● she believeth , The● First , Thou art eng●●ged to bless God fo● her , For her price is far above Rubies , an● she is the Gift of God unto thee , and is f●● thy adorning and glory , Prov. 12. 4. Prov● 31. 10. 1 Cor. 11. 7. Favour is decei●ful , and beauty is vain ; but a Woman th● feareth the Lord , she shall be praised , Prov● 31. 30. Secondly , Thou oughtest to love he under a double consideration ; 1. As sh● is thy flesh and thy bone ( For ●ev●● [ Man ] yet hated his own flesh , Ephes. 5● 29. ) 2. As she is together with thee a● heir of the Grace of Life , 1 Pet. 3. ● This I say , should engage thee to lov● her with Christian Love ; to love her as believing you both are dearly belov● of God , and the Lord Jesus Christ , an● as those that must be together with him in Eternal happiness . Thirdly , Thou oughtest so to carry thy self to , and before her , as doth Christ , to , and before his Church ; as saith the Apostle , So ought men to love their wives , even as Christ loved the Church , and gave himself for it , Ephes. 5. 25. When husbands behave themselves like husbands indeed , then will they be not only husbands , but such an Ordinance of God to the wife , as will preach to her the carriage of Christ to his Spouse . There is a sweet scent wrapped up in the relations of husbands and wives ( Ephes. 5. 32. ) that believe . The wife , I say , signifying the Church , and the husband the head and saviour thereof ; Ephes. 5. 23. For the husband is the head of the wife , even a Christ is the head of the Church ; and He is the Saviour of the body . This is one of God's chief ends in instituting Marriage , that Christ and his Church , under a figure , might be where-ever there is a couple that believe through Grace . Wherefore that husband that carrieth it undiscreetly toward his wife , he doth not only behave himself contrary to the Rule , but also maketh his Wife lose the benefit of such an Ordinance , and crosseth the mystery of this Relation . Therefore , I say , So ought men to love their Wives as their own bodies : He that loveth his Wife , loveth himself ; for no man ever yet hated his own flesh , but nourisheth and cherisheth it , even as the Lord the Church , Ephes. 5. 28 , 29. Solomon , and Pharaoh's Daughter , had the art of thus doing , as you may see in the Book of Canticles . Wherefore bear with their weaknesses , help their infirmities , and honor them as the weaker vessels , and as being of a frailer constitution , 1 Pet. 3. 7. In a word , be such a Husband to thy believing Wife , that she may say , God hath not only given me a husband , but such a Husband , as preacheth to me every day the Carriage of Christ to his Church . 2. If thy Wife be unbelieving or carnal , then thou hast also a duty lying before thee , which thou art ingaged to perform under a double ingagement . 1. For that she lyeth liable every moment to eternal Damnation . 2. That she is thy Wife that is in this evil case . Oh! how little sense of the worth of Souls is there in the hearts of some Husbands , as is manifest by their unchristian carriage , to , and before their Wives . Now , to qualifie thee for a Carriage suitable , 1. Labour seriously after a sense of her miserable state , that thy bowels may yearn towards her soul. 2. Beware that she take no occasion from any unseemly carriage of thine , to proceed in evil ; and here thou hast need to double thy diligence , for she lieth in thy bosome , and therefore is capable of espying the least miscarriage in thee . 3. If she behave her self unseemly and unruly , as she is subject to do , being Christless & Graceless , then labour thou to overcome her Evil with thy Goodness , her Frowardness with thy Patience and Meekness : it is a shame for thee who hast an other principle , to do as she . 4. Take fit opportunities to convince her ; observe her disposition , and when she is most likely to bear , then speak to her very heart . 5. When thou speakest , speak to purpose ; 't is no matter for many words , provided they be pertinent . Job in a few words answers his Wife , and takes her off from her foolish talking ; Thou speakest , saith he , like one of the foolish women ; shall we receive good at the hands of God , and shall we not receive evil ? Job 2. 10. 6. Let all be done without rancor , or the least appearance of anger ; With meekness instruct those that oppose themselves , if peradventure they may recover themselves out of the snare of the Devil , who are taken captive by him at his will , 2 Tim. 2. 25 , 26. And how knowest thou , O man , but thou mayest save thy Wife , 1 Cor. 7. 16. Touching Parents . IF thou art a Parent , a Father or a Mother , then thou art to consider thy Calling under this Relation . Thy Children have souls , and they must be begotten of God as well as of thee , or they perish . And know also , that unless thou be very circumspect in thy behaviour , to , and before them , they may perish through thee : the thoughts of which should provoke thee , both to instruct , and also to correct them . 1. To instruct them as the Scripture saith , and to bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord ; and to do this diligently when thou sittest in thy house , when thou liest down , and when thou risest up , Ephes. 6. 4. Deut. 6. 7. Now to do this to purpose . First , Do it in terms and words , easie to be understood : affect not high expressions , they will drown your Children . Thus God spake to his Children , and Paul to his , Hos. 12. 10. 1 Cor. 3. 2. Secondly , Take heed of filling their heads with Whimzies , and unprofitable Notions ; for this will sooner learn them to be malepert and proud , than sober and humble . Open therefore to them the state of man by nature : discourse with them of Sin , of Death , and Hell ; of a crucified Saviour , and the Promise of Life through Faith. Train up a Child in the Way he should go ; and when he is old , he will not depart from it , Prov. 22. 6. Thirdly , There must be much Gentleness and Patience in all thy instructions , lest they be discouraged , Col. 3. 21. And fourthly , Labour to convince them by a Conversation answerable , that the things of which thou instructest them , are not febles , but Realities , yea , and Realities so far above what can be here enjoyed , that all things , were they a thousand times better than they are , are not worthy to be compared with the Glory and Worthyness of these things . Isaac was so holy before his Children , that when Jacob remembred God , he remembred that he was the fear of his Father Isaac . Gen. 31. 53. Ah! when Children can think of their Parents , and bless God for that instruction and good they have received from them , this is not only profitable for Children , but honourable and comfortable to Parents . The Father of the Righteous shall greatly rejoyce ; and he that begetteth a wise Child , shall have joy of him , Prov. 23. 24 , 25. Touching Correction . First , See if fair words will win them from evil : This is God's way with his Children , Jer. 25. 4 , 5. Secondly , Let those words you speak to them in your reproof , be both sober , few , & pertinent , adding always some sutable sentence of the Scripture therewith ; as if they lie , then such as Rev. 21. 8. 27. If they refuse to hear the Word , such as 2 Chron. 25. 14 , 15 , 16. Thirdly , Look to them that they b● not companions with those that are rud● and ungodly , shewing with soberness a continual dislike of their naughtiness , often crying out to them , as God did of old unto his ; Oh! do not this abominable thing that I hate , Jer. 44. 4. Fourthly , Let all this be mixed with such love , pitty , and compunction of Spirit , that if possible , they may be convinced , you dislike not their persons but their sins . This is God's way , Psal. 99. 8. Fifthly , Be often indeavouring to fasten on their Consciences the day of their Death and Judgement to come . Thus also God deals with his , Deut. 32. 29. Sixthly , If thou art driven to the Rod , then , 1. Strike advisedly in cool blood ; and soberly shew them , 1. Their fault ; 2. How much it is against thy heart thus do deal with them ; 3. And that what thou dost , thou dost it in conscience to God , and love to their Souls ; 4. And tell them , that if fair means would have done , none of this severi●y should have been : This , I have proved it , will be a means to afflict their hearts as well as their bodies ; and it being the way that God deals with his , it is the most likely to accomplish its end . Seventhly , Follow all this with prayer to God for them , and leave the issue to Him. Folly is bound up in the heart of a Child ; but the Rod of Correction will fetch it out , Prov. 22. 15. Lastly , Observe these Cautions . 1. Take heed that the mis-deeds for which thou corectest thy Children be not learn'd them by thee . Many Children learn that wickedness of their Parents , for which they beat and chastise them . 2. Take heed thou smile not upon them to encourage them in small faults , lest that thy carriage to them , be an encouragement to them to commit greater . 3. Take heed thou use not unsavory and unseemly words in thy chastising of them , as railing , mis-calling , and the like ; this is devilish . 4. Take heed thou do not use them to many chiding words and threatnings , mixed with lightness and laughter ; this will harden : Speak not much , nor often , but pertinent to them with all gravity . Of Masters to Servants . MAsters also have a work to do as they stand related to their Servants . And first , If possible they can , to get them that fear God. He that worketh deceit , saith David , shall not dwell within my House ; and he that telleth lies , shall not tarry in my sight , Psal. 101. 7. Secondly , But if none at the present but unbelievers can be got to do thy labour ; Then , 1. Know that it is thy duty so to behave thy self to thy Servant , that thy service may not only be for thy good , but for the good of thy Servant , and that both in body and soul : Wherefore deal with him , as to admonition , as with thy Children ; give him the same Bread of God thou givest to them ; & who knows , but that if thou with spiritual Dilicates bringest up thy Servant , but he may become thy spiritual Son in the end , Prov. 29. 21. 2. Take heed thou do not turn thy Servants into slaves by over-charging them in thy work , thorow thy greediness . To make men serve with rigor , is more like to Israels enemies than Christian Masters , Exod. 1. 14. 3. Take heed thou carry not thy self to thy Servant , as he of whom it is said , he is such a Son of Belial , that his Servants could not speak to him ; 1 Sam. 25. 14 , 15 , 16 , 17. And the Apostle bids you forbear , to threaten them , because you also have a Master in Heaven , Ephes. 6. 9. as who should say , your Servants cannot be guilty of so many miscariages against you , as you are guilty of against Christ : wherefore do wi●h , and to your Servants , as you would have your Master do with you . 4. Take heed that thou neither circumvent him at his coming into thy service , ●o● at his going out . 1. Servants at their going into service , may be beguised two wayes . First , By their Masters lying unto them , saying , their work is so small , and so easie , when it is indeed , if not too burdensome , yet far beyond what at first was said of it . This is beguiling of them . Secondly , The other way is , whe● Masters greedily seek to wier-draw their Servants to such wages , as indeed is too little and inconsiderable for such work and labour . Both these the Apostle opposeth , where he saith , Masters give unto your Servants that which is just , just labour , and just wages , knowing that you also have a Master in Heaven , Col. 4. 1. 2. As Servants may be circumvented at their coming into their labour , so also they may be at their going out . Which 〈◊〉 done by Masters that either change ●●eir wages , like heathenish Laban , Gen , 31. 7. or by keeping it back , like thos● against whom God will be a swift Wit●ess , Mal. 3. 5. 3. Take heed that thou make not a gain of thy place because thou art gracious , or livest conveniently for the means of Grace . Servants that are truly godly , they care not how cheap they serve their Masters , provided they may get into godly Families , or where they may be convenient for the Word . But now , if a Master or Mistris should take this opportunity to make a prey of their Servant , this is abominable ; this is making a gain of Godliness , and merchandize of the things of God ( 1 Tim. 6. 5. ) and of the soul of thy Brother . I have heard some poor Servants say , That in some carnal families , they have had more liberty to God's things , and more fairness of dealing , than among Professors . But this stinketh : and as Jacob said concerning the cruelty of his two Sons , so may I say of such Masters , they make Religion stink before the inhabitants of the Land , Gen. 34. 30. In a word , learn of the Lord Jesus to carry your selves well to your Servants , that your Servants also may learn something of the kindness of Christ by your deportment to them : Servants are g●ers aswel as comers ; take heed that thou give them no occasion to scandal the Gospel when they are gone , for what they observed thee unrighteously to do when they were with thee . Then Masters carry it rightly toward their Servants , when they labour both in word and life to convince them , that the things of God are the One thing necessary . That which Servants are commanded to do , touching their fear , their singleness of heart , their doing what they d● as to the Lord , and not to men ; the Master is commanded to do the same things unto them , Ephes. 5. 6 , 7 , 8 , 9. The Duty of Wives . But passing the Master of the Family I shall speak a Word or two to those that are under him . And first to the Wife ; The Wife i● bound by the Law to her Husband , so long as her Husband liveth , Rom. 7. 2. Wherefore she also hath her work and place in the family , as well as the rest . Now there are these things considerable in the carriage of a Wife toward her Husband , which she ought conscientiously to observe . First , That she look upon him as her head and lord . The head of the woman is the man. And so Sara called Abraham Lord ; 1 Cor. 11. 3. 1 Pet. 3. 6. Secondly , She should therefore be subject to him as is fit in the Lord. The Apostle saith , That the Wife should submit her self to her Husband , as to the Lord , 1 Pet. 3. 1. Col. 3. 18. Ephes. 5. 22. I told you before , that if the husband doth walk towards his wife as becomes him , he will therein be such an ordinance of God to her , besides the relation of an husband , that shall preach to her the carriage of Christ to his Church . And now I say also , that the wife , if she walk with her husband as becomes her , she shall preach the Obedience of the Church to her husband . Therefore , as the Church is subject to Christ , so let the wives be to their own husbands i● every thing , Ephes. 5. 24. Now for thy performing of this work thou must first shun these evils . 1. The evil of a wandering and a go●soping spirit : this is evil in the Church and is evil also in a wife , who is the figur● of a Church . Christ loveth to have hi● Spouse keep at home ; that is , to be wit● him in the Faith and practice of hi● things , not ranging and medling wit● the things of Satan : no more should wives be given to wander and gossop a broad : You know that Prov. 7. 11. saith She is loud and stubborn ; her feet abide n● in her house . Wives should be about their own husbands business at home : As the Apostl● saith , Let them be discreet , chaste , keepers a home , good , obedient to their own husbands And why ? because otherwise the Word 〈◊〉 God will be blasphemed , Tit. 2. 5. 2. Take heed of an idle , talking , o● brangling tongue . This also is odious either in maids or wives , to be like Pa●ra●s , not bridling their tongue ; where 〈◊〉 the wife should know , as I said before , ●●at her husband is her lord , and is over ●●r as Christ is over the Church . Do you ●●ink it is seemly for the Church to par●t it against her Husband ? is she not 〈◊〉 be silent before him , and to look to his ●aws rather than her own fictions ? Why 〈◊〉 , saith the Apostle , ought the wife to car●it towards her husband . Let the woman , ●ith Paul , learn in silence with all subjecti●● : but I suffer not a woman to teach , or to ●urp authority over the man , but to be in ●●●ence , 1 Tim. 2. 11 , 12. It is an unseemly thing to see a woman , 〈◊〉 much as once in all her life-time , to ●●fer to over-top her husband ; she ought 〈◊〉 every thing to be in subjection to him , ●●d to do all she doth , as having her war●●nt , licence , and authority from him . ●nd indeed here is her glory , even to be ●ider him as the Church is under Christ. ●ow she openeth her mouth in Wisdom , and 〈◊〉 her tongue is the Law of kindness , Pro. ●1 . 26. 3. Take heed of affecting immodest ●parel , or a wanton gate , this will be evil both abroad and at home ; abroad will not only give evil example , but so tend to tempt to lust & lasciviousn● and at home 't will give an offence 〈◊〉 godly Husband , and be cankering to 〈◊〉 godly Children , &c. Wherefore , as sa● the Apostle , Let womens apparel be mo●●● as becometh women professing Godliness 〈◊〉 Good Works , 1 Tim. 2. 10. not with b●●●dered hair , or Gold or Pearls , or co●●●aray . And as 't is said again , Whose ●●●dorning , let it not be that outward adorni●● of plaiting the hair , and of wearing gold , 〈◊〉 of putting on of apparel ; but let it be hidden man of the heart , in that which not corruptible , even the ornament of a m●● and quiet spirit , which is in the sight of G●● of great price : For after this manner in a time , the holy women also , who trusted God , adorned themselves , being in subject● on to their own husbands , 1 Pet. 3. 3 , 4 , 5 , ● But yet , do not think that by the su●●jection I have here men●●ned , that I intend women should be their husban● slaves . Women are their husbands yo● fellows , their flesh and their bones ; a●● 〈◊〉 is not a man that hateth his own flesh , 〈◊〉 that is bitter against it , Ephes. 5. 29. Wherefore let every man love his wife as himself : and the wife see that she reverence her husband , Ephes. 5. 33. The wife is master next her husband , and is to rule all in his absence ; yea , in his presence she is to guide the house , to bring up the Children , provided she so 〈◊〉 it , as the adversary have no occasion 〈◊〉 speak reproachfully ; 1 Tim. 5. 10 , 13. 〈◊〉 Who can find a vertuous woman ; for her price is far above Rubies . A gracious woman retaineth honour , and guideth her affaires with discretion , Prov. 31. 10. Prov. 〈◊〉 , 16. Prov. 12. 4. Object . But my husband is an unbeliever , what shall I do ? Answ. If so then , what I have said before lyeth upon thee with an ingagement so much the stronger . For first , ●●y husband being in this condition , he ●●ll be watchful to take thy slips and in●mities , to throw them as dirt in the ●●e of God and thy Saviour , 2. He will be apt to make the worst of 〈◊〉 one of thy words , carriages and gestur● 3. And all this doth tend to the po●●●sing his heart with more hardness , p●●●dice , and opposition to his own salv●●●on . Wherefore , as Peter saith , ye w●●● be in subjection to your own husbands ; 〈◊〉 if any obey not the word , they may also w●●●out the word be won by the conversati●● the wives , while they behold your c●●● conversation coupled with fear , 1 Pet. 3●● 2. Thy husbands salvation or dam●●●tion lyeth much in thy deportment●● behaviour before him : wherefore if th●● be in thee any fear of God , or love thy husband , seek , by a carriage full● meekness , modesty , holiness , and a hu●●ble behaviour before him , to win him the love of his own salvation ; and thus doing , how knowest thou , O wom●● but thou shalt save thy husband , 1 Cor. ● 16. Object . But my husband is not only unbeliever , but one very froward , peev●● and teasty , yea , so froward , &c. that I k●● not how to speak to him , or behave my●● before him . Answ. Indeed there are some wives ● great slavory by reason of their ungod●y husbands ; and as such should be pit●ed and prayed for , so they should be ●o much the more watchful and circum●pect in all their wayes . 1. Therefore be thou very faithful ●o him in all the things of this life . 2. Bare with patience his unruly and ●nconverted behaviour : thou art alive ; ●e is dead : thou art principled with Grace ; he with Sin. Now then , see●ng Grace is stronger than Sin , and Ver●●e than Vice , be not overcome with ●is vileness , but overcome that with thy ●ertues , Rom. 12. 21. 'T is a shame for ●●ose that are gracious , to be as lavishing 〈◊〉 their words , &c. as those that are ●raceless . They that are slow to wrath , ●re of great understanding : but they that ●re hasty in spirit , exalt folly , Prov. 14. ●9 . 3. Thy wisdom therefore , if at any ●●e thou hast a desire to speak to thy ●●sband for his conviction concerning ●●y thing either good or evil , it is to observe convenient times and seasons . There is a time to keep silence , and a 〈◊〉 to speak , Eccles. 3. 7. Now for the right timing thy inten●●ons . Consider first his disposition , and ta●● him when he is farthest off of those fil●●● passions that are thy affliction . Abig●● would not speak a word to her chur●● husband tell his wine was gone fo●● him , and he in a sober temper , 1 Sa● 25. 36 , 37. The want of this observ●●●on , is the cause why so much is spok●● and so little effected . 2. Take him at those times when 〈◊〉 hath his heart taken with thee , and wh●● he sheweth tokens of love and deli●●● in thee . Thus did Esther with the Ki●● her husband , and prevailed , Est. 5. 3 , ● and 7. 1 , 2. 3. Observe when convictions seize● his conscience , and then follow the● with sound and grave sayings of the Scri●●tures . Somewhat like to this dealt M●●noah's wife with her husband , Judg. 1●● 22 , 23. Yet then , 1. Let thy words be few . 2. And none of them savouring of a lording it over him , but speak thou still as to thy head and lord , by way of intreaty and beseeching . 3. And that in such a spirit of simpathy & bowels of affection after his good , that the manner of thy speech and behaviour in speaking , may be to him an argument that thou speakest in love , as being sensible of his misery , and inflamed in thy soul with desire after his conversion . 4. And follow thy words and behaviours with Prayers to God for his soul. 5. Still keeping thy self in a holy , chaste and modest behaviour before him . Object . But my husband is a sot , a fool , and one that hath not wit enough to follow his outward imployment in the world . Answ. First , though all this be true , yet thou must know he is , thy head , thy lord , and thy husband . 2. Therefore thou must take heed of desiring to usurp authority over him , he was not made for thee ; that is , for thee to have dominion over him , but to be thy husband , and to rule over thee , 1 Tim. 2 ▪ 12. 1 Cor. 1. 3 , 8. 3. Wherefore , though in truth thou mayest have more discretion than he , ye● thou oughtest to know , that thou wit● all that is thine , is to be used as under th● husband , even every thing , Ephes. 5. 24. Take heed therefore , that what thou dost , goes not in thy name , but his ; not to thy exaltation , but his ; carrying all things so , by thy dexterity and prudence that not one of thy husbands weaknesses be discovered to others by thee . A vertuous woman is a crown to her husband : but she that causeth shame , is as rottennes● to his bones . For then , as the Wise ma● saith , She will do him good , and not evil , 〈◊〉 the dayes of her life , Prov. 12. 4. Prov. 31. 14. 4. Therefore act , and do still , as being under the power and authority of th● husband . Now touching thy carriage to thy Chi●●dren and Servants . Thou art a Parent and a Mistris , and so thou oughtest to demean thy self . And besides , seeing the believing woman is a figure of the Church , she ought , as the Church , to nourish and instruct her Children and Servants , as the Church , that she may answer in that particular also : and truly , the wife being alwayes at home , she hath great advantage that way ; wherefore do it , and the Lord prosper your proceeding . Of Children to Parents . There lyeth also a Duty upon Children to their Parents , which they are bound both by the Law of God , and nature , conscientiously to observe . Children , obey your Parents in the Lord ; for this is right . And again , Children , obey your Parents in all things , for this is well-pleasing to the Lord ; Ephes. 6. 1. Col. 3. 20. There are these general things in which Children should shew forth that honor that is due to their Parents from them . First , They should alwayes count them better than themselves . I observe a vile spirit among some Children ; and that is , they are apt to look over their Parents , and to have slighting & scornful thoughts of them ; this is worse than heathenish : such a one hath got just the heart of a Dog or Beast , that will bite those that begot them , and her that brought them forth . But my Father , &c. is now poor , and I am rich , and it will be a disparagement , or at least an hindrance to me , to show that respect to him as otherwise I might . I tell thee thou arguest like an Atheist , and a Beast ; and standest in this , full flat against the Son of God. Read Mark , 7. 9 , 10 , 11 , 12 , 13. Must a gift , and a little of the glory of the Butterfly , make thee that thou shalt ●ot do for , and honour to thy Father and Mother ? A wise man maketh a glad Fa●her ; but a foolish son despiseth his Mother , Prov. 15. 20. Though thy Parents be ne●er so low , and thou thy self never so ●igh , yet he is thy Father , and she thy Mother , and they must be in thy eye i● great esteem . The eye that mocketh at his Father , and that despiseth to obey his mother , the Ravens of the valley shall pick it out , and the young Eagles shall eat it , Prov. 30. 17. Secondly , Thou oughtest to shew thy honour to thy Parents , by a willingness to help them with such necessaries and accommodations which they need . If any have Nephews or Children , let them learn to shew pitty at home , and to requite their parents , saith Paul , for that is good and acceptable before God , 1 Tim. 5. 4. And this rule Joseph observed to his poor Father , though he himself was next the King in Egypt , Gen. 47. 12. Gen. 41. 39 , 40 , 41 , 42 , 43. But mark ; Let them requite their Parents . There are three things , for which , as long as thou livest , thou wilt be a debter to thy Parents . 1. For thy Being in this World : they are they , from whom immediately under God thou didst receive it . 2. For their care to preserve thee when thou wast helpless , and couldst neither care for , nor regard thy self . 3. For the pains they have taken with thee to bring thee up . Until thou hast Children of thy own , thou wilt not be sensible of the pains , watchings , fears , sorrow and affliction , that they have gone under to bring thee up ; and when thou knowest it , thou wilt not easily yeeld , that thou hast recompenced them for their favour to thee : How often have they sustained thy hunger , cloathed thy nakedness ? what care have they taken that thou mightest have wherewith to live and do well when they were dead and gone ; they possibly have spared it from their own belly & back for thee , and have also impoverished themselves that thou mightest live like a man. All these things ought duly , and like a man , to be considered by thee , and care ought to be taken on thy part to requite them ; the Scripture saith so ; Reason saith so ; and there be none but Dogs and Beasts deny it . It is the duty of Parents to lay up for their Children ; and the duty of Children to requite their Parents . Thirdly , Therefore shew by all humble and son-like carriage , that thou dost to this day , with thy heart , remember the love of thy Parents . Thus much for obedience to Parents in general . Again , if thy Parents be godly , and thou wicked ( as thou art if thou hast not a second work or birth from God upon thee ) then thou art to consider , that thou art more strongly ingaged to respect and honour thy Parents , not now only as a father in the flesh , but as godly Parents : thy Father and Mother is now made of God thy teachers and instructers in the Way of righteousness : Wherfore to alude to that of Solomon , O Son hearken to the law of thy Father , and forsake not the law of thy Mother ; bind them continually upon thy heart , and ty them about thy neck , Prov. 6. 20 , 21. Now to provoke thee here to consider , First , That this hath been the practice alwayes of those that are , and have been obedient Children ; yea , of Christ himself to Joseph and Mary , though he himself was God blessed for ever , Luke , 2. 51. Secondly , Thou hast also the severe Judgements of God upon those that have been disobedient to awe thee . As 1. Ishmael , for but mocking at one good carriage of his Father and Mother , was both thrust out of his Fathers Inheritance , and the Kingdom of Heaven , and that with God's approbation , Gen. 21. 8 , 9 , 10 , 11 , 12. Gal. 4. 30. 2. Hophni and P●hinehas , for refusing the good counsel of their Father , provoked the great God to be their enemy . They hearkened not to the voice of their Father , because the Lord would slay them , 1 Sam. 2. 23 , 24 , 25. 3. Absolom was hanged , as I may say by God himself , for rebelling against his Father , 2 Sam. 18. 9. Besides , little dost thou know how heart-aking a consideration it is to thy Parents , when they do but suppose thou mayest be damned : how many prayers , sighs & tears are there wrung from their hearts upon this account ? Every miscarriage of thine goeth to their heart , for fear God should take an occasion thereat to shut thee up in hardness for ever . How did Abraham groan for Ishmael ? O , saith he to God , That Ishmael might live before thee , Gen. 17. 18. How was Is●ac and Rebekah grieved for the miscarriage of Esau , Gen. 26. 34 , 35. And how bitterly did David mourn for his Son , who died in his wickedness , 2 Sam. 18. 32 , 33. Lastly , And can any imagin , but that all these carriages of thy godly Parents , will be to thee the increase of thy torments in Hell , if thou die in thy sins , notwithstanding ? Again , if thy Parents and thou also be godly , how happy a thing is this ? how shouldst thou rejoyce that the same Faith should dwell both in thy Parents and thee ? thy conversion , possibly , is the fruits of thy Parents groans and prayers for thy soul , and they cannot chose but rejoyce ; do thou rejoyce with them . 'T is true , in the Salvation of a natural Son which is mentioned in the Parable ; This my Son was dead , and is alive again ; was lost , and is found ; and they began to be merry , Luke 15. 24. Let therefore the consideration of this , that thy Parents have Grace aswell as thee , ingage thy heart so much the more to honour , reverence , and obey them . Thou art better able now to consider the pains and care that thy friends have been at , both for thy body and soul ; wherfore strive to requite them : Thou hast strength to answer in some measure the Command ; wherefore do not neglect it . It is a double Sin in a gracious Son not to remember the Commandment , yea , the first Commandment , with promise , Ephes. 6. 1 , 2. Take heed of giving thy sweet Parents one snappish word , or one unseemly carriage . Love them because they are thy Parents ; because they are godly ; and because thou must be in Glory with them . Again , if thou be godly , and thy Parents wicked , as often it sadly falls out : Then , first , let thy bowels yearn towards them ; 't is thy parents that are going to Hell. Secondly , As I said before to the wife touching her unbelieving husband , so now I say to thee , Take heed of a parrating tongue ; speak to them wisely , meekly , and humbly ; do for them faithfully without repining ; and bear with all child-like modesty , their reproaches , their railing , and evil speaking . Watch fit opportunities to lay their condition before them . O! how happy a thing would it be , if God should use a Child to beget his Father to the Faith ? Then indeed might the Father say , With the fruit of my own bowels hath God converted my soul. The Lord , if it be his will , convert our poor Parents , that they , with us , may be the Children of God. Concerning Servants . Servants also , they have a work to do for God , in their place and station among men . The Apostles assert Masters under a threefold consideration . 1. The believing Master . 2. The unbelieving Master . 3. The froward Master . For all which , Servants are furnished with counsel and advice in the Word , for the demeaning of themselves under each of them . But before I speak in particular to any of these , I will in general shew you the duty of Servants . First , Thou art to look upon thy self as thou art ; that is , as a Servant , not a Child , nor a Wife , thou art inferior to these ; wherefore count thy self under them , and be content with that station . For three things the Earth is disquieted ▪ and for four which it cannot bear : one is a Servant when he reigneth , Prov. 30. 21 , 22. It is out of thy place , either to talk or do , as one that reigneth . Secondly , Consider , that thou being a Servant , what is under thy hand , is not thy own , but thy Masters : Now , because it is not thy own , thou oughtest not to dispose of it ; but because it is thy Masters , thou oughtest to be faithful . Thus it was with Joseph , Gen. 39. 7 , 8 , 9. but if thou do otherwise , know that thou shalt receive of God for the wrong that thou doest ; and there is with God no respect of persons , Col. 3. 25. Wherefore , Thirdly , Touching thy work and imployment , thou art to do it as unto the Lord , and not for man ; and indeed then servants do their business as becomes them , when they do all in obedience to the Lord , as knowing , that the place in which they now are , it is the place where Christ hath put them , and in which he expecteth they should be faithful . Servants , saith Paul , be obedient to them that are your Masters — with fear & trembling , in singleness of heart , as unto Christ ; not with eye service , as men-pleasers , but as the Servants of Christ , doing the Will of God from the heart , Ephes. 6. 5 , 6. Observe a little the Word of God to Servants . 1. Servants must be obedient . 〈◊〉 2. Not with that obedience that 〈◊〉 serve man only : servants must have the● eye on the Lord in the work they do 〈◊〉 their Masters . 3. That their work in their service 〈◊〉 the Will and Ordinance of God. From which I conclude , that thy wo●● in thy place and station , as thou art a ser●vant , is as really God's Ordinance , an● as acceptable to Him , in its kind , as 〈◊〉 Preaching , or any other work for God and that thou art as sure to receive a re●ward for thy labour , as he that hangs , 〈◊〉 is burnt for the Gospel . Wherefore sai● the Apostle to servants , Whatsoever 〈◊〉 do , do it heartily , as to the Lord , and not 〈◊〉 men , knowing that of the Lord you shall re●ceive the reward of inheritance ; for ye serv●● the Lord Christ , Col. 3. 22 , 23 , 24. And now touching the three sorts 〈◊〉 Masters mentioned before . First , For the believing Master ; Sai●● Paul , They that have believing Master●● let them not despise them because they 〈◊〉 brethren , but rather do them service bec●●● they are faithful and beloved , and partakers ( with the Servants ) of the heaven●● Benefits , 1 Tim. 6. 2. ( Servants , if they have not a care of their hearts , will be so much in the consideration of the relation that is betwixt their Masters and they , as brethren , that they will forget the relation that is between them as Masters and Servants : now , though they ●ought to remember the one , yet let them take heed of forgetting the other : Know thy place as a Servant , while thou considerest that thy Master and thee are Brethren , and do thy work for him faithfully , humbly , and with meekness , because he is a Master faithful and beloved , and partaker of the heavenly Benefit . ) If any man teach otherwise , saith the Apostle Paul , and consent not to wholsome Words , even the Words of our Lord Jesus Christ , and the Doctrine which is according to godliness , he is proud , knowing nothing , but doting about questions , and strife of words , whereof cometh envy , strife , railings , evil surmisings , perverse disputings of men of corrupt minds , and destitute of the Truth , supposing that gain is godliness ; from such withdraw thy sel● 1. Tim. 6. 3 , 4 , 5. Secondly , For the unbelieving Maste● ( for of them Paul speaks in the first ver●● of this 6. of Timothy ) Let as many servants , saith he , as be under the yoak , cou●● their own Masters worthy of all honour , th●● the Word of God & his Doctrine be not blasphemed . Servants living with unbelieving Masters , are greatly ingaged to be bot● watchful , faithful , and trusty . Ingaged ▪ I say , 1. From the consideration of th● condition of their Master ; for , he bein● unbelieving , will have an evil eye upo● thee , and upon thy doings , and so much the more because thou professest : as i● the case of Saul and David , 1. Sam. 18 ▪ 8 , 9 , &c. 2. Thou art ingaged because of th● profession thou makest of the Word 〈◊〉 God ; for by thy profession , thou dost 〈◊〉 both God and his Word before thy M●●ster , and he hath no other wit but to blas●phem them , if thou behave thy self un●worthily . Wherefore Paul bids Tit●● Exhort Servants to be obedient to their own Masters , and to please them well in all things , ●ut answering again ( not giving par●at●ng answers , or such as are cross or pro●oking ) not purloining , but shewing all good ●●delity , that they may adorn the Doctrine of God our Saviour , in all things , Tit. 2. 9 , 10. That Servant , who in an unbelievers ●amily , doth his work before God , as God's Ordinance , he shall adorn the Doctrine of God , if not save his Master ●y so doing ; but if he doth otherwise , ●e shall both stumble the Unbeliever , dishonour God , offend the Faithful , and ●●ting guilt upon his own Soul. Thirdly , For the froward Master ; ●hough I distinguish him from the unbe●iever , yet it is not because he may not be such , but because every unbeliever ●oth not properly go under that name . ●ow with this froward and peevish fel●ow , thou art to serve as faithfully for ●he time thou standest bound , as with ●e most pleasant and rational Master in ●●e world . Servants , saith Peter , be sub●●●t to your Masters , with all fear , not only to the good and gentle , but also to the ●●ward , 1 Pet. 2. 18. And if thy peev●● Master will still be froward , either 〈◊〉 of spite to thy Religion , or because he 〈◊〉 without reason concerning thy labo●● ( thou to the utmost of thy power labou●●ing faithfully ) God then reckoneth the●● a sufferer for well doing , as truly , as 〈◊〉 thou wast called upon the stage of th● world before men , for the matters of th● Faith. Wherefore Peter adds this 〈◊〉 couragement to Servants , to the exho●●tation he gave them before , This is tha● worthy , saith he , if a man for Conscien● toward God endureth grief , suffering wro●●fully ; for what glory is it , if when ye be bu● feted for your faults you take it patiently ▪ but if when you do well , and suffer for it , 〈◊〉 take it patiently , this is acceptable wit● God , 1 Pet. 2. 19 , 20. Wherefore be comforted concerni●● thy condition , with considering , that G●● looks upon thee , as on Jacob in the fa●●●ly of Laban ; & will right all thy wrong and recompence thee for thy faith●●● wise , and godly Behaviour , before , 〈◊〉 the service of thy froward Master . Wherefore be patient , I say , and abound 〈◊〉 thy faithfulness in thy place and cal●●g , till God make a way for thy escape ●●om this place ; and when thou mayest 〈◊〉 made free , use it rather , 1 Cor. 7. 21. Of Neighbours each to other . Having thus in few words shewed you ●●at is duty under your several Relati●●s , I shall now at last speak , in a word 〈◊〉 two , touching Good Neighbourhood , and ●●en draw towards a conclusion . Touching Neighbourhood , there are ●●ese things to be considered , and pra●●ised , if thou wilt be found in the pra●●ical part of Good Neighbourhood . First , Thou must be of a good & sound ●onversation in thy own family , place and ●●●tion , shewing to all , the power that the Gospel and the things of another World ●●th in thy heart , that ye may be blame●● and harmless , the Sons of God , without ●uke in the midst of a crooked and perverse ●●tion , among whom ye shine as lights in 〈◊〉 World , Phil. 2. 15 , 16. Secondly , As persons must be of 〈◊〉 behaviour at home , that will be go●● neighbours , so they must be full of co●●tesie and charity to them that have 〈◊〉 about them , Luke , 10. 36 , 37. Right good Neighbourhood , is 〈◊〉 men readily to communicate , as of the spirituals , so of their temporalities , 〈◊〉 food , raiment , and help to those that ha●● need , to be giving to the poor as th●● seest them go by thee , or to enquire a●●ther their condition , and according 〈◊〉 thy capacity to send unto them , Job 3● ▪ 15 , 16 , 17 , 18 , 19 , 20. Thirdly , Thou must be alwayes humble and meek among them , as also Gra● and Gracious , not light and frothy , 〈◊〉 by thy words and carriage , ministri● Grace to the hearers , Ephes. 4. 29. Thus also Job honoured God amo●● his Neighbours , Job 30. 6 , 7 , 8 , 9 , 1● ▪ 11. Fourthly , Thy wisdom will be , right● to discountenance sin , and to repro● thy neighbour for the same , Levit. 1● ▪ 17. denying thy self in some things , 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 preventing an injury to thy Neigh●●ur , that thou mayest please him for his ●●ification , Rom. 15. 2. Fifthly , If thou wouldst be a good neigh●●●r , take heed of thy tongue upon two ●●counts . ●1 . That thou with it give no offensive ●●guage to thy Neighbour , to the pro●●king of him to anger : bear much , put ●wrongs , and say little : It is an honor 〈◊〉 a man to cease from strife : but every 〈◊〉 will be medling , Prov. 20. 3. And a●●in , He loveth transgression that loveth ●ife , Prov. 17. 19. And as thou shouldst take heed that ●●ou be not be original of contention 〈◊〉 anger , so also take heed that thou be 〈◊〉 an instrument to beget it , between ●●ties , by a tale-bearing and gossopping●it : He that passeth by , and medleth with 〈◊〉 belonging not to him , is like one that ●●th a Dog by the eares . As coals are to ●●ning coals , and wood to fire ; so is a con●●ious man to kindle strife , Prov. 26. 17 , I do observe two things very odious in many Professors ; the one is a 〈◊〉 strong and stiff-necked spirit , that 〈◊〉 have its own way : and the other i● great deal of tatling and talk about ●●ligion , but a very little , if any thing● those Christian deeds that carry in 〈◊〉 the cross of a Christian in the doing 〈◊〉 of , and profit to my Neighbours . 1. When I say a head-strong , and 〈◊〉 necked spirit , I mean they are for pl●●sing themselves , and their own fanc●● in things of no weight , though their● doing , be as the very slaughter-knif● the weak Conscience of a Brother● Neighbour . Now this is base : a Ch●●stian in all such things , as intrench 〈◊〉 the matters of Faith and Worship , sho●● be full of Self-denyal , and seek to ple●● others rather than themselves ; giv● none offence to the Jew , nor to the Greek ▪ to the Church of God ; not seeking their 〈◊〉 profit , but the profit of many , that they 〈◊〉 be saved , 1 Cor. 10. 32 , 33. And the second is as bad , to wit , 〈◊〉 Professors are great pratlers , and ta●●ers , and disputers , but do little of 〈◊〉 ●hing that bespeaketh Love to the Poor , ●r Self-denyal in outward things . Some people think Religion is made up of words ; a very wide mistake : Words without deeds is but a half-faced Religi●n : Pure Religion , and undefilled before God , and the Father , is this , to visit the fa●herless and widows in their affliction , and to keep thy self unspotted from the World , ●am . 1. 27. Again , If a Brother or a Si●●er be destitute of daily food , and one of you ●ay unto them , depart in peace , be warmed ●nd filled ( which are very fine words ) yet ●f you give them not those things that are ne●essary to the body , what doth it profit ? Jam. ●2 . 15 , 16. Now then , before I go any further , I will hear take an occasion to touch a little upon those sins that are so rife in many Professors in this day ; and they ●●re Covetousness , Pride , and Uncleanness ; 〈◊〉 would speak a word to them in this place the rather , because they are they which spoile both Christian Brother-●ood , and civil Neighbourhood , in too ●reat a measure . First for Covetousness . 1. Covetousness , it is all one wi●● Desire ; he that desires , covets , wh●ther the thing he desires be evil 〈◊〉 good . Wherefore that which is called coveting in Exod. 20. 17. is called desire in Deut. 5. 21. As the Apostle also saith , I had not known lust , except the Law had said , Thou shalt not covet , Rom. 7. 7. that is , I had not known lust to be a sin , unless the Law had forbid it . Wherfore , though lawful desires are good ▪ 1 Cor. 12. 31. and to be commended yet Covetousness , as commonly understood ▪ is to be fled from , and abhorred , as of the Devil . 2 Covetousness or evil desire , it is the first mover , and giveth to every sin it● call , as I may say , both to move , and act : as was said before , the Apostle had not known sin , except the Law had said , Thou shalt not desire , or covet : for● where there is no desire to sin , there appears no sin . 3. Therefore Covetousness carrieth in it every sin ( we speak of sins against th● second Table ) even as a Serpent carri●eth her young ones in her belly . This the Scripture affirms , where it saith , Thou shalt not covet thy Neighbours wife , nor his man-servant , nor his maid-servant , ●nor his Ox , nor his Ass , nor any thing that 〈◊〉 is thy Neighbours , Exod. 20. 17. Covetousness will meddle with any thing . Now there are in my mind at present , these eight notes of covetousness , which hinder Good Works , and a Christian Conversation among men , wherever they are harboured . First , When men , to whom God hath given a comfortable livelyhood , are yet not content therewith : This is against the Apostle , where he saith , Let your conuersation be without covetousness , and be content with such things as you have ; for he hath said , I will never leave thee , nor forsake thee , Heb. 13. 5. Secondly , It is covetousness in the Seller , that puts him to say of his traffick , it is better than it is , that he may heighten the price of it : and covetousness in the Buyer , that prompts him to say worse of a thing , than he thinks in his Conscience it is , and that for an abatement of a reasonable price . This is that which the Apostle forbids , under the name of defraud , 1 Cor. 6. 7 , 8. and that which Solomon condemns , Prov. 20. 14. Thirdly , It is thorow covetousness , that men think much of that which goeth beside their own mouth , though possibly , it goeth to those that have more need than themselves , and also that better deserve it than they . Fourthly , It argueth covetousness when men will deprive themselves , and those under them , of the priviledges of the Gospel , for more of this world , and is condemned by Christ , Luk. 14. 18 , 19 , 20. Fifthly , It argueth covetousness , when men that have it , can go by , or hear of the poor , and shut up their bowels and compassions from them , 1 John 3. 17. Sixthly , Also when men are convinced it is their duty to communicate to such and such that have need , yet they defer it , and if not quite forget it yet linger away the time , as being loth to distribute to the necessities of those in want . This is forbidden by the holy Ghost ; Withhold not good from them to whom it is due , when it is in the power of thy hand to do it . Now , it is due from thee to the poor by the Commandment of God ; if they want , and thou hast it , Say not then to thy Neighbour , Go , and come again to morrow , and I will give , when thou hast it by thee , Prov. 3. 27 , 28. Seventhly , It argueth a greedy mind also , when after men have cast in their minds at the first what to give , they then from that will be pinching , and cliping , and taking away ; whereas the holy Ghost saith , Every one , as he purposeth in his heart , so let him give , not grudgingly , nor of necessity ; for God loveth a chearful giver , 2 Cor. 9. 7. Lastly , It argueth a filthy greedy heart also , when a man , after he hath done any good , then in his heart to repent , and secretly wish that he had not so done , or at least , that he had not done so much ▪ this is to be weary of well-doing ( I spe●● now of communicating ) and carrieth in it two evils . First , It spoileth the work done ; And secondly , It ( if entertained ) spoileth the heart for doing any more so . The vile person shall be no more called liberal , nor the Churle said to be bountiful ; for the liberal deviseth liberal things , and by liberal things he shall stand , Isa. 32. 6 , 8. Now then , to diswade all from this poisonous Sin , observe that above all sins , in the New Testament , this is called Idolatry , Ephes. 5. 5. Col. 3. 5. And therefore God's People should be so far from being taken with it , that they should be much afraid of the naming of it one among another , lest it should , as adultrous thoughts , infect the heart by the talking of it , Ephes. 5. 3. Quest. But why is Covetousness called Idolatry ? Answ. 1. Because it ingageth the very heart of a man in it , to mind earthly things : it gets our love which should be set on God , and sets it upon poor empty creatures : it puts our affections out of Heaven , where they should be , and sets them on Earth , where they should not be , Ezek. 33. 31. Phil. 3. 18 , 19. Col. 3. 1 , 2 , 3. Thus it changeth the object on which the heart should be set , and setteth it on that on which it should not : it makes a man forfake God , The Fountain of living water , and causeth him to hew to himself cisterns , broken cisterns , which can hold no water , Jer. 2. 11 , 12 , 13. For , 2. It rejecteth the care , government , and providence of God towards us , and causeth us to make of our own care and industry , a god ; to whom , instead of God , we fly continually , both for the keeping that we have , and for getting more . This was Israels Idolatry of old , and the original of all her idolatrous practices , Hos. 2. 5. For their Mother hath played the Harlot ( that is , committed idolatry ) she that conceived them , hath done shamefully : for she said , I will go after my lovers that gave me my bread , and my waters , my wool , and my flax , my oyl , and my drink . 3. It disalloweth of God's way of disposing his Creatures , and would have them ordered and disposed of otherwise then his heavenly Wisdom seeth meet : and hence ariseth all those discontents about God's dealing with us . Covetousness , never yet said , It is the lord , let him do what he pleaseth ; but is ever objecting , like God , against every thing that goeth against it ; and it is that which , like a god , draweth away the heart and soul from the true God , and his Son Jesus Christ : And he went away sorrowful , for he had great possessions , Mat. 19. 16 , 17 , 18 , 19 , 20 , 21 , 22. Now then , that which engageth the heart , that rejecteth the providence of God , and that is for ordering and disposing of things contrary to God ; and for breaking with God upon these terms , is Idolatry : and all these do Covetousness . The wicked boasteth of his hearts desire , and blesseth the covetous , whom the Lord abhorreth , Psal. 10. 3. Now the way to remedy this disease , it is to learn the lesson which Paul had got by heart ; to wit , In whatsoever state you are , therewith to be content , Phil. 4. 11 , 12 , 13. I come in the second place to speak a word of Pride , and loftiness of heart and life . Of Pride . 1. Pride in general , it is , That which causeth a man to think of man , and his things , above what is written , 1 Cor. 4. 6. 2. It hath its seat in the heart among these inormities , Fornications , Adulteries , Lasciviousness , Murders , Deceit , &c. Mark 7. 21 , 22 , 23. and sheweth it self in these following particulars . First , When you slight this or that person , though gracious ; that is , look over them , and shun them for their poverty in this world , and chuse rather to have converse with others , that possibly are less gracious , because of their greatness in this World. This the Apostle James writes against , Jam. 2. 1 , 2 , 3. under the name of partiality ; for indeed the fruits of a puffed-up heart , is to deal in this manner with Christians , 1 Cor. 4. 6 , 7. Now this branch of Pride floweth from ignorance of the vanity of the creature , and of the worth of a gracious heart : Wherefore get more of the knowledge of these two , and this sprig will be nipt in the head , and you will learn to condescend to men of low degree , Rom. 12. 16. Secondly , It argueth pride of heart , when men will not deny themselves in things that they may , for the good and profit of their Neighbours . And it argueth now , that pride is got so much up into self-love , and self-pleasing , that they little care who they grieve or offend , so they may have their way , Obad. 12. 13 , 14 , 15. Thirdly , It argueth pride of heart , when sober reproofs for sin , and unbeseeming ▪ carriages , will not down with thee , but that rather thou snuffest , and givest way to thy spirit to be peevish , and to retain prejudice against those that thus reprove thee . Saith the Prophet , hear ye , and give ear , be not proud ; for the Lord hath spoken ; that is , hear the reproofs of God for your sins , and break them off by repentance : But if ye will not hear , my soul shall weep in secret for your Pride , &c. Jer. 13. 15 , 16 , 17. So also in Hosea , They will not frame their doing to turn unto their God ; for the spirit of whoredoms is in the midst of them ; they have not known the Lord ; and the pride of Israel doth testifie to his face , &c. Hos. 5. 4 , 5. This argueth great senslesness of God , and a heart greatly out of frame . Fourthly , It argueth Pride also , when a reproof or admonition will not down aswell from the poorest Saint , as from the greatest Doctor ; and it argueth a glorying in men , 1 Cor. 3. 21. and that they would , that their faith should stand in their wisdom , and not in the Power of God , that is , of naked Truth , 1 Cor. 2. 5. Fifthly , It argueth pride of heart , when a man that hath this or that in his heart to do , in reference to God , but yet will slight a sober asking counsel and direction of God in this matter . The wicked , through the pride of his countenance ▪ will not seek after God , saith David , Psal. 10. 4. Sixthly , It argueth pride of heart , when persons are tickled with the thoughts of their own praise , and that secretly lust after it ; that think of themselves and others above what is written ; which those do , who do not acknowledge that man in his best estate is altogether vanity : But such kind of people have forgot the Exhortation ; Be not high minded , but fear , Rom. 11. 20. And also , that there is a knowledge that puffeth up , and edifieth neither themselves nor others , 1 Cor. 8. 1 , 2. Wherefore , to such the Apostle saith , Be not desirous of vain glory , but in holiness of mind , let each esteem others better than themselves , Phil. 2. 3. Gal. 5. 26. Pride also there is in the outward carriage , behaviour and Gesture , which is odious for Christians to be tainted with ; and this pride is discovered by mincing words , a made carriage , and an affecting the toyes and baubles that Satan and every light-headed fool bringeth into the world . As God speaketh of the Daughters of Zion , They walk with stretched-out necks , wanton eyes , mincing as they go , and making a tinckling with their feet , Isa. 3. 16. A very unhansome carriage for a people that profess Godliness , and that use to come before God to confess their sins , and to bemove themselves for what they have done : How can a sence of thy own baseness of the vileness of thy heart , and of the holiness of God , stand with such a carriage ? dost thou see the vileness of thy heart , the fruit of sin ? and art thou afflicted with that disagreement that is between God and thy heart , that layest the reins on the neck of thy lusts , and letest them run whither they will ? Be not deceived ; Pride ariseth from ignorance of these things , 1 Tim. 6. 3 , 4. A sense of my vileness , of what I have deserved , and of what continually in my heart opposeth God , cannot stand with a foolish , light and wanton carriage : thou wilt then see , there is other things to mind than to imitate the Butter-fly : alas , all these kind of things , are but a painting the Devil , and a setting a carnal gloss upon a Castle of his ; thou art but making gay the spider ; is thy heart ever the sounder for thy fine gate , thy mincing words , and thy lofty looks ? nay , doth not this argue , that thy heart is a rotten ▪ cankered , and besotted heart ? Oh! that God would but let thee see a little of thy own inside , as thou hast others to behold thy outside : thou painted Sepulchre ; thou whited Wall , will these things be found vertues in the day of God ? or , is this the way that thou takest to mortifie sin ? A high look , a proud heart , and the plowing of the wicked , is sin , Prov. 21. 4. Pride is the ring-leader of the seven abominations that the Wise man nameth , Prov. 6. 16 , 17. and is that above all , that causeth to fall into the condemnation of the Devil , 1 Tim. 3. 6. Of Adultery or Uncleanness . Now I come in the last place to touch a word or two of Adultery , and then to draw towards a conclusion . Adultery , it hath its place in the heart among the rest of those filthinesses , I mentioned before Mark 7. 21 , 22. of which sin I observe two things . First , That almost , in every place where the Apostle layeth down a catalogue of wickednesses , he layeth down Adultery , Fornication , and Uncleanness in the front ; as that in Mark 7. 21. Rom. 1. 29. 1 Cor. 6. 9. Gal. 5. 19. Ephes. 5. 3 1 Thes. 4. 3 , 4 , 5. Heb. 12. 16. Jam. 2. 11. 1 Pet. 2. 11. 2 Pet. 2. 10. From this I gather , that the Sin of Uncleanness is a very predominant and master Sin , easie to overtake the sinner , as being one of the first that is ready to offer it self at all occasions , to break the Law of God. Secondly , I observe , that this sin is committed unawares to many , even so soon as a man hath but looked upon a woman . I say unto you , saith Christ , that whosoever looketh on a woman to lust , or desire after her , he hath already committed Adultery with her in his heart , Mat. 5. 28. This sin of uncleanness , I say , is a very taking sin , it is natural above all sins to mankind ; and as it is most natural , so it wanteth not tempting occasions , having objects for to look on in every corner : wherefore there is need of a double and trible watchfulness in the soul against it . It is better here to make a covenant with our eyes , like Job , ( Job 31. 1. ) than to let them wander to God's dishonour , and our own discomfort . There are these three things which discover a man or woman too much inclining to the uncleanness of their own heart . The first is a wanton eye , or an eye that doth secretly effect it self with such objects as are tickling of the heart with the thoughts of immodesty and uncleanness . Isaiah calls this a wanton eye ; and Peter , an eye full of adultery , that cannot cease from sin , 2 Pet. 2. 14. Isa. 3. 16. This is that also which Christ calleth , an evil eye ; and John , the lust of the flesh , and of the eyes , and doth defile those who are not very watchful over their own hearts , Mark 7. 22. 1 John 2. 16. This wanton eye , is that which the most holy Saints should take heed of , because it is apt to seize upon them also . When Paul bids Timothy beseech the younger women to walk as becomes the Gospel , ●e bids him do it with all Purity : as who should say , take heed that while thou instructest them to holiness , thou thy self be not corrupted with the lust of thy eye , 1 Tim. 5. 1 , 2. Oh! how many souls in the day of God , will curse the day that ever they gave way to a wanton eye ! 2. The second thing that discovereth one much inclining to the lusts of uncleanness , it is wanton and immodest talk ; such as that brazen-faced Whore , in the seventh of the Proverbs , had ; or such as they in Peter , who allured , through the lust if the flesh , through much wantonness , those who were clean escaped from them , who live in error , 2 Pet. 2. 18. Out of the abun●ance of the heart the mouth speaketh : wherefore if we be Saints , let us take heed , as of our eye , so of our tongue , and let not the lust of uncleanness , or of adultery , be once named among us , named among us as becometh Saints , Ephes. 5. 3. Mark : let it not be once named . This implies , that the lusts of uncleanness are devilishly taking ; 〈◊〉 will both take the heart with eyes 〈◊〉 tongue ; Let it not be once named amo●● you , &c. Thirdly , Another thing that bespea●● a man or a woman inclining to wantonness & uncleanness , it is an adornin● themselves in light and wanton Appar●● The attire of an Harlot is too frequentl● in our day , the attire of Professors ; 〈◊〉 vile thing , and argueth much wantonness and vileness of affections . If those that give way to a wanton eye , wanton words , and immodest apparel , be no● Whores , &c. in their hearts , I know n●● what to say . Doth a wanton eye argue shamfacedness ? doth wanton talk argue chastity ? and doth immodest apparel with stretched-out necks , naked breasts a made speech , and mincing gates , &c. argue mortification of lusts ? If any say that these things may argue pride aswell as carnal lusts . We●● but why are they proud ? is it not 〈◊〉 trick up the body ? And why do they 〈◊〉 pride trick up the body , if it be no● 〈◊〉 provoke both themselves and others 〈◊〉 lusts : God knoweth their hearts without their outsides ; and we know their hearts by their outsides . My Friends , I am hear treating of Good Works , and perswading you to fly those things that are henderances to them : wherefore bear with my plainness when I speak against Sin ; I would strike it through with every word , because else it will strike us through with many sorrows , 1 Tim. 6. 9 , 10. I do not treat of Good Works , as if the doing of them would save us ( for we are justified by his Grace according to the hope of Eternal Life ) yet our sins and evil works will lay us obnoxious to the Judgements both of God and man. He that walketh not uprightly , according to the truth of the Gospel , is like to have his peace assaulted often , both by the Devil , the Law , Death and Hell ; yea , and 〈◊〉 like to have God hide his face from him also , for the iniquity of his covetousness , Isa. 57. 17. How can he that carrieth himself basely in the sight of men , think he yet we●● behaveth himself in the sight of God and if so dim a light as is in man , 〈◊〉 justly count thee as a transgressor , 〈◊〉 shall thy sins be hid from Him , whose ey●● lids try the Children of men ? Psal. 11. 〈◊〉 . 'T is true , Faith without works justifies us before God : yet that Faith th● is alone , will be found to leave us sinne● in the sight both of God and man , Rom● 28. & 4. 5. Jam. 2. 18. And though th● addest nothing to that which saveth th● by what thou canst do , yet thy righteousness may profit the Son of man , 〈◊〉 also saith the Text ; but if thou shalt 〈◊〉 so careless as to say , what care I for bei●● righteous to profit others ; I tell thee that the love of God is not in thee , J●● 35. 18. 1 Joh 3. 17. 1 Cor. 13. 1 , 2 , 3. Walk therefore in Gods wayes , and 〈◊〉 them , for this is your wisdom and y●● understanding in the sight of the N●●ons , which shal hear of all these statut● and say , This great Nation is a wise 〈◊〉 understanding People , Deut. 4. 6. The Third Observation . Every Believer should not only take ●●ed that their works be good , and so for 〈◊〉 present do them , but should careful●● study to maintain them ; that is , to ●●ep in a continual exercise of them . It is an easier matter to begin to do ●od , than it is to continue therein : and 〈◊〉 reason is , there is not so much of 〈◊〉 Christians cross in the beginning of a ●ork , as there is in a continual , hearty , ●●nscientious practice thereof . There●●●e Christians have need , as to be pres●●● to do good , so to continue the work ; ●an by nature , is rather a hearer than a ●er , Athenian like , continually listing after some new thing ; seeing ma●y things , but observing nothing , Acts , 〈◊〉 20 , Isa. 42. 20. It is observable , that ●er Christ had divided his hearers into ●●u parts , he condemned three of them 〈◊〉 fruitless hearers , Luke , 8. 5 , 6 , 7 , 8. ●h ! it is hard continuing believing , con●●nuing loving , continuing resisting all that opposeth : we are subject to be we●ry of well-doing , Gal. 6. 9. to pluck o● right eyes , to cut of right hands 〈◊〉 right feet , is no pleasant thing to fle●● and blood ; and yet none but these sh●● have the Promise of Life , because no● but these will be found to have the effectual work of God's Grace in their soul● If ye continue in my Word , then are you 〈◊〉 Disciples [ indeed ] Mat. 18. 8 , 9. & 24. 〈◊〉 John 8. 31. And hence it is that you 〈◊〉 so many ifs in the Scripture about me● happiness ; as if you be Sons , then He●● and if you continue in the Faith ; and we hold the beginning of our confiden● stedfast to the end , Rom. 8. 17. Col. 1. 2● Heb. 3. 14. not that their continuing the way of God is the cause of the 〈◊〉 being right , but the work being right ca●seth the continuance therein : As 〈◊〉 saith in another place , They went out 〈◊〉 us , because they were not of us ; for had 〈◊〉 been of us , [ no doubt ] saith he , they 〈◊〉 have continued with us , 1 John 2. 19. But I say , where the work of God 〈◊〉 deed is savingly begun , even there 〈◊〉 , corruption , and the body of death ●oppose it : Therefore should Christi●●s take heed , and look that against these ●●posites , they maintain a continual ●●urse of Good Works among men . Besides , as there is that in our own ●●wels that opposeth goodness , so there is 〈◊〉 Tempter , the wicked one , both to ●●imate these lusts , and to joyn with ●●em in every assault against every ap●●rance of God in our souls . And hence ●is that he is called the Devil , the Ene●● , the Destroyer , and him that seeks con●●nually to devour us , 1 Pet. 5. 8. I need say no more but this , He that ●ill walk like a Christian indeed , as he ●all find it is requisit , that he continue 〈◊〉 Good Works ; so his continuing there●● , will be opposed : if therefore he will ●●ntinue therein , he must make it his ●●finess , to study how to oppose those ●at oppose such a life , that he may con●●nue therein . Now then to help in this , here fitly ●●mes in the last Observation ; to wit , 〈◊〉 That the best way both to provoke our selves and others to Good Works , it 〈◊〉 be often affirming to others , The Doc●●● of Justification by Grace , and to believ● our selves . This is a faithful Saying 〈◊〉 these things I will that thou affirm const●●●ly , that those which have believed in 〈◊〉 might be careful to maintain Good Work●● I told you before , that Good Works 〈◊〉 flow from Faith : and now I tell 〈◊〉 that the best way to be fruitful in th●● is to be much in the exercise of the ●●●ctrine of Justification by Grace ; and 〈◊〉 both agree : for as Faith animate● Good Works , so the Doctrine of Grace ●●●mates Faith : Wherefore , the way t● rich in Good Works , it is to be ric● Faith ; and the way to be rich in Fa●● is to be conscientiously affirming the ●●●ctrine of Grace to others , and believing 〈◊〉 our selves . First , To be constantly affirming i● others . Thus Paul tells Timothy , th●● he put the Brethren in mind of the Tr●● of the Gospel , he himself should not ●●●ly be a good Minister of Christ , but sh●●● be nourished up in the words of Faith 〈◊〉 of good Doctrine , 1 Tim. 4. 6. It is the Ordinance of God , that Chri●●●ans should be often asserting the things 〈◊〉 God each to others ; and that by their 〈◊〉 doing , they should edifie one ano●●●r , Heb. 10. 24 , 25. 1 Thes. 5. 11. The Doctrine of the Gospel is like the 〈◊〉 , and the small Rain , that distilleth ●n the tender grass , wherewith it doth ●rish , and is kept green , Deut. 32. 1● Christians are like the several flowers 〈◊〉 Garden , that have upon each of them 〈◊〉 Dew of Heaven , which being sha●● with the Wind , they let fall their 〈◊〉 at each others roots , whereby they 〈◊〉 joyntly nourished , and become nou●ers of one another . For Christians to commune savorily of 〈◊〉 's matters one with another , it is as ●hey opened to each others Nostrils ●●es of perfume . Saith Paul to the ●●rch at Rome , I long to see you , that I 〈◊〉 impart unto you some spiritual Gift , to ●nd you may be established ; that is , that 〈◊〉 be comforted together with you , by the ●●al Faith both of you and me , Rom 1. ●●2 . Christians should be often affirm●●● the Doctrine of Grace , and Justification 〈◊〉 it , one to another . Secondly , As they should be thus do●ing , so they should live in the power of i● themselves ; they should by Faith suc● and drink in this Doctrine , as the goo● ground receiveth the Rain ; which bein● done , forthwith there is proclaimed G●● Works . Paul to the Colossians saith th●● We give thanks to God , and the Father our Lord Jesus Christ , praying alwayes f●● you , since we heard of your Faith in the L●● Jesus , and love to all the Saints : 〈◊〉 the hope which is laid up in Heaven for y●● whereof ye heard before in the Word of 〈◊〉 Truth of the Gospel , which is come un●● you , as it is also in all the World , and brin●●eth forth fruit as it doth also in you . 〈◊〉 how long ago ? Why , since the day ye h●● it , saith he , and knew the Grace of God Truth , Col. 1. 3 , 4 , 5 , 6. Aples and Flowers are not made the Gardner , but are an effect of 〈◊〉 planting and watering : plant in the ●●●ner good Doctrine , and let it be wa●●●d with the Word of Grace ; and as the effect of that , there is the fruits of Holiness , and the end everlasting Life , Rom. 6. 22. Good Doctrine is the Doctrine of the Gospel , which sheweth to men that God cloatheth them with the * Righteousness of his Son , freely , and maketh him with ●ll his benefits over to them ; by which free gift the sinner is made righteous be●ore God ; and because he is so , there●ore there is infused a principle of Grace * ●nto the heart , whereby it is both quick●ed , and bringeth forth fruit * Rom. 3. ●1 , 22 , 23 , 24 , 25. 1 Cor. 1. 30. 2 Cor. 5. ●1 . * John 1. 16. Now then , seeing Good Works do flow ●om Faith , and seeing Faith is nourished 〈◊〉 an affirming of the Doctrine of the ●ospel , &c. take here these few Consi●rations from the Doctrine of the Gos●●l , for the support of thy Faith , that ●ou mayest be indeed fruitful and rich 〈◊〉 Good Works . First , The whole Bible was given for 〈◊〉 very end , that thou shouldst both believe this Doctrine , and live in th● comfort and sweetness of it : For wha● soever things was written afore-time , w●● written for our learning , that we through patience and comfort of the Scriptures might have hope , Rom. 15. 4. John 20. 31. Secondly , That therefore every Promise in the Bible is thine , to strengthen , quicken , and incourage thy heart in believing . Thirdly , Consider that there is nothing that thou dost , can so please God as believing : The Lord takes pleasure in tho● that fear him , in them that hope in his me●cy , Psal. 147. 11. They please him , because they imbrac● his Righteousness , &c. Fourthly , Consider that all the with drawings of God from thee , are not f●● the weakening , but for the tryal of th● faith ; and also , that what-ever he su●fereth Satan , or thy own heart , to do , 〈◊〉 is not to weaken Faith , Job 23. 8 , 9 , ● 1 Pet. 1. 7. Fifthly , Consider , that believing● that which will keep in thy view 〈◊〉 things of Heaven , and Glory ; and that ●t which the Devil wil be discouraged , sin weakned , and thy heart quickned and sweetned , Heb. 11. 27. Jam. 4. 7. 1 Pet. 5. 9. Ephes. 6. 16. Rom. 15. 13. Lastly , By believing , the Love of God is kept with warmth upon the heart , and that this will provoke thee continually to bless God for Christ , for Grace , for Faith , Hope , and for all these things , either in God , or thee , that doth accompany Salvation , 2 Cor. 2. 14. Psal. 103. 1 , 2 , 3 , 4. The Doctrine of the forgiveness of sins received by Faith , will make notable work in the heart of a sinner , to bring forth Good Works . But secondly , For as much as there is body of Death and Sin in every one that hath the Grace of God in this world ; and because this body of death will be even opposing that which is good , as the ●postle saith , Rom. 7. 21. therefore take these few particulars further , for the suppo●sing that which will hinder a fruitful life . ● Keep a continual wa●th over the wretchedness of thy own heart ( not to be discouraged at the sight of thy vileness ) but to prevent its wickedness ; for that will labour either to hinder thee from doing Good Works , or else will hinder thee in the doing thereof ; for evil is present with thee for both these pu●poses ; take heed , then , that thou do not ●●sten to that at any time , but deny , though with much strugling , the workings of 〈◊〉 to the contrary . 2. Let this be continually before thy heart , that God's eye is upon thee , and seeth every secret turning of thy heart ▪ either to or from him : All things are ●●ked and bare before the eyes of Him w●● whom we have to do , Heb. 4. 13. 3. If thou deny to do that good whic● thou oughtest , with what thy God 〈◊〉 given thee ; then consider , that though● 〈◊〉 love thy soul , yet he can chastise ; 〈◊〉 thy●inward man with such troubles , 〈◊〉 thy life shall be restless and comfort●● 2dly . And can also so blow upon thy 〈◊〉 ward man , that all thou gettest , sh●● put in a Bag with holes , Psal. 89. 31 , ●● 33. Hag. 1. 6. And set the case he should license but one Theef among thy Substance , or one spark of Fire among thy Barns , how quickly might that be spent ill , and against thy will , which thou shouldst have spent to God's glory , and with thy will ? and I tell thee further , that if thou want a heart to do good when thou hast about thee , thou mayest want comfort in such things thy self from others , when thine is taken from thee . See Judg. 1. 6 , 7. 4. Consider that a life full of Good Works , is the only way , on thy part , to answer the Mercy of God extended to thee ; God hath had mercy on thee , and hath saved thee from all thy distresses ; God hath not stuck to give thee his Son , his Spirit , and the Kingdom of Heaven : saith Paul , I beseech you therefore by the Mercies of God , that you present your bodies a living Sacrifice to God , holy , acceptable , which is your reasonable service , Rom. 12. 1. See Mat. 18. 32 , 33. 5. Consider that this is the way to convince all men , that the Power of God's things hath taken hold of thy heart ( I speak to them that hold the head ) and say what thou wilt , if thy faith be not accompanied with a holy Life , thou shalt be judged a withered branch , a wording professor , salt without savour , and as lifeless as a sounding Brass , and a tinckling Cymbal , Joh. 15. Mat. 5. 13. 1 Cor. 13. 1 , 2. For , say they , shew us your faith by your works , for we cannot see your hearts , Jam. 2. 18. But I say on the contrary , if thou walk as becomes thee who art saved by Grace , then thou wilt witness in every mans Conscience , that thou art a good Tree ; now thou leavest guilt on the heart of the wicked , 1 Sam. 24. 16 , 17. now thou takest off occasion from them that desire occasion , and now thou art clear from the blood of all men , 2 Cor. 11. 12. Acts 20. 26 , 31 , 32 , 33 , 34. This is the Man also that provoketh others to Good Works : The ear that heareth such a man , shall bless him ; and the eye that seeth him , shall bear witness to him . Surely , saith David , he shall never 〈◊〉 moved : The Righteous shall be had in eve● lasting remembrance , Heb. 10. 24. Job 29. 11. Psal. 112. 6. 6. Again , the heart that is fullest of Good Works , hath in it least room for Satans temptations ; and this is the meaning of Peter , where he saith , Be sober , be vigilant ; that is , be busying thy self in Faith and Holiness , for the Devil , your adversary , goeth about like a roaring Lyon , seeking whom he may devour , 1 Pet. 5. 8. He that walketh uprightly , walketh safely ; and they that add to Faith , Vertue ; to Vertue , Knowledge ; to Knowledge , Temperance ; to Temperance , Brotherly-kindness ; and to ●hese Charity , and that abounds therein , he shall neither be barren nor unfruitful ; he shall never fall , but so an entrance shall be ministred to him abundantly , into the everlasting Kingdom of our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ , 2 Pet. 1. 5 , 6 , 7 , 8 , 9 , 10. Prov. 10. 9. 7. The Man who is fullest of Good Works , he is fittest to live , and fittest to die : I am now ( at any time ) ready to be offered up , saith fruitful Paul , 2 Tim. 4. 6. Whereas he that is barren , he is neither fit to live , nor fit to dye : to dye , he himself is convinced he is not fit ; and to live , God himself saith he is not fit ; Cut him down , why doth he cumber the ground ? Luke 13. 7. Lastly , Consider , to provoke thee to Good Works , thou shalt have of God , when thou comest to Glory , a reward for every thing thou dost for him on Earth . Little do the People of God consider , how richly God will reward , what from a right principle , and to a right end , is done for Him here ; not a bit of bread to the poor , nor a draught of water to the meanest of them that belong to Christ , or the loss of a hair of your head , shall in that day go without its reward , Luke 14. 13 , 14. Mat. 10. 42. For this light affliction ( and so all other pieces of self-denyal ) which is but for a moment , worketh out for us a far more exceeding and eternal weight of Glory , 2 Cor. 4. 17. I tell thee Christian , be but rich in Good Works , and thou shalt have more then Salvation ; thy Salvation thou hast freely by Grace through Christ , without works , Ephes. 2. 8 , 9 , 10. but now being justified and saved , and as the fruits hereof , reviewed by the holy Ghost ; after this , I say , thou shalt be rewarded for every work that proves good ; For God is not unrighteous to forget your works and labour of love , which you have shewed to his Name , in that you have ministred to his Saints , and do minister , Heb. 6. 10. 1 Cor. 3. 14. Moses counted the reward that he was to have , for a short suffering with the People of God , of greater worth , than the Treasures of Egypt , the smiles of the King , or the honour of his Kingdom , Heb. 11. 25 , 26 , 27. In a word , Let the disappointments that do and shall most surely befal the fruitless Professors , provoke thee to look with all diligence to thy standing . For First , Such a one is but deceived and disappointed touching the Work of Grace he supposeth to be in his heart , he thinks he is a Christian , and hath Grace , as Faith , Hope , and the like , in his soul , yet no fruits of these things manifest themselves in him ; indeed his tongue is tipt with a talk and tattle of Religion ; poor man , poor empty man ! faith without works is dead ; thy hope shall be as the giving up of the Ghost ; thy gifts with which thy soul is possessed , are but such as are common to Reprobates ; thou art therfore disappointed , God reputeth thee still but wicked , though thou comest and goest to the place of the Holy , Jam. 2. 19 , 20. Job 11. 20. 1 Cor. 13. 1 , 2 , 3. Secondly , Therefore all thy joy and comfort must needs fall short of saving comfort , and so leave thee in the su●● notwithstanding ; thy joy is the joy 〈◊〉 the * Pharisees , and thy gladness as th●● of * Herod ; and the longest time it can last , it is but a Scripture * moment * Joh. 5. 33. * Mark 6. 20. * Job 20. 5. Alas , in all thy gladness and content with thy Religion , thou art but like the Boy that plays with Brass instead of Gold ; and with Counters instead of that which will go for currant Coin : Thus , if a man think himself to be something , when he is nothing , he deceiveth or disappoints himself , Gal. 6. 3. Thirdly , This is not all , but look thou certainly for an eternal disappointment in the Day of God , for it must be ; thy lamp will out at the first sound the trump of God shall make in thine ears ; thou canst not hold up at the appearance of the Son of God in his Glory ; His very looks will be to thy profession , as a strong wind is to a blinking candle , and thou shalt be left only to smoak . Oh the alteration that will befall a foolish virgin ! she thought she was happy , and that she should have received happiness with those that were right at the heart ; but behold the contrary , her lamp is going out , she is now to seek for saving Grace , when the time of Grace is over ; her Heaven she thought of ▪ is proved a Hell , and her God is proved a Devil ; God hath cast her out of his presence , and claps the door upon her ; she pleads her profession , and the like , and she hath for her answer repulses from Heaven : So are the pat● of all that forget God , and the Hypocrit● hope shall perish ; whose hope shal be cut off , and whose trust shall be the Spiders web ; though he lean upon his house , it shall not stand , he shall hold it fast , but it shall not indure , Mat. 25. 1 , 2 , 3 , 4 , 5 , 6 , 7 , 8 , 9. Luke 13. 25 , 26 , 27 , 28. Job 8. 13 , 14 , 15. Take heed therefore ; thy Soul , Heaven and Eternity , lies at stake ; yea , they turn either to thee or from thee upon the hinge of thy Faith ; if it be right , all is thine ; if wrong , then all is lost , however thy hopes and expectations are to the contrary ; For in Christ Jesus neither Circumcision availeth any thing , nor Uncircumcision , but Faith which worketh by Love : Let no man therefore deceive you with vain words , for because of these things , cometh the wrath of God upon the Children of unbelief : For the Earth that drinketh in the rain that cometh oft upon it , and bringeth forth Herbs meet for them by whom it is dressed , receiveth blessing from God ; but that which beareth Briars and Thornes , is [ rejected ] and is nigh unto cursing , whose ●nd is to be burned , Gal. 5. 6. Ephes. 5. 3 , 4 , 5 , 6. Heb. 6. 7 , 8. Objection . But what shall I do , who am so cold , slothful and heartless , that I cannot find any heart to do any work for God in this World ; indeed time was when his Dew rested all ●ight upon my branches , and when I could with desire , with earnest desire , be doing and working for God ; but alas now 't is ●therwise . Answer . If this be true , thy case is sad , thou art to be pittied , the Lord pitty thee ; ●nd for thy recovery out of this condi●ion , I would give thee no other counsel than was given to Ephesus , when she ●ad lost her first Love ; Remember , ●aith Christ , from whence thou art fallen , ●nd repent , and do thy first Works , &c. Rev. 2.5 . Mark : Thy first Works , is , to enter into a serious considering and remembrance from whence thou art fallen : remember that thou hast left thy God , the stay of thy Soul , and Him without whom there is no stay , comfort , or strength , for thee to either do or suffer any thing in this World : Without me , saith He , you can do nothing , John 15. 5. A sad condition ; the remembrance of this , for certain , is the first step to the recovering a back-sliding heart ; for the right remembrance of this doth bring to mind , what loss that sou● hath sustained that is in this condition , how it hath lost its former visits , smiles and consolations of God : whe● thy Conscience was suppled with the Blood of thy Saviour ; when every step thou tookest , was , as it were , in Honey and Butter , and when thy heart could meditate terrour with comfort , Job 29 ▪ 2 , 3 , 4 , 5 , 6. Isa. 33. 14 , 15 , 16 , 17 , 18 ▪ Instead of which , thou feelest darkness hardness of heart , and the thoughts o● God are terrible to thee , Psal. 77. 3 ▪ now God never visits thee , or if h● doth , it is but as a wayfaring-man , th● tarryeth but for a night , Jer. 14 , 8 , 9. This also brings to mind , how the case 〈◊〉 altered with thee , touching thy confidence in God for thy future happiness , ●ow uncertain thou now art of thy hopes for Heaven , how much this life doth ●ang in doubt before thee , Deut. 28. 65 , 66. 2. Remember therefore from whence thou art fallen , and repent . ] These are words well put together ; for a solid considering of what I have lost in my declining , will provoke in my heart a sorrow and godly heaviness , whereby I shall be forced to bemoan my condition , and say , I will go and return to my first Husband , for then it was better with me than now , Hos. 2. 7. And beleive it , the reason of God's standing off from giving thee comfortable communion with himself , it is , that thou mightest first see the difference between sticking close to God , and forsaking of him ; and next , that thou mightest indeed acknowledge thy offence , and seek his face , Hos. 5. 15. he taketh no pleasure in thy forlorn condition ; he had rather thou shouldst have Him in thy bosome , only he will have it i● his own Way : He looketh down upon men , and if any say , I have sinned and perverted that which is right , and i● profiteth me not , then he will deliver his soul from going down into the Pit , and his life shall see the Light , Job 33. 27 , 28. 3. Remember from whence thou art fallen , and repent , and do thy first Works . ] As there should be a remembring and a repenting , so there should be a hearty doing our first Works ; a believing as before ; a laying hold of the things of Heaven and Glory , as at the first ; for now is God returned to thee as before , Zech. 1. 16. and though thou mayest , through the loss of thy locks , with Sampson , be weak at the first , yet in short time thy hair will grow again ; that is , thy former experience will in short space be as long , large and strong as in the former times ; indeed at the first thou wilt find all the wheels of thy soul rusty , and all the strings of thy heart out 〈◊〉 tune ; as also , when thou first beginnest to stir , the dust and filth of thy ●art will , like smoak , trouble thee ●m that clear beholding the Grace of thy God , and his Love to thy Soul ; ●t yet wait , and go on , and though you findest thy self as unable to do ●y thing as thou formerly couldst , ●t I say , up and be doing , and the ●ord will be with thee , for he hath ●t despised the day of thy small things , 〈◊〉 Chron. 22. 16. Zech. 4. 10. I know thou wilt be afflicted with a thousand temptations to drive thee to despair , that thy Faith may be faint , &c. ●t against all them set thou the Word 〈◊〉 God , the Promise of Grace , the blood of Christ , and the Examples of God's Goodness to the great Back●●ders , that are for thy encouragement ●corded in the Scriptures of Truth ; ●d remember , that turning to God ●er back-sliding , is the greatest piece 〈◊〉 service thou canst do for him , and 〈◊〉 greatest honour thou canst bring to 〈◊〉 Blood of Christ ; and know further , that God , to shew his willing re●ception of so unworthy a creature , saith There shall be joy in Heaven at thy Co●●version to him again , Luke 15. 7 , 10. To Conclude . If thou yet , notwistanding wh● hath been said , dost remain a Bac●●slider . First , Then remember that tho● must die ; and remember also , th● when the Terrours of God , ● Death , and a Backslidden hear● meet together , there will be s● work in that Soul ; this is the m● who hangeth tilting over the mou● of Hell , while Death is cutting t● thred of his life . Secondly , Remember , that thou● God doth sometimes , yea , ofte● receive Backsliders , yet it is n● alwayes so : Some draw back 〈◊〉 ●erdition , for because they have ●ung up God , and would none of ●im , he in Justice flings up them ●nd their Souls for ever , Prov. 1. 24 , ●5 , 26 , 27 , 28. I have observed , that sometimes God , as it were in revenge for in●ry done him , doth snatch away ●oules in the very nick of their ●acksliding ; as he served Lot's ●ife when he turned her into a Pil●r of Salt , even while she was ●oking over her shoulder to So●om , Gen. 19. 26. an example that ●very Backslider should remember ●ith astonishment , Luke 17. 32. Thus have I in few words , writ●en to you ( before I die ) a word 〈◊〉 provoke you to Faith and Holi●ess , because I desire that you may ●ave the Life that is laid up for all them that believe in the Lord Jesus , and love one anothe● when I am deceased ; though ther● I shall rest from my labours , an● be in Paradise , as through Grac● I comfortably believe , yet it is no● there , but here , I must do yo● good ; wherefore I not knowin● the shortness of my life , nor th● hinderance that hereafter I ma● have of serving my God and you● I have taken this opportunity t● present these few lines unto you fo● your edification . Farewel . From my place of Confineme● in Bedford , this 17th the 4th Month , 1663. THE END . Prison-Meditations , Directed to the Heart of SUFFERING SAINTS And REIGNING SINNERS : By JOHN BUNYAN , a Prisoner . 〈◊〉 FRiends , I salute you in the Lord , and wish you may abound , 〈◊〉 faith and love , that you may ward your selves from Satans wound . 〈◊〉 Friends write to me , that I would hold my Head above the Flood . ●nd I do wish you also bold in holding fast the good . 〈◊〉 I am ( indeed ) in Prison ( now ) in Body , but my Mind 〈◊〉 free to study Christ , and how unto me he is kind . 4. For though men keep my outward man within their locks and bars ; Yet by the Faith of Christ I can mount higher than the 〈◊〉 . 5. Their Fetters cannot Spirits tame , nor tie up God from me : My Faith and Hope they cannot lame , above them I shall be . 6. I here am very much refresht , to think when I was out , I preached Life , and Peace , and Rest , to Sinners round about . 7. My business then , was souls to save , by preaching Grace and Faith , Of which the comfort now I have , and have it shall till death . 8. They were no Fables that I taught devil'd by cunning men , But God's own Word , by which were caught , some sinners how and then . 9. Whose souls by it were made to see the evil of their sin ; And need of Christ to make them free from death , which they were in ▪ 10. And now those very hearts , that then were foes unto the Lord , Embrace his Christ and Truth , like men conquered by his Word . 11. I hear them sigh , and groan , and cry , for grace to God above : They loath their sin , and to it die t is holiness they love . 12. This was the work I was about when hands on me they laid 'T was this from which they pluck'd me out and vilely to me said , 13. You Heretick , Deceiver , come to Prison you must go , You Preach abroad , and keep not home , you are the Churches foe . 14. But having peace within my soul , and truth on every side , I could with comfort them controul , and at their charge deride . 15. Wherefore to prison they me sent , where to this day I lie ; And can with very much content for my profession die . 16. The prison very sweet to me hath been , since I came here , And so would also hanging be , if God will there appear . 17. Here dwells good Conscience , also Peace here be my garments white , Here , though in Bonds , I have Release from Guilt , which else would bi●e . 18. When they do talk of Banishment , of Death , or such like Things , Then to me God sends hearts content , that like a Fountain springs . 19. Alas , they little think what peace they help me to , for by Their rage my comforts do encrease ; bless God therefore do I. 20. If they do give me gall to drink , then God doth sweetning cast , So much thereto , that they can't think how bravely it doth taste . 21. For as the Devil sets before me heaviness and grief , So God sets Christ and Grace much more , whereby I take relief . 22. Though they say then , that we are fools , because we here do lie ; I answer , Goals are Christ his Schools , in them we learn to die . 23. 'T is not the baseness of this state doth hide us from God's face , He frequently , both soon and late doth visit us with grace . 24. Here comes the Angels , here come Saints , here comes the Spirit of God To comfort us in our restraints under the wickeds Rod 25. God sometime visits Prisons more than Lordly Palaces . He often knocketh at our door , when he their houses miss . 26. The truth and life of heav'nly things , lists up our hearts on high , And carries us on Eagles wings , beyond carnality . 27. It takes away those clogs that hold the hearts of other men , And makes us lively strong and bold thus to oppose their sin . 28. By which means God doth frusturate , that which our foes expect ; Namely our turning the Postate , like those of Judas sect . 29. Here comes to our rememberance , the troubles good men had ; Of old , and for our furtherance , their joys , when they were sad . 30. To them that here for evil lie , the place is comfortless , But not to me , because that I , lie here for righteousness . 31. The Truth and I , were both here cast together , and we do Lie arm in arm , and so hold fast , each other ; This is true . 32. This Goal to us , is as a Hill , from whence we plainly see Beyond this World ; and take our fill , of things that lasting be . 33. From hence we see the emptiness , of all this World contains ; And here we feel the blessedness , that for us yet remains . 34. Here we can see how all men play their parts , as on a Stage : How good men suffer for God's way , and bad men at them rage . 35. Here we can see , who holds that ground , which they in Scripture find ; Here we see also , who turns round , like Weathercocks with ' Wind. 36. We can also from hence behold how seeming Friends appear But Hypocrites , as we are told in Scripture every where . 37. When we did walk at liberty , we were deceiv'd by them , Who we , from hence , do clearly see are vile deceitful men . 38. These Policitians that profest for base and worldly ends , Do now appear to us at best but Machivilian friends . 39. Though men do say , we do disgrace our selves by lying here , Among the Rogues , yet Christ our face from all such filth will clear . 40. We know there 's neither flout nor frown that we now for him bear But will add to our heavenly Crown , when he comes in the air . 41. When he our righteousness forth brings bright shining as the day , And wipeth off those slandrous things , that scorners on us lay . 42. We sell our earthly happiness for heavenly house and home ; We leave this world because 't is less , and worse than that to come . 43. We change our drossie Dust for Gold , from Death to Life we fly : We let go Shadows , and take hold of Immortality . 44. We trade for that which lasting is , and nothing for it give ; But that which is already his ; by whom we breath and live . 45. That liberty we lose for him , sickness might take away : Our goods might also , for our sin , by Fire or Theeves decay . 46. Again , we see what Glory t is , freely to bear our Cross For him , who for us took up his , when he our Servant was . 47. I am most free , that men should see a hole cut through mine ear ; If others will ascertain me , they 'l hang a Jewel there . 48. Just thus it is , we suffer here for him a little pain . Who , when he doth again appear , will with him let us raign . 49. If all must either die for sin , a death that 's natural ; Or else for Christ , 't is best with him , who for the last doth fall . 50. Who now dare say , we throw away our goods or liberty , When God's most holy Word doth say , we gain thus much thereby . 51. Hark yet again , you carnal men , and hear what I shall say , In your own dialect , and then I 'l you no longer stay . 52. You talk sometimes of valour much , and count such bravely man'd , That will not stick to have a tu●ch with any in the land . 53. If these be worth commending , then , that vainly shew their might ; How dare you blame those holy men that in God's quarrel fight ? 54. Though you dare crack a cowards crown , or quarrel for a pin ; You dare not on the wicked frown , nor speak against their sin . 55. For all your spirits are so stout , for matters that are vain : Yet sin besets you round about , you are in Satan's chain . 56. You dare not for the truth engage , you quake at prisonment ; You dare not make the Tree your stage for Christ that King potent . 57. Know then true valour there doth dwell , where men engage for God. Against the Devil , Death and Hell , and bear the wickeds rod , 58. These be the men that God doth count of high and noble mind ; These be the men that do surmount what you in nature find . 59. First , they do conquer their own hearts , all worldly fears , and then , Also the Devils firy darts , and persecuting men . 60. They conquer when they thus do fall . they kill when they do die : They overcome then most of all , and get the victory . 61. The worldling understands not this , 't is clear out of his sight : Therefore he counts this world his bliss , and doth our glory slight . 62. The Lubber knows not how to spring the nimble Footmans stage ; Neither can Owls , or Jack-daws sing , if they were in the Cage . 63 The Swine doth not the Pearls regard , but them doth slight for Graines , Though the wise Merchant labours hard for them with greatest paines . 64 Consider man , what I have said , and judge of things aright ; When all mens Cards are fully plaid , whose will abide the light ? 65 Will those , who have us hither cast ? or they who do us scorn ? Or those who do our houses wast ? or us , who this have born ? 66. And let us count those things the best , that best will prove at last ; And count such men the only blest , that do such things hold fast . 67. And what though they , us dear do cost , yet let us buy them so ; We shall not count our labour lost , when we see others woe . 68. And let Saints be no longer blam'd , by Carnal Policy ; But let the wicked be asham'd , of their Malignity . FINIS . Notes, typically marginal, from the original text Notes for div A30128-e790 The Duty of Husbands to believing Wives . Christ laid out his life for his Church ; covereth her infirmities ; communicates to her his Wisdom , protecteth her , and helpeth he in her imployments in this world : and so ought men to do for their Wives . The duty of Husbands to unbelieving Wives . The fruitless Professor must meet with disappointments .