American Journal of Business Management, Economics and Banking ISSN (E): 2832-8078 Volume 22, | March - 2024 P a g e | 109 www.americanjournal.org PRIORITY ISSUES OF CHILD EDUCATION IN THE FAMILY Sidikova Zarema Rakhmonberdievna "Oriental" University Faculty of "Pedogy" Direction of Pedogogy-Psychology 3rd Student E-mail: zaremasidikovna1@gmail.com Phone: +99850198205 A B S T R A C T K E Y W O R D S As we all know, in our country, a unique national upbringing has begun to take shape in families. Family moral education is one of the integral components of this process. Young parents need to conduct targeted pedagogical-psychological conversations with their children, it is necessary and necessary to pay attention to every word of the child. "You don't know anyway" and we begin to influence the child's psyche. We need to know that proper education and upbringing in the family should be attentive to every word of the children of the growing age and listen patiently in the era of global change. We parents make a great contribution to the fact that the child grows up to be responsible, intelligent, polite and courageous. Family, child, upbringing, education, society, country, skill, skill, neighborhood, environment. Introduction I started working in 2000 when I was 18 years old. I loved my profession very much. I was very interested. Even now, I am engaged in crafting. After a few years, my own life experiences led me to enter the field of pedagogy and psychology. We parents must know what is right and what is wrong in raising a child. I tried never to neglect my children. I had a daughter and a son. My daughter ROBIYA was born on May 29, 2007. For the first time, there was no happier mother than me. She had a special character, rarely spoke, never spoke outside of school or the neighborhood, she was a heavy-handed girl. My son was very curious, everything - object, animal, insect, everything was very interesting for him. My son and daughter both had two different personalities. RUSTAMJON was born on May 26, 2009. The second time I was a happy mother. I think every mother must have felt the happiness of motherhood. When my son was born, a radical change took place in my life. I was sitting at home, sewing when the order came. My lifestyle has not been easy; I faced many difficulties. I will talk about my married life in my next articles. Children grow up quickly and become adults. We parents don't even notice it. When they grow up, we wonder where we went wrong. Why American Journal of Business Management, Economics and Banking Volume 22 March - 2024 P a g e | 110 www.americanjournal.org am I saying this - so that mothers like me do not regret it one day. I want you to know that children play a very important role in our lives and that we are role models for them. My child grew up in this way - as we told him to "keep quiet, don't talk, don't interfere" - he became more and more alienated, as he joined his people. A child begins to grow up like a [scanner]. One of those days, my more playful son liked to give me whatever he could get his hands on. He did not forget to make me happy by preparing some kind of surprises every day. My son was very kind, he always had a smile on his face, and if he made me happy with something, he would be very happy himself. Neither the flower nor the grass that grew in the yard was left behind. So, we had a happy mother and child. I can say that for sure. He used to tell me all sorts of poems whether he knew it or not. We were very happy. But his inquisitive nature worried me a lot. He would bury me with questions about how every animal was created, how a person was created, what God is like, what heaven and hell are, what the world is like, and what the cemetery means. That's why I say that we should pay attention to every word of the child. I would answer as much as I needed, but there were times when I couldn't. On April 29, 2021, my neighbor's 18-year-old son committed suicide. My son had seen this process and after listening to the talk of the men and women of this place he became interested. He heard women and men say that the dead child is from heaven and that he is old. So he came to the idea that if he dies and commits suicide, he will be in heaven. 11 days later, my son left this world. He committed suicide on 05.05.2021 at the age of 11. He asked his neighbors and friends at school if the neighbor went to heaven. I was told this late. He even asked me - did the dead neighbor go to heaven? - I looked at my son with some anxiety - my son, you can't talk about a dead person. I replied that Allah knows best. Now I am telling it like a fairy tale, but the world was dark to my eyes. On the day when this terrible incident happened, I was going out on the street with my chores. My son accompanied me wherever I went, and I never wanted to leave him at home. On that day, even if I said, "Come on, my son, you will come with me," he said, "I will stay at home and do my lessons." Not long after that, the neighbor's daughter-in-law called me and said, come quickly, your son has committed suicide. Even though 11 days have passed since I was in a hurry, I answered that it was not my son, but the neighbor's son. Maybe mothers who have lost their children make me feel bad inside. I don't know how I got home, it was dark in front of me. The house looked like it was on fire, I couldn't enter through the gate and I called my son only my son. I used to shout, "Where are you, Rustamjon, my child?" My neighbors looked at me in surprise and did not know what to do. I looked at them in surprise and shouted, "What are you doing? The house is on fire." I don't know how the funeral went, I was very sad because my son left me. I was in a state of psychological depression. I was completely stuck at home, I didn't like the streets and people anymore, I was very sick. After 2 years, I entered the faculty of pedagogy and psychology and began to try to keep myself mentally upright. Because my daughter started to follow me. That's why I had to stand. Entering the field of psychology, I realized that we women play a very large role in the family. We need to work on ourselves in order to educate our children. Every word of the child is important, we parents should not ignore it. Conclusions and Suggestions A person is covered with the first mother's love and affection in a family made of love. This affection is the place of education for the development of the human qualities of the child. Therefore, the first goal of marriage is the continuation of violence. Because the essence of the Islamic family is the American Journal of Business Management, Economics and Banking Volume 22 March - 2024 P a g e | 111 www.americanjournal.org essence of the views of Fitrat, the actions that determine the height and honor of the nation in the family are primarily related to the chastity of the husband and wife. REFERENCES 1. Мустақиллик: Изоҳли илмий-оммабоп луғат.-Т., “Шарқ”, 1998. 320 б. 115-бет. 2. Иномова М. О. Оилада болаларни маънавий-ахлоқий тарбиялашда миллий қадриятлардан фойдаланишнинг педагогик асослари: Пед. фанл. докт. ...дисс. – Т.: 1998. - 34 бет. 3. Маврулов А. Маънавий баркамол инсон тарбияси. – Т.: “ O’zbekiston”, 2008. – 11-12 бет.