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Sex Education and Religion 

Edited by Michael J. Reiss & Shaikh Abdul Mabud. Cambridge: The 
Islamic Academy, /998, 277pp. 

The far-reaching implications of the debate surrounding sex education in 

state schools are summed up by the late Professor Syed Ali Ashraf in his 

Foreword to this book: "We are up against a tremendous conspiracy to 

dethrone the religious concept of a human being from the minds of people." 

Sex education is "just a modus operandi" of the "secularist philosophy" under­

pinning this conspiracy (p. 3). 

1n presenting a number of essays on sex education from different faith and 

nonfaith perspectives, the editors have succeeded in introducing readers not 

only to Islamic concepts of sexual relationships and sex education, but also to 

the ideological battle that is being played out with children's education. At the 

very heart of this debate we find unanswered and unanswerable questions 



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about liberal democracy and how liberal it can be in allowing minorities to 
flourish in its midst. 

The argument basically revolves around the liberal push for increasing indi-
vidual rights and to see how far such rights can go in relation to responsibili-
ties. As Carole Ulanowsky notes in her contribution titled "Sex Education: 
Beyond Information to Values," the balance has tipped in favor of rights - a 
position that is (perhaps) suitable for the mature educator but which "can leave 
young people morally adrift" (p. 22). 

In his overview titled "Values and Sex Education in a Multicultural Society," 
Mark Halstead demonstrates that this issue is complex and laced with difficul-
ties; however, "the promotion of 'responsible sexual behavior' has become a 
dominant motif in contemporary sex education in Britain as in other western 
countries" (p. 236). But who is to decide what is "reasonable"? Parents? 
Educators? Or that thorn in the side of liberal sex educators: religion? 

In stating Islamic positions on this subject, Noibi and Abdul Mabud cover 
ground that has been well-presented elsewhere; however, the fact that their 
contributions are neither out of place nor dated illustrates how little educators 
have learnt from earlier publications by Muslims on this subject. An alterna-
tive, less charitable view might conclude that the liberal sex education lobby 
has learnt too much about the Islamic position and has, as a result, strengthened 
efforts to undermine it. 

For example, Michael Reiss proposes that "the way forward may be for soci-
ety to make it easier for homosexuals to live in lasting and mutually faithful 
sexual relationships" (p. 146), and David Carr asks, "How could any civilized 
person see it as other than a moral advance over bygone tyrannies that homo-
sexual men and women are no longer persecuted?" (p. 170). Going further, 
Carr says that "liberal modernity has at least freed us from a range of irrational 
prohibitions." This stand taken by both men demonstrates how "liberal values" 
can in fact be imposed on young people and, in doing so, force them to alter 
their own beliefs (and possibly practices). Carr's implication is that the prohi-
bition of homosexuality in scriptures is "irrational," thereby making his own 
statement "rational." But on what grounds can he make such a judgment? As a 
number of contributions remind us, education is not value-free, and it is a myth 
to suggest that the liberal view of sex education is either neutral or morally 
superior to other views. Abdul Mabud puts it succinctly: "Passivity [and] neu-
trality" in sex education are themselves "values" (p. 110). 

This brings us back to the liberal dilemma and to what is, in my opinion, per-
haps the most thought-provoking article in this book. In what he calls "a pre-
liminary but necessary discussion," Mike Bottery effectively sets out the liber-
als' stall. "The liberal," he says, "will want to present a fundamentalist [sic] 



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position as an option for consideration ... whilst a fundamentalist will almost 
certainly want to present his or her beliefs as unarguable truth." He misses a 
very important point, however. Indeed, when a liberal presents a number of 
views for consideration and then says "make up your own mind," he is really 
saying, "Adopt a liberal worldview." Such a worldview is thus being put for-
ward as a form of "unarguable truth." As a result, the liberal is no different in 
technique to the fundamentalist who says, "This is the best way, adopt it." 

Bottery also mentions Cohen's (1981) belief that "values of self-determina-
tion and autonomy are pre-eminent [liberal] values" (p. 151) and goes on to 
say, "Sex is normally [my emphasis] an act performed between two human 
beings, and individuals therefore need to reflect upon how their actions will 
affect their partners" (p. 153). Such consideration should, of course, be taken 
for granted but, according to Ulanowsky, "Nobody mentions self-control and 
self-denial - those attributes so necessary for the continuation of civilized 
existence in contexts beyond the sexual." Thus, she says, "Philosophically ... 
there appears to be a potential for a mismatch between 'mutual care, consider-
ation and respect,' and 'individual choice'" (p. 26). 

We must therefore once again ask those who advocate a liberal form of sex 
education: Exactly who draws the line between acceptable and unacceptable 
behavior, between "self-determination and autonomy" and "mutual care"? I 
emphasized "normally" above because the liberal position demands that soci-
ety cater to the "abnormal" minorities whose sexual behavior are not shared by 
the majority. Thus, pedophilia, bestiality, group sex, and other practices must 
all be condoned in a liberal utopia. But once again, who draws the line and 
where should it be drawn? Terence McLaughlin suggests that "appropriate" 
values be used that are "broadly acceptable to society as a whole" (p. 195). But 
what happens when those values shift as preferences shift? Ulanowsky writes, 
"the post-modem message has been increasingly lived out" so that "what peo-
ple individually 'feel' to be the case, is the case," leaving a society of individ-
uals rejecting "the possibility of measuring their preferences by criteria exter-
nal to those preferences" (p. 21). Noibi reminds us that, in Islam, individual 
interests are secondary to those of society. 

Anyone with a religious viewpoint will find answers by reading this book: 
cross-curricular Islamic education is essential if sex education is to be dealt 
with as "part of a belief system" and not in isolation "as a subject in the school 
curriculum." Others will be able to extract from it many useful quotes which 
they can then drop into discussions to prove or disprove their own opinion. 
And everyone with even half an interest in how Western society is going to 
deal with Muslims living in its midst - Muslims who are, increasingly, born 
and raised in the West - should read it, because the arguments contained in 



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these essays are a microcosm of the dilemmas being faced in wider but related 

contexts. "How liberal can liberal society be?" is the big question. 
The liberal position "must not entail the acceptance of those who will not lis­

ten to others, those who refuse to engage in rational discourse, those who may 

inhabit the same land geographically but not spiritually. If a liberal, pluralist 
society goes down that path of acceptance, it sacrifices its soul; and in this sit­

uation its judgments will not be worth respecting." My own feeling, after read­
ing this book, is that liberalism is in a downward spiral toward self-destruction. 
Its soul has long since gone. What has stepped into the void is uncertain of its 

own identity, for the minute liberalism seeks to impose its own worldview on 
others it ceases, by definition, to be liberal. 

The title of the book is misleading, as only Christian and Muslim religious 
views on the subject are given; it would have been interesting to have contri­

butions from Jews, Buddhists, Hindus, and others. Nevertheless, the editors 
have brought together material that deals with the subject in a way that leaves 
the reader in no doubt about the importance of sex education as an indicator of 
the moral standards of the wider society. For that reason, this is an important 
and timely book indeed. 

Ibrahim Hewitt 
Director 

Association of Muslim Schools (UK)