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fpq-20166	Cohn, Bobbi	Gaslighting-Up: When Gaslighting Is Good	2025	25	.pdf	application/pdf	10894	571	57	Cohn – Gaslighting-Up: When Gaslighting Is Good Published by Scholarship@Western, 2025 9 appears to be problematic gaslighting, we understand it as a form of safety planning— as a desperate attempt by victims to keep themselves safe while in abusive relationships and while they are trying to exit them.7 4.B. Defending against Gaslighting When gaslighting-up is used for defense and safety planning, it also comes with another, subtler benefit: gaslighting-up helps abuse victims maintain their epistemic agency and thus psychologically defend against abusive gaslighting. The examples listed at the start of this paper are classic examples of epistemic gaslighting, and moral gaslighting occurs, for example, when someone is made to feel ashamed or like a “bitch” for being unforgiving, even though she is entitled to withhold forgiveness (see Manne 2023, 124n2, 142–43).	cache/fpq-20166.pdf	txt/fpq-20166.txt