- 18 - The Problem with Funeral Plants Kim Kile I have a peace lily in my dining room, a reminder that you left too soon and I’m still here trying to keep this damn plant alive. I see it every day—the drooping, withering leaves, the brown, crispy ones peeking from beneath. I can’t make myself give it water, to quench its soil and be the hero daughter— the one who keeps your memory alive by caring, watering, and fertilizing a plant while you nourish a strip of grass in a cemetery too far away from my grasp.