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Plight of Widows in Hindu Religion (A Social Critique to Deepa Mehata’s 
Film Water) 

Ramesh Prasad Adhikary 

Tribhuvan University, M.M. Campus, Nepal 
 

Abstract 

 
This research paper is focused in Deepa Mehta's Film Water to study the plight of Hindu widows. As the 
tradition of Hindu society, widows are compelled to adopt the widow system. Chuyia, the eight-year-old 
protagonist is sent to a Bidhuwa Ashram in Benaras because of her widowhood. The exploitation of 
child-marriage in the grip of patriarchal culture of widowhood, and the rejection of Chuyia to accept her 
widowhood is presented in the film. Kalyani, the second young widow in the ashram, revolts against such 
inhuman culture and decides to get married. She is forced to act as a 'prostitute' in the house of 
bourgeois. Chuyia is also sexually exploited by bourgeois. Through a qualitative work using Feminism 
framework, I offer a powerful critique on the Hindu Widow System based on Deepa Mehta’s Water, by 
not only showing its religious, bourgeoisie, and patriarchal underpinnings that treat widows to the level 
of living deeds, but also shows the possibility of subverting such dogmas by raising the issue of widow 
marriage. The conclusion is that the film Water by Deepa Mehta presents the predicament of Indian 
Hindu widows. It shows the inert life of the group of widows obliged to live in a widow house neglected 
from society because of Hindu widow system 

Keywords: Widow, Patriarchy, Hinduism, Prostitution, Stereotype, Tradition 

 

 

 
 

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INTRODUCTION 

This research paper focuses on the film Water which portrays the evil widow tradition and the 

plight of Hindu widows. Deepa Mehta’s Water is a film which presents the plight of Indian Hindu widows 

of 1930s. It also presents colorless life of widows who are obliged to live in a widow house being 

alienated and hated by society. They are taken worthless without a husband. They have to struggle to 

survive by begging and also have to involve into prostitution activities.   

         In the film Mehta presents how girls and women are deeply victimized by the Hindu system 

regarding the widowhood.  The protagonist like Chuyia and Kalyani and others were compelled for child 

marriage and when their husbands died, they had to face the evil destiny of exploitation. The religious 

norms and evil tradition of Hindu culture forced widows to live the life full hatred being detached from 

society and spending the absurd life in widow ashram. Rich Brahmins exploited and commodified 

widows. Chuyia and Kalyani unwillingly turned to prostitution in order to fulfill the poverty and run the 

ashram.   

In the film, the setting is 1938 Benaras, a city in India where widow houses still exist. It is set 

during the period of the British Raj or British Indian Empire when India was still under colonial rule by 

the British. Child marriages of young girls were common in certain parts of India at that time. When a 

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man from an orthodox Hindu family died, his young widow would be forced to spend the rest of her life 

in an institution for widows in order to make amends for the sins from the previous life which 

supposedly caused her husband’s death. Deepa Mehta adopts the very notion of widowhood as a subject 

matter for her film Water. She focuses on the abuse of widows in India.    

         Mehata’s film Water begins with the life of eight year old Chuyia, a child bride whose husband 

dies and she is left in widow's house in Benaras. There she is expected to spend the rest of her life in the 

process of renunciation. Chuiya as she is a child she does not know about widow system, in spite of that 

she is forced to live the life of widows adopting the ritual of widowhood. She begins to spend the life of 

widow by adopting the life of self denial thinking that she must not have to live in the ashram for a long; 

one day she will go to her home. The arrival in the ashram changes the life of widows especially Kalyani 

and Shakuntala who begin to question against injustice widow system.    

         Based on the movie, once widowed, a woman ceased to exist as a person; that she is no longer 

either daughter or daughter in law. There is no place for her in the community and she is viewed as a 

threat to society. A woman’s sexuality and fertility, which is so valuable to her husband in his lifetime, is 

converted upon his death into a potential danger, as if they were the mortality of the community.    

         The original meaning of Sati which is a Sanskrit word is simply a faithful and devout wife, and 

the term denotes especially to the woman who immolated herself. Though Sati is considered as a Hindu 

custom, the women, known as sati in Hindu religious literature, did not commit suicide in their dead 

husband's pyre. The first woman known as sati was the consort of lord Shiva. She burnt herself in the fire 

as protest against her father who did not give Shiva the respect she thought he deserved. While burning 

herself she prayed to reborn again as the new consort of Shiva, which she become and her name in the 

new incarnation is Parvati.  In this way the word sati (Suttee in English) comes to exist which is described 

as Hindu custom in India in which the widow is burnt on her dead husband's pyre in the process of 

renunciation.   

         Sati dies as a wife, eschewing the ill fated, ominous, and impure state of widowhood. The religious 

dogmas believe that through her sacrifice the sati preserved the bodily and spiritual unity of the couple, 

affording the Hindu marriage sacrament, which is ultimate and the truest expression. Moreover, it is 

believed that a woman dying on the funeral pyre of her husband can enjoy eternal bliss in heaven and 

self immolation is the only meritorious course that a virtuous widow can follow. So the term denotes the 

wife who performed the supreme act of fidelity by sacrificing herself which is an effort of transcending 

the state of widowhood. The situation becomes more exacerbated in the case of childhood marriage. This 

paper shows that by the film Water, Mehata has presented the social critique of the then society. By 

presenting the pathetic condition of widows and their rebellion against the Hindu social tradition, the 

film portrays social reality. This research paper makes its analyses from feminist point of view to make 

public aware about the tradition of Hindu religion. 

 

LITERATURE REVIEW: HINDU WIDOW SYSTEM AND THE FILM 

Different critics have given their criticism regarding Hindu widow tradition and culture 

along with the film Water. In "Can the subaltern speak?” Spivak describes the act of sati as follows:   

 

The Hindu widow ascends the pyre of the dead husband and immolates herself upon it. This 

is widow sacrifice. The rite was not practiced universally and was not caste or class-fixed. 

(93)   

 



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Here, according to Spivak the subordination of women to the superstructure of male 

domination includes the very denial of breath and life; the subaltern woman (widow) is not 

expected to die to preserve the honor of the dead husband, but is indeed imagined to desire death. 

The death of sacrificed is predicated on the death of her husband which makes clear that women 

has no self identity.   

          On the other side, child marriage is one of the cultural practices in Hindu society where 

the children are married in their childhood, without knowing the exact sacraments of marriage. As 

seen on the movie, once the girls' husband dies, they are compelled to follow the widow system 

without knowing what is meant to be widow. So, the exploitation of child, reflected on our art of 

interest, can be seen in traditional Hindu society. Regarding the child marriage and the 

exploitation of child because of Hindu sati custom, Anjana Kant (2003) has defined the culture of 

widowhood where she writes that the position of woman in the words of Shastri appeared to be 

as follows:   

The enforced child-marriages, the exposure of the female children by throwing them at 

the junction of the Ganges and the sea, the violence used to make women follow the sati rule and, 

thus, end their miserable existence. (57)   

Here, Kant opines that women have to renounce their life by following the custom of sati. 

They are regarded as an object as they are obliged to perform the traumatic act by burning 

themselves in the pyre of their husband's body and end their miserable existence. Moreover, the 

girl children are also victim of the system as they were thrown at the junction of the sea. Being fed 

up with the culture of sati women made a wish that they had never been born as a woman.    

         In Hindu tradition, widows have to detach from the society and live in an institution of 

widows. Widows should shave their head and wear white custom. They cannot eat sweets and 

delicious food. They cannot see their face in mirror nor should they look beautiful. They also 

should not use any perfumes and their dress should be coarse and dirty. The use of any kind of 

conveyance is prohibited. And, also, she cannot rest in the bed. All of above experiences are well 

reflected in the movie.  

The most sacred of Aryan scriptures are the Vedas, and the Rig Veda, the oldest Veda, 

explicitly sanctions the custom of sati for widow. The following famous `Sati Hymn’ of the Rig 

Veda was (and still is) recited during the actual immolation of the widow (Jamison & Joel, 2014). 

Rig Veda X.18.7 “Let these women, whose husbands are worthy and are living, enter the house 

with ghee (applied) as corrylium (to their eyes). Let these wives first step into the pyre, tearless 

without any affliction and well adorned.” — [ Rig Veda X.18.7] (Jamison & Joel, 2014). 

         Traditionalism and religion play the dominant role in Hindu society which is regarded as 

the great force. Women are the torch-bearers of religion and play an important role in preserving 

both religion and culture. Women are obliged to adopt widow system because of the tradition and 

culture of widowhood. Moreover they have no other option rather than embracing the system as 

it is very obvious to say that patriarchy has effected in its worst form to Hindu women. In other 

words patriarchy and religion is interrelated to each other. Religion is the outcome of patriarchy 

and vice versa. The religious norms and values are made by the male authorities that are to be 

followed by women. 

  In the book Women and Religion by Renavikar (1998), Margaret Anderson quotes: 

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authority indicate that religions authority indicate that religion is a powerful source for the 

subordination of women in society" (33).  Anderson views that "sex" play the crucial role in the 

society. The religious value is itself patriarchy in the sense that it is constructed by men 

authorities, where women are excluded from that, which calls the subordination of women in 

society. Men they themselves set an ideology about women which is seen in The RigVeda Sacred 

texts.   

          The RigVeda Sacred texts declares that the widow should remain chaste, though their 

husband dies, by adopting the concept of monogamy. However, there is not any passages in The  

RigVeda Sacred texts that declares that man also should remain chaste after their wife is dead. 

The Hindu religious values are set by the men themselves where they impart that widows should 

not get remarried but men can get remarried. Thus, the concept of polygamy is set for men by 

men themselves.       

          Similarly, another protagonist of the film named Kalyani is greatly affected by the widow 

system of the society. She is only the stunning young widows among other who is forced to 

prostitution. As widows are regarded as family burden in their house so they were sent to 

Bidhuwa Ashram. And to run ashram, they often beg for money sitting on the temple and often 

turn on prostitution. And it is regarded as the tradition in the society. Stephen Hunter (2006), a 

critic sets forward that it has become duty of widows to perform such act and quotes:    

Even as reform seems close at hand, traditional obligations impose tragedy upon the 

ashram [as] one of the duties of the widows is to perform the occasional act of the prostitution, to 

keep the economic enterprise afloat: thus Kalyani is selected for job  [...] Even worst is the fate 

that awaits the irrepressible Chiyia. (C 1)    

The film shows the commodification of widows. Kalyani is a character who is forced to be 

commodified in the hands of rich Brahmins they are the bourgeoisie of the society. The people of 

the society are themselves pretender in the sense that on the one hand, they regard widows 

should remain chaste as declared by religious books but men themselves violates the chastity of 

widows by sleeping with them. William Arnold (2006), a movie critic, regarding the patriarchal 

tradition of society writes that; "It is a tragic love story that fearlessly attacks the enslaving 

hypocrisy of patriarchal tradition that has developed over thousands of years of socio-economic 

imperatives and now disguise itself as religion" (5). Arnold here, states that socio-economic 

imperatives are the outcome of patriarchal tradition and widows are interiorized in the society 

because of these imperatives.   

 Jennette Catsoulis (2006) views that widows are institutionally oppressed because of 

patriarchal imperatives. Water is fine film about the institutionalized oppression of an entire class 

of women  and the way patriarchal imperatives inform religious belief Serene of the surface yet 

roiling underneath, the film by neatly parallels the plight of widows under Hindu fundamentalism 

to that of India under British colonialism. Though Gandhi and his followers are as insistent 

background presence the movie is never didactic, trusting the simply rhythms of the women's 

lives to tell the story. (19)    

 In this way, different critics have given their views regarding women and widow 

oppression in the society and conventionalized widow system is the root cause for this. This 

research is focused on Deepa Mehta’s film which not only presents a powerful critique on Hindu 

Widow System by showing its religious, bourgeoisie and patriarchal underpinnings that treat 

widows to the level of living deeds but also shows the possibility of subverting such dogmas by 

raising the issue of widow marriage. These things are untouched by the aformentioned critics. 



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THEORETICAL METHODOLOGY: FEMINISM 

In this research paper, the researcher has used feminism as a tool to interpret the film and to 

redefine female identity. 

          The term "feminism" coined from the early period of nineteenth century. Feminism as a literary 

discourse came after 1960s. In its broadest concept, feminism continues to be closely interrelated with 

the movement by political feminism for social, economic, and cultural freedom. Generally, it advocates 

women's right based on a belief in the equality of the sexes politically and biologically from a women 

centered point of view and it refuses to accept the cult of masculine Chauvinism and superiority that 

reduces women to sex object, a second sex, and a submissive to the man. Feminism seeks to eliminate the 

subordination, oppression, inequalities and injustices of women which they suffer because of their sex, 

and it further defends equal rights for women in a political, economic, social, psychological, personal and 

aesthetic sense. So, feminism is associated with the women's movement or the feminist movement 

culture is a transformational social movement that focuses on changing the mostly institutional and 

social attitudes.  

          Feminism came into practice to eradicate the against women's marginalization in all social 

forms of knowledge and practice. This happens because our society, civilization and practices all are 

pervasively patriarchal, that is male centered, which is controlled, organized and conducted in such a 

way that it subordinates women in all cultural domains such as family, religious, political, economic, 

social, legal and so forth. By this cultural process the masculine in our culture has come to be widely 

defined as active, dominating, adventurous rational, creative, and the feminine by systematic opposition 

to such traits. Men are always empowered with the sense of "I am man she is woman, I am strong she is 

weak, I am tough, she is tender. I am rely sufficient, she is needful" (Ruth 54, 1990).    

         It is the patriarchal social order which subjugates women folks to a second class or even third 

class citizenship. Here, women are projected as the 'other' subordinate being. Moreover, women are not 

regarded as an autonomous being; they are always identified by, with men. In her book The Second Sex, 

Beauvoir (1974) states, "Thus, humanity is male and man defines woman not as herself but as relative to 

him, she is not regarded as an autonomous being." (XVIII). She views that, women are always takes as 

relative being, they are introduced with relation to their father, husband or son.  Regarding the 

patriarchal traditions Elise Boulding writes:   

 

Patriarchal ethics brings in different kinds of socialization practices for the male and female in 

the family which ultimately lead to turn the male child into an 'oppressor' and the female child 

into a victim when they become adults. At the root of such oppressions against women is the 

reality that women are taken as 'objects' of both discriminations are violence of men. (Sinha 

23)    

 

Boulding holds a belief that patriarchy is the root cause for bringing discrimination in the society 

between sexes and subordination of women by men.    

        In this way feminism emerged as a reaction for the patriarchy and oppression of women in 

different field of the society, and it aims the quality between all genders. Not only in the western society 

but also all over the world including Third World Countries, women began to seek their hidden identity 

and speak for their rights in the patriarchal society.      



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          Women of third world countries are enforced to follow the tradition. The status of women in the 

society is no more than that of a mute animal. For example, women are obliged to follow the hierarchical 

social systems where they cannot find their respectable position. Regardless of caste, class or religion 

women are differentiated as secondary objects. The society keeps them aloof from social matters like 

decision making, participating in political matters, problem solving, social and familiar discussions and in 

financial issues. She even does not have right to make her own decision as she is deprived by tradition. As 

can be seen in Suguna Paul(1986) whose essay defended the women's right:   

  

Women have been suppressed under custom and have for which man was responsible and in 

shaping of which she has no hand... Woman has as much right to shape her destiny as man has 

to shape his...It is up to men to see that they enable them to realize their full status and play 

their part as equal as men. (44)   

 

Here, Paul views that because of men made tradition, women cannot speak for their desires in 

the society. She also has right of human being to shape her destiny and it is very men who must enable 

them (women) for having equal rights and opportunities in the society.   

  Marriage is regarded as an institution of enslavement, where women are slaves of their 

husband, where Uma Narayan (1997) wrote that reported:    

 

Marriage is an oppressive institution for many women is something that predates my explicit 

acquisition of a feminist politics, and is something I initially learned not from books but from 

Indian women in general and my female relatives in particular. (9)   

 

Here, Narayan holds a belief regarding marriage that it is an institution in which women work as 

slaves or workers for their husbands and husbands are regarded as the owners or masters of the 

marriage institution.   

         While saying, it may seem biased to go against the tradition of the nation. But feminists opine that 

the tradition is patriarchal and made in hierarchal order which is just a construction that subordinates 

women in a great extent, which is very true as seen in society, such tradition should be change. Narayan 

(1997) views that third world feminist  need to be particularly alert to how much relatively uncontested 

change is needed for the better improvement of women and quotes, "we need to re-describe and 

challenge this picture of "Unchanging traditions" that supposedly are only now in danger of betrayal as a 

result of feminist instigation" (25).    

Moreover, the people's notion about the proper role of women in the home and society and the 

social restrictions on women are all rooted in religions conception. Moreover, the religious scriptures 

and The RigVeda Sacred texts have influenced the status of women. The passage in the RigVeda declares 

that "the women are very fickle" (qtd. in Altekar 319). There is always misrepresentation of women in 

the religion's literature or scriptures, for example in India famous literature Mahabharata, it is told that 

"sensual enjoyment is the sole aim of women's existence” (320). Hence, women are always taken as a 

means of enjoyment.    

           Thus, the widow system is just violence against women. The concept of violence against woman 

here does not include only physical assault on her, but also physical and mental torture, harassment, 

exploitation, discrimination, which she has to undergo for being a woman. The state of widowhood 

represents the “climax of violence against women in our society. A widow in Hindu society has to 

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           In this way, conventionalized tradition and culture is the reason behind exploitation of women 

in its worst form. Indeed, feminism has often focused upon what is absent rather than what is present, 

reflecting concern with the silencing and marginalization of women in a patriarchal culture; a culture 

organized in the favor of men, where their (women) existence in the society is always inferior to man. 

Feminism tries to minimize the oppression of women caused by the patriarchal tradition and culture, 

and seeks the equal rights and opportunities between men and women.    

 

ANALYSIS OF MEHTA’S WATER 

In the film Water, Deepa Mehta presents an issue regarding widowhood where the widows are 

forced to live a detached life adopting Hindu widow system. Following the system of widowhood, 

widows live the life of self denial in the widow house known as Bidhuwa Ashram.   

             The film examines the plight of group of widows forced to live into poverty at a temple in the 

holy city of Benaras. The women are sent here to expiate bad karma as well as to relieve their families 

from financial and emotional burdens. The gloom setting of the film explores the unhappiness of the 

widows. Plight of widows represents the worst form of discrimination against women in India. 

Superstitious families say widows are bad luck and blame for the death of their husband. The film 

illustrates widows struggle to survive and shows the rituals of widowhood.   

         All the widows live in the ashram as homelessness and lack of parent’s love and affection. The 

ashram is a melancholy place with old widows. Mehta presents Chuyia and Kalyani as protagonist s and 

shows the exploitation of these characters along with others like Shakuntala and Patirajji (Bua), because 

of the tradition of the widowhood.    

         Water follows the life of eight year old Chuyia, a child bride abandoned at widow’s house in 

Benaras after the death of her husband. There, she is expected to spend the rest of her life in penitence. 

She does not want to accept her fate of widow and becomes catalyst for change in the lives of widows, 

but she is forced to live the life of widow because of the widow system. She even does not know when 

marriage occurred and what it means to be a widow, which is realized in the conversation between 

Chuyia and her father:   

 

Father: Do you remember getting married?   

Chuyia: No.   

Father: Your husband is dead. You are a widow now.   

Chuyia: For how long, father?   

 

These lines depict the exploitation of child Chuyia by the culture of child marriage and 

widowhood. The eight year old Chuyia does not know that she was a married girl but now she is a 

widow. She also does not know that she has to adopt the very widow system which is amalgation of 

tradition, culture and religion. When her father tells that she is widow now, in her innocence she asks the 

duration of remaining widow. Without knowing any marriage custom and what it means to be a wife, 

without having any compassion and love towards her husband, she is compelled to live the life of a 

widow imposed by tradition. Her question about the span of being widow makes her father dumb as he 

cannot answer her question.    

        In the very beginning of the film, Chuyia’s husband dies, but she does not react on his death. 

Actually she was married to a man of the mid fifties and after his death she follows the rituals of 



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widowhood, as her mother- in -law smashes her red bangles. She is provided white cloth by taking of her 

skirt and blouse as Hindu widow system does not permit widows to wear stitched clothes. The barber 

shaves her head. Her father watches her young daughter performing an agonizing ritual. Chuyia does not 

know why her head is shaved and why she is wearing white dhoti. Chuyia, while shaving her head curls 

her toes which symbolizes mute protest. It is enforced by the belief that if the widow does not shave her 

head every drops of water that falls upon the hair, pollutes her husband’s soul.   

Widows are regarded as burden of family and society with a belief that they will bring 

misfortune for rest of their (widows) family. So, all the women whose husbands die are sent to the 

widow ashram in Benaras. They live rest of their life without having any contact with their families and 

society. When Chuyia first goes to bidhuwa ashram with her father and mother in law, she is ignorant of 

the fact that she is going to be left in ashram forever by her father. She peeps in ashram and she is afraid 

of the appearance of two of the widows staring at her. Then, she runs out and asks her father to go back:    

 

Chuyia: Let‟s go home father?   

Father: This is your home now.   

 

The above dialogue precisely conveys that after being widow, the tradition does not allow 

Chuyia to live with her family. Chuyia does not like the ashram at her very sight so she pleads to return 

back from that place but her father says that the very widow ashram is her home after her husband’s 

death. When Chuyia listens that widow house is her home, then she innocently asks, “Where’s Ma?” She 

thinks that in the house (ashram) she will live with her father and mother.   

          Deepa Mehta, in the film presents the society guided by patriarchal norms and values. There is a 

system regarding widowhood and all women whose husband dies have to follow the very system. The 

tradition that she shows regarding widowhood is very rigid and inhuman. Every religious dogma and 

value have constructed the ideology of people in the society. Moreover, Women also follow the culture of 

widowhood thinking that it is their duty to obey the culture. The character named Madhumati is 

domineering of the widow house. She is guided by cultures and traditions of the society. She is very 

hypocrite, fat and pompous lady in her seventies. As she herself is a widow and thinks widows have to 

adopt the widow system by living the life of chastity and self denial in the ashram. She believes in the 

religious scriptures and books.   

         Mehta presents her character Chuyia as a victim of widow system. Though she is innocent and 

does not know about the culture of widowhood, Mehta makes Chuiya to utter such dialogue which 

criticizes and protests against the dehumanization nature of tradition towards women. When Chuyia 

listens to Madhumati saying her (Chuyia) life as a half dead because of her husband’s death she gives a 

precise answer in her low voice, “Because she is half alive.” The line makes it clear that though widow is 

regarded as half dead person doomed to live in one corner, still has half life. The people of the society do 

not think that widows are also human beings and get hurt by animalistic behavior towards them.    

         In the film, culturally widows are treated as inferior beings. After being widow, culture denies 

them to talk with other people of the society especially with any man. They even cannot touch other 

person in the society as they are regarded impure. Widows also cannot run like other person. Overall, 

widows should live the life of oppressed and suppressed in the society. The dialogue by woman to 

Kalyani hints about the false assumption towards widows as she says, “What are you doing? Widows 

should not run around like unmarried girl. You have polluted me? I have to bathe again.” The line of 

woman conveys the attitude of the society towards widows. When Chuyia runs after the dog Kalu to 

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give a dash to woman. Woman who is guided by the patriarchal tradition of the society feels herself 

impure by the very touch with Kalyani and says immoral to her for touching her (woman) and running 

like unmarried girl. Widows are regarded as filth and pollution as woman says that she has to get bathe 

again because Kalyani polluted her.    

         Shakuntala is the most enigmatic widow. She is quiet and reserved widow among other widows. 

She believes in religious scriptures and is caught between her hatred of being widow and her fear of not 

being a sincere, devote widow. She is devoting Hindu widow who listens the priest reciting the scriptures 

to the pilgrims. Moreover, she herself reads the scriptures and tries to live as pure as possible.  She 

becomes a mother-figure for Chuyia. She cares about Chuyia, Kalyani and Bua.  Mehta presents such a 

character like Shakuntala to show the faithfulness and fidelity of wives towards their husbands. Though 

Shakuntala follows widow system, in her heart she feels living a life of humiliation renouncing all the 

human desires which is known by the conversation of Shakuntala with priest:   

 

Priest: So many years of sacrifice and devotion, do you feel closer to self liberation?  Shakuntala:  If 

self liberation means detachment from worldly desires, then no, I am no closer.               

 

Shakuntala’s statement satires the religious dogmas of the widowhood culture which forwards 

the view that self liberation is attained by the detachment from the worldly  desires.  She  expresses  that  

she  has  not  gained  self  liberation  as described by the religion because she is still attached to the 

worldly desires and she seems to seek the self liberation in such worldly desires.   

          Widows are regarded as bad omen in the society. Moreover the shadow of the widows is 

regarded as an upcoming misfortune and bad luck in the society which is expressed by the dialogue of 

priest to Shakuntala as he says, “Watch it! Do not let your shadow touch the bride.” When Shakuntala 

goes to the river to get holy water, on the very side of the river there is wedding ceremony going on. As 

she stops there to fill the pot with water, the ceremony comes to an abrupt halt. The priest sharply says 

her not to be present there as  she is misfortune for a child bride who is just married. Lowering her eyes 

in humiliation and apology she goes back taking her pot.   

         In the middle part of the film, all widows come to the temple to listen the preaching of priest. 

Chuyia finds that all are women listening preach. She looks all women and priest and presumes that the 

white length of cloth in which they are wrapped in, is a uniform worn by both man and woman widows. 

She nudged Shakuntala and asks, “Didi, where is the house for male widows?” The line of Chuyia truly 

depicts that the tradition and culture are made in hierarchy order. Tradition and culture are the outcome 

of patriarchal norms and values which discriminates woman from man. Chuyia‟s question about the 

house for widower is very just question in the sense that Hindu widow system imposes widows to live 

their lives in an ashram alienated from society but there is not any system made for men who are 

widower.   

         One of the duties of widow is to beg for money sitting outside the temple. Chuyia is not 

accustomed with such act of begging. One day she also goes with other widows and sits outside the 

temple. She does not know that she is there to beg money. In the very moment a woman and her 

daughter comes out from the temple. The young girl of her teens is in red sari and blouse. Chuyia seeing 

her remembers her red sari, blouse and bangles. She goes on seeing the mother and daughter, which 

make us feel that perhaps she is remembering her mother. The girl gives Chuyia a coin, and she (Chuyia) 



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realizes that she is there  to beg as beggar. Her hatred towards such culture of begging can be known by 

her action as she leaves the place saying, “I hate you”, to Shakuntala.   

         Narayan, is a young and charming character of upper class, follower of Mahatma Gandhi falls in 

love with Kalyani on his very first sight. Upon meeting Kalyani there is a immediate attraction but the 

restriction placed on interaction with widows make it difficult to find a way of pursuing any kind of 

relationship. Kalyani feels insecure in presence of him as for widow; tradition does not allow her to talk 

to man. Kalyani prohibited by culture from addressing a stranger directly speak to Narayan through 

Chuyia and says, “Chuyia, tell him not to follow us. It will be sin.”   

         Narayan begins to think about Kalyani and desires to get marry with her. Moreover, Kalyani on 

the other hand cannot get the young man (Narayan) out of her mind and begins to love him too in spite of 

knowing that to think of other man is sin. When Narayan asks Kalyani about her marriage and her 

husband she says, “I do not remember. I never met him.” The line of Kalyani depicts that she does not 

remember her marriage which reveals to us that she was married in her teens. Though she does not 

remember her marriage ceremony and does not  recognize her husband, she is following the culture of 

widowhood. Narayan says to her that he likes her and wants to marry her. Kalyani also likes him and 

wants to get married with him. Kalyani ignores social taboo by falling love with Narayan.   

          Mehta presents Kalyani as a revolutionary figure by making her to act against the widow system. 

The secret is revealed by Chuyia who is thrilled at the prospect of wedding feast where one can eat as 

many sweets and forbidden foods. When Madhumati forbids Chuyia from eating puri, Chuyia in her 

protest says,” I will eat hundred puri in Kalyani’s wedding.” Madhumati comes to know through Chuyia 

that Kalyani is going to get married; she screams towards Chuyia and says “widows do not get married.” 

Chuyia in her anger goes on saying, “Kalyani will get married. She will. She will. She will. Drown yourself, 

liar!”   

Madhumati, after knowing Kalyani is going to get married, with rage goes towards the room of  

Kalyani and following conversation occurs between them:   

 

Madhumati: Chuyia, says you are getting married?   

Kalyani: Yes.   

Madhumati: Have you gone mad? Nobody marries a widow.   

Kalyani: He will.   

Madhumati: Shameless! You will sink yourself and us. We all will be cursed. We must live in purity 

to die in purity.   

 

The above dialogues between Madhumati and Kalyani depict that Madhumati is guided by 

orthodox tradition and religion, and regards that widows cannot marry; it will be great sin. But Kalyani 

tries to revolt such inhuman culture of religion by declaring that she is going to get married with 

Narayan. The saying  of Madhumati about living in purity and die in purity truly explores the hypocrisy of 

Madhumati in the sense that on the one hand she talks about chastity and purity of widow on the other 

hand she sends Kalyani across the  river to perform the act of prostitution in the house of bourgeois.  

         Kalyani raises question against Madhumati’s act of sending her across the river for the act of 

prostitution. She expresses the double code of tradition imposed to her. Tradition does not allow her to 

re-marry and sets a belief that she must be faithful towards her dead husband by not having any physical 

relation with other man but it is the same tradition because of which she is sent across the river for the 

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Chuyia thinks that widow house is not her house and her stay is temporary one. She will go to 

her house soon which is expressed in the following dialogues of Chuyia to Shakuntala:   

 

Shakuntala: Don‟t u have a dry sari?   

Chuia: It is in your house.   

Shakuntala: Bring it tomorrow.             

Chuyia: Tomorrow, I will be in my house.   

 

The dialogue of Chuyia expresses that widow house is Shakuntala’s house. She does not want to 

accept the widow system that after her husband death, that ashram is her house. She lives in widow 

house in a illusion that one day she will go to her home.   

         After knowing Kalyani‟s effort to violate the culture of widowhood, Madhumati locks her in the 

room. Moreover, she cuts her hair and says to other  widows of the ashram, “We would have burned in 

hell because of her. I have saved you all!” Madhumati denies Kalyani’s desire of getting remarried as she 

thinks it is against Hindu religion. Furthermore, she uses an abusive language to curse Kalyani which is 

expressed as, “Let’s see the whore get married now.”   

The word whore here expresses about the treatment and use of language towards widows. 

Chuyia in her sadness asks Shakuntala to open the door. Shakuntala as a devout wife says, “To think 

about remarriage is sin.” Chuyia asks the reason for denying Kalyani‟s marriage and Shakuntala says, 

“Ask with God.”  Chuyia is a destabilizing force, questioning not only her own confinement but the logic of 

other widows.   

         Chuiya is the rebel who provides the voice for Mehta’s broadside against the religious tradition 

of widowhood. Chuyia opens the cage to free the Mitthu. As soon as it becomes released she dies. It 

shows her protest against the prison like life of widows in the ashram such as Kalyani is locked inside the 

room. It seems that she is not only imprisoned in a room rather she is captive by the very traditional 

culture of Indian widowhood. There is a not alternative ahead of Mitthu like Kalyani who becomes free at 

first but her freedom causes her death at last. The death of a bird and Kalyani seems same. Both are 

helpless, marginalized in the society. Both are treated in a same way. People make Mitthu domestic by 

arresting its freedom and Kalyani too is used by the same people time to time as a prostitute.    

         The characters in a Bidhuwa Ashram are living a meager life. When Bua dies, there is not money 

for her cremation. Kalyani gives few coins to Shakuntala for the cremation of Bua. Moreover, Kalyani 

says, “Didi, I was saving these for my cremation.” As women are not given any opportunity to work in 

economic field, they are living the poorest life by begging and often turning to prostitution, which is 

explicitly shown in the film. Corruption in ashram is shown by the event of Bua’s funeral. Madhumati 

does not give money from the fund though she is head in the ashram. The money given by Seth in terms 

of Kalyani is misused by Madhumati.   

         Mehta shows the Indian culture of widowhood contrast to British culture. Once Narayan takes 

Kalyani in carriage for the tour of the city. In the very moment there comes the edge of the city, and he 

says that it is the very place where British lives. Kalyani feels insecure as tradition prohibits her to be 

with Narayan and if anyone recognizes her as a widow being with a man ( Narayan). Her face goes on 

dark as she is afraid, Narayan notices her and the following conversation occurs between them:   

 

Narayan: They do not care if you are a widow.   



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Kalyani: Why? Don‟t they have widows?   

Narayan: Of course they do. But not like ours; they do not treat them like we do.   

 

The dialogue of Narayan reveals that there is not any system regarding widowhood in west in 

contrast to the east. In the dialogue the word “they‟”means British and “our” means Indians. It does not 

matter for British if they see widows with man. Mehta’s main purpose of bringing only reference of 

widowhood culture contrast to westerners‟ culture hints her critique of the treatment of Hindu widows 

which serves as a useful remainder to Indians for their need of a benevolent globalization from West.    

 

CONCLUSIONS 

Based on Feminist Theory, it is concluded that the film Water by Deepa Mehta presents the 

predicament of Indian Hindu widows. It shows the inert life of the group of widows obliged to live in a 

widow house neglected from society because of Hindu widow system; a cultural violation of the women 

identity in a society. Mehta shows how the characters have become the victim of the tradition and culture 

regarding widowhood as exemplified by the protagonists like Chuyia and Kalyani. Mehta criticizes the 

tradition regarding widowhood through her characters Chuyia and Kalyani. Mehta shows the possibility 

of subverting such culture of widowhood by raising the issue of widow marriage. Mehta shows her 

characters being suffered by the culture of widowhood as the consequent of such culture imparts the 

tragic end of the characters in the film. 

 
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