item: #1 of 21 id: 11248 author: Swedenborg, Emanuel title: The Delights of Wisdom Pertaining to Conjugial Love To Which is Added The Pleasures of Insanity Pertaining To Scortatory Love date: None words: 259856 flesch: 62 summary: _With man conjugial love is in the love of the sex as a gem in its matrix. The reason why none can be principled in spiritual conjugial love, but those who are of the above description by virtue of conjunction with the Lord, is, because heaven is in this love; and the natural man, whose conjugial love derives its pleasure only from the flesh, cannot approach to heaven nor to any angel, no, nor to any man principled in this love, it being the foundation of all celestial and spiritual loves; which may be seen above, n. 65-67. keywords: adulteries; adultery; affections; angels; body; case; causes; chaste; church; cold; conjugial; conjunction; death; delights; divine; earth; end; evil; external; form; god; good; heat; heaven; hell; husband; internal; life; like; lord; love; love commence; lust; man; marriage; men; mind; nature; order; origin; partners; place; principle; quality; reason; religion; respecting; sex; soul; sphere; spiritual; state; things; time; truth; understanding; wife; wisdom; wives; woman; world cache: 11248.txt plain text: 11248.txt item: #2 of 21 id: 11965 author: Royden, A. Maude (Agnes Maude) title: Sex and Common-Sense date: None words: 36368 flesch: 68 summary: Such men, such women, are not necessarily depraved or immoral persons, their temperament may be a source of genuine distress to them. The only alternative to this is to revert to a form of civilization in which it was frankly admitted that sex-impulses could not be controlled, either by men or by women, and society was therefore organized on a basis which, quite logically, provided for the restraint of women in a bondage which prevented them from satisfying their impulses as they chose, and at the same time protected them from attack by other men than their lawful owners; and which, further, provided conveniences for the equally uncontrollable instincts of men. keywords: body; children; fact; god; human; law; life; love; marriage; morality; nature; need; people; physical; point; sense; sex; spiritual; standard; union; way; women; world cache: 11965.txt plain text: 11965.txt item: #3 of 21 id: 13161 author: Long, H. W. (Harland William) title: Sane Sex Life and Sane Sex Living Some Things That All Sane People Ought to Know About Sex Nature and Sex Functioning; Its Place in the Economy of Life, Its Proper Training and Righteous Exercise date: None words: 39302 flesch: 69 summary: Added to this, if the husband will, in large measure, hold still, and keep his penis in such position that it presses against the _upper part_ of the vulva, that is against the clitoris, (as the phrase goes, if he will ride high) and then permit his _wife_ to make long strokes, sliding the organs together for their full possible length, with the clitoris in constant contact with the penis, during the whole of each stroke--all of this will greatly and rapidly increase her passions and bring her to the climax. But, as time goes on, the practice of carrying the act only to the end of the _second_ part, will grow, and in due time be well established. keywords: act; body; coitus; fact; female; human; husband; knowledge; life; love; men; organs; parties; parts; penis; people; position; right; sex; sex organs; time; vulva; way; wife; woman cache: 13161.txt plain text: 13161.txt item: #4 of 21 id: 13444 author: Nichols, J. L. (James Lawrence) title: Searchlights on Health: The Science of Eugenics date: None words: 142674 flesch: 72 summary: PROMOTION.--the world is full of good places for good young men, and all the positions of trust now occupied by the present generation will soon be filled by the competent young men of the coming generation; and he that keeps his record clean, lives a pure life, and avoids excesses or dissipations of all kinds, and fortifies his life with good habits, is the young man who will be heard from, and a thousand places will be open for his services. Thus many young men find their ruin. keywords: affections; beautiful; beauty; body; care; cases; cause; character; children; cold; condition; day; days; death; desire; disease; dress; exercise; eyes; face; family; female; food; form; girls; god; good; grains; habit; hair; half; hand; happiness; health; heart; home; hot; hours; human; husband; illustration; influence; kind; lady; law; life; love; man; marriage; marry; means; men; milk; mind; moral; morning; mother; nature; new; organs; ounce; page; parents; passion; patient; people; perfect; period; person; place; power; pregnancy; purity; result; right; self; sexual; skin; small; society; soul; state; strength; system; things; time; treatment; use; warm; water; way; wife; woman; womb; world; years; young cache: 13444.txt plain text: 13444.txt item: #5 of 21 id: 13722 author: Scharlieb, Mary title: Youth and Sex: Dangers and Safeguards for Girls and Boys date: None words: 29307 flesch: 59 summary: The relief and assistance which many boys have experienced from correspondence with me, and the interest which I find in their letters have caused me--spite of the extreme preoccupation of a strenuous life--to issue a special invitation to those who may feel inclined to write to me. Many boys outgrow the physical injuries which, in ignorance, they inflict upon themselves in youth; but very few are able wholly to cleanse themselves from the foul desires associated in their minds with sex. keywords: age; boys; case; child; children; day; experience; girl; good; impurity; instruction; knowledge; life; man; men; mind; opinion; parents; people; puberty; public; school; self; sex; subject; time; work; years cache: 13722.txt plain text: 13722.txt item: #6 of 21 id: 15687 author: Ellis, Havelock title: Little Essays of Love and Virtue date: None words: 42775 flesch: 58 summary: The knowledge of the practice of birth-control gives us the mastery of all that the ancients gained by infanticide, while yet enabling us to cherish that ideal of the sacredness of human life which we profess to honour so highly. [17] The destructive effects of the mechanisation of modern life have lately been admirably set forth, and with much precise illustration, by Dr. Austin Freeman, _Social Decay and Regeneration_. keywords: birth; century; children; civilisation; conditions; control; day; end; energy; eugenics; home; human; husband; individual; knowledge; life; little; love; marriage; nature; new; parents; people; play; population; race; rate; right; sex; social; time; wife; women; world cache: 15687.txt plain text: 15687.txt item: #7 of 21 id: 16047 author: Hopkins, Ellice title: The Power of Womanhood, or Mothers and Sons A Book For Parents, And Those In Loco Parentis date: None words: 61648 flesch: 61 summary: Only remember that with young boys men who have had the greatest experience are generally agreed that it is better not to put the stress on religious motives. I do not go so far as some evangelical mothers who have told me that nothing less than the conversion of their boys would be of the least avail to keep them morally straight; on the contrary, I have known men who have never come under any strong religious influence, but have grown up sceptical scientific men, yet who have led lives as pure as any woman's. keywords: body; boy; boys; character; children; cross; divine; evil; family; father; footnote; girls; god; good; great; heart; home; human; influence; knowledge; law; life; little; love; man; marriage; mother; nature; order; public; purity; question; school; self; sense; soul; teaching; things; time; truth; way; white; womanhood; women; words; work; world; years cache: 16047.txt plain text: 16047.txt item: #8 of 21 id: 19825 author: Lowry, E. B. (Edith Belle) title: Herself: Talks with Women Concerning Themselves date: None words: 39017 flesch: 71 summary: The modern idea seems to have wandered far from the Grecian ideal and many women devote much time and money trying to develop their busts. So many women break down their health by worrying at this period over what might happen. keywords: age; body; boy; boys; care; cause; child; children; condition; day; disease; girls; good; home; life; marriage; men; mother; organs; parents; period; things; time; way; woman; womb; work; world; years cache: 19825.txt plain text: 19825.txt item: #9 of 21 id: 19924 author: Kellogg, John Harvey title: Plain Facts for Old and Young date: None words: 121339 flesch: 60 summary: Of his subsequent history we know nothing; but it is most probable that, like most other young men who adopt this remedy, he soon contracted diseases which rendered his condition ten times worse than at first, without at all improving his former state. It is equally true that many great men have been addicted to intemperance and other crimes. keywords: abuse; age; animals; attention; body; boys; cases; cause; character; children; condition; course; crime; day; degree; development; disease; effects; evil; exercise; fact; female; following; form; girls; good; habit; health; human; individual; influence; irritation; laws; life; living; man; manner; marriage; matter; means; men; mind; moral; mother; nature; organs; parents; period; persons; physical; power; practice; result; right; self; sin; state; subject; suffering; system; thoughts; time; treatment; vice; way; woman; work; world; years; young cache: 19924.txt plain text: 19924.txt item: #10 of 21 id: 22090 author: Ellis, Havelock title: The Task of Social Hygiene date: None words: 122429 flesch: 53 summary: Hamburger, C._, 151 _Hamill, Henry_, 213 _Hausmeister, P._, 302 _Hayllar, F._, 233 Health, nationalization of, 15 Health visitors, 7 _Hearn, Lafcadio_, 191 _Henry, W.O._, 252 Heredity of feeble-mindedness, 34; as the hope of the race, 44; study of, 198 _ Schooling, J.H._, 174 Schools for mothers, 9 _Schrader, O._, 88 _Schreiner, Olive_, 130, 330 _Schroeder, T._, 255, 304 Science and social reform, 11 _Sellers, E._, 266, 301 Sex questions in Germany, 87 _et seq._ Sexual hygiene, 244 _et seq._, 309 Sexual selection, 59, 203 _et seq._ Shaftesbury, Earl of, 6 _Sherwell, A._, 280 _Shrank, J._, 285 _Siégler-Pascal_, 339 _ keywords: birth; case; century; children; civilization; community; conditions; countries; country; day; death; doubt; education; england; english; eugenics; fact; families; family; feeble; force; france; french; future; general; germany; good; human; hygiene; increase; individual; individualism; influence; international; language; law; life; love; man; marriage; matter; means; methods; modern; movement; nature; need; new; number; people; period; place; point; police; population; present; progress; question; race; rate; reform; relation; religion; school; sense; seq; sex; social; socialism; society; state; tendency; things; time; view; war; way; women; work; world; years cache: 22090.txt plain text: 22090.txt item: #11 of 21 id: 23609 author: Nichols, J. L. (James Lawrence) title: Searchlights on Health: Light on Dark Corners A Complete Sexual Science and a Guide to Purity and Physical Manhood, Advice To Maiden, Wife, And Mother, Love, Courtship, And Marriage date: None words: 137690 flesch: 73 summary: There are many good young men, but not all are safe friends to an innocent, confiding young girl. PROMOTION.--The world is full of good places for good young men, and all the positions of trust now occupied by the present generation will soon be filled by the competent young men of the coming generation; and he that keeps his record clean, lives a pure life, and avoids excesses or dissipations of all kinds, and fortifies his life with good habits, is the young man who will be heard from, and a thousand places will be open for his services. keywords: affections; beautiful; beauty; body; care; cases; cause; character; children; cold; condition; day; days; death; disease; dress; exercise; eyes; face; family; female; food; form; girls; god; good; habit; hair; half; hand; happiness; head; health; heart; home; hours; human; husband; illustration; influence; kind; ladies; lady; law; life; love; man; marriage; marry; means; men; milk; mind; months; moral; morning; mother; nature; new; organs; ounce; parents; passion; patient; people; perfect; period; person; place; power; pregnancy; purity; result; right; self; sexual; sin; skin; society; soul; state; strength; system; things; time; use; virtue; water; way; wife; woman; womb; world; years; young cache: 23609.txt plain text: 23609.txt item: #12 of 21 id: 28050 author: Tobias, R. B. (Roscoe Burdette) title: Women As Sex Vendors Or, Why Women Are Conservative (Being a View of the Economic Status of Woman) date: None words: 7566 flesch: 63 summary: Women give much time and spend money extravagantly in articles of conspicuous waste for the simple reason that by so doing they announce the fact that =they= are finer than other women, higher priced, of a fancier brand, possessed of better wares. When a mother is left with no one to support her children, she becomes more predatory than other women in the pursuit of a new provider. keywords: children; class; family; man; marriage; power; sex; today; wife; women; world cache: 28050.txt plain text: 28050.txt item: #13 of 21 id: 28458 author: Wood-Allen, Mary title: What a Young Woman Ought to Know date: None words: 58789 flesch: 70 summary: I have seen girls treat brothers in ways that other young men would not enjoy--finding fault, nagging, and snubbing generally. I have known girls in the secrecy of their rooms to smoke cigarettes for fun, and in that I am sure that you see no amusement. keywords: air; body; book; brain; breathing; care; chapter; children; clothing; cold; condition; day; dress; exercise; fact; family; girl; god; good; habits; health; heart; heredity; home; law; life; love; men; mind; mother; need; organs; people; physical; place; power; right; self; sex; things; thought; time; use; way; woman; work; world; years cache: 28458.txt plain text: 28458.txt item: #14 of 21 id: 29056 author: Wood-Allen, Mary title: Almost A Man date: None words: 13584 flesch: 76 summary: They come with sound of revelry and song, and close beside them press a crowd of weeping wives and mothers and little children, starved, crippled, and murdered, who are to be fellow victims with the drunkard. And, thus silent, he heard no more the bewildering music of his youth, but instead there came to his ears the sound of a broken-hearted woman's sobs, and the weeping of children mourning the birthright that had been lost for them in their father's wayward youth. keywords: allen; book; carl; children; fact; father; gift; good; life; love; man; mother; parents; sex; thought; wood cache: 29056.txt plain text: 29056.txt item: #15 of 21 id: 31671 author: Guernsey, Henry N. (Henry Newell) title: Plain Talks on Avoided Subjects date: None words: 23576 flesch: 63 summary: A little later in life children are liable to ascarides or seat worms, called by some pin worms. An experience of forty years in my professional career has afforded me thousands of opportunities for sympathizing with young men, and young women too, who had unconsciously sunk into these very evils merely for want of an able writer to place this whole subject truthfully and squarely before them, or for some wise friend to perform the same kind office verbally. keywords: body; children; good; health; human; husband; life; love; male; man; marriage; mind; nature; organs; physician; sex; thoughts; time; use; way; wife; woman cache: 31671.txt plain text: 31671.txt item: #16 of 21 id: 31861 author: Wood-Allen, Mary title: Almost a Woman date: None words: 20192 flesch: 82 summary: You can understand that you would not want the man you are to marry to have had familiarities with many other girls, neither would he like to think that other men had been permitted to be free with you. You have given me a good many questions to answer, little girl, and I hardly know where to begin answering them. keywords: baby; boys; children; daughter; day; father; girls; good; helen; life; men; mother; place; things; thought; time; want; wayne; woman; work cache: 31861.txt plain text: 31861.txt item: #17 of 21 id: 34309 author: Ingram, Kenneth title: An Outline of Sexual Morality date: None words: 18741 flesch: 59 summary: The first is the shifting of the emphasis of the sex-force from body to mind, so that the sex-force ceases to be concentrated in physical sex-acts and begins to be concerned rather with love emotion and sex-thought; the second is the transmutation of the sex-force to non-sexual channels. In the popular conception sex is always confused with physical sex expression. keywords: act; attitude; church; evil; expression; fact; homosexual; love; man; marriage; men; nature; physical; principle; problem; puritan; sex; state cache: 34309.txt plain text: 34309.txt item: #18 of 21 id: 36989 author: Adams, Charles Francis title: Some Phases of Sexual Morality and Church Discipline in Colonial New England date: None words: 17272 flesch: 57 summary: Returning to the subject of church discipline and public confessions of incontinence, it will be observed that in the case of the North Precinct Church of Braintree the great body of these confessions are recorded as being made during the Hancock pastorate, or between the years 1726 and 1744. In the main they are records of births, baptisms, marriages and deaths; but some of them relate to matters of church discipline, and these throw a curious light on the social habits of a period now singularly remote. keywords: braintree; brethren; case; century; church; confession; custom; day; england; following; fornication; history; meeting; new; public; records; sin; time; town; years cache: 36989.txt plain text: 36989.txt item: #19 of 21 id: 37356 author: Carpenter, Edward title: Sex-Love, and Its Place in a Free Society date: None words: 5561 flesch: 49 summary: There is indeed a vast deal of fetishism in the current treatment of Sex; and the subject is dealt with as though it lay quite out of line with any other need or faculty of human nature. There may be exceptions; but, as said, the sex-instinct lies so deep and is so universal, that for the understanding of life--of one's own life, of that of others, and of human nature in general--as well as for the proper development of one's own capacities, such experience is almost indispensable. keywords: body; human; life; love; nature; place; sex; things; union cache: 37356.txt plain text: 37356.txt item: #20 of 21 id: 58475 author: Fehlinger, Hans title: Sexual Life of Primitive People date: None words: 33379 flesch: 68 summary: Other women become very thin after several confinements, their features become sharp and bony, and among old women one often comes across real hag-like creatures with half-blind, running eyes (Koch-Grünberg, II., p. 149). Besides, even among primitive people men are careful in risking their lives. keywords: africa; australia; birth; boys; brothers; child; children; circumcision; cord; custom; father; girls; group; house; husband; intercourse; man; marriage; mother; new; parents; penis; people; place; present; price; puberty; purpose; races; rule; sex; time; tribes; wife; wives; women; years cache: 58475.txt plain text: 58475.txt item: #21 of 21 id: 6579 author: Gray, A. Herbert (Arthur Herbert) title: Men, Women, and God A Discussion of Sex Questions from the Christian Point of View date: None words: 47668 flesch: 74 summary: In fact by marrying for any other reason than love men and women only make the permanent and inevitable problems of life a great deal harder to solve. But in exact proportion as we learn to think and feel with Christ we shall learn to forgive, and so doing shall begin to have mastery over the evils in sex life that spring from ignorance, waywardness, want of discipline, and the misunderstanding of love. keywords: body; children; experience; fact; girls; god; good; human; life; love; man; marriage; matter; men; nature; need; people; physical; problem; right; self; sex; society; thing; truth; way; women; world cache: 6579.txt plain text: 6579.txt