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Studies in Christian-Jewish Relations 

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“‘With Sincere Reverence’: A Christological Perspective for the Interreligious 

Dialogue Envisioned by Nostra Aetate” 

Paolo Gamberini, S. J.  

Pontifical Theological Faculty of Southern Italy “San Luigi,” Naples 

 

 

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The ethnical and cultural situation in Italy as well as in 
many European countries has radically changed in recent 
years. The increase of immigration, especially from North 
Africa and from Asia, is slowly changing the way Europeans 
think about their own religious and cultural identity.   

The arrival of Muslims, Buddhists, Hindus and Sikhs 
challenges who we are as Catholics. Islam has become the 
second largest religion in Italy. In his speech to the city in the 
year 2000, the former Archbishop of Bologna, Giacomo Biffi, 
said that either Europe will become Christian again or else it 
will become Muslim.1 The Cardinal was also targeting the 
nihilistic and pluralistic culture which will not be able to face 
the ideological attack of Islam. This is why the Catholic 
Church has tried to have the continent’s Christian roots 
acknowledged in the European Constitution, but as we know 
without success. 

Facing not only the religious expansion of Islam and of 
other religions, but also preoccupied by the threat of terrorist 
fundamentalism, many Catholics are tempted to defend their 
identity by suspecting any kind of pluralistic attitude in 
dealing with the present situation. They affirm themselves by 
excluding anyone who is different ethnically and religiously. 
They claim themselves by removing others.  

Therefore, there is a need for renewing the spirit of the 
Conciliar Declaration Nostra Aetate (NA), which reminds us 
that the Catholic Church rejects nothing that is true and holy 
in the other religions. The Church acknowledges “with 
sincere reverence” (sincera cum observantia) that the other 
religions reflect a ray of that Truth which enlightens all 
humanity. The 1974 Guidelines for Implementing the 
Conciliar Declaration Nostra Aetate, No. 4 – prepared by the 
                                                           
1
  Cardinal Giacomo Biffi, “La città di San Petronio nel III Millennio,” Il 

Regno-documenti, 17 (2000): 551. 

Commission for Religious Relations with the Jews – states 
that the Church must always promote better mutual 
understanding to overcome the reciprocal ignorance and the 
frequent confrontations among people of different beliefs.  

Theologians have a particular task in providing 
discernment, in order to inform interreligious dialogue with 
the Christological proclamation that Jesus Christ is “‘the way, 
the truth, and the life’ (Jn 14:6), in whom people may find the 
fullness of religious life, in whom God has reconciled all 
things to Himself” (NA, §2).  

I will highlight three different moments in which this 
“sincere reverence” towards other religions may be realized. 
The first moment may be called methodological and will refer 
to the Ignatian tradition of the Spiritual Exercises. I will 
develop first of all the praesupponendum (presupposition) as 
an attitude of being able to listen to the religious experience 
of the other; then the contemplatio ad amorem 
(contemplation in attaining love) as the awareness and 
recognition of the action of the Spirit: being able to 
distinguish the religious experience of God from its 
theoretical and practical interpretations; and finally the 
magis, the continuing transcending of the religious 
conscience in reaching out to God: Deus semper maior (God 
is always greater).  

The second moment of my paper will be more theoretical. 
I will deal with the question of Truth within interreligious 
dialogue and how God’s ineffable transcendence and 
otherness have been revealed in this Jesus of Nazareth. “No 
one has seen God at any time; the only begotten God who is 
in the bosom of the Father, He has made Him known” (Jn 
1:18). The humanity of God, Jesus’ particularity, is not a 
limitation for the interreligious dialogue, but constitutes an 
adequate perspective for determining the universality of 
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The third moment considers the practical dimension of the 
dialogue. I will articulate the inner otherness of God (Trinity) 
with God’s becoming other than Himself (Incarnation): I will 
show how the evangelical praxis of the believer, who makes 
himself everything for everybody, is able in the praxis, more 
than in theory, to sustain the eschatological tension between 
the already and not yet, which characterizes interreligious 
dialogue.   

1. The Methodological Moment 

St. Ignatius of Loyola wrote the book of the Spiritual 
Exercises as a guide on how to experience God and to make 
decisions in one’s own life in a selfless way. At the beginning 
of the Spiritual Exercises St. Ignatius introduces some 
presuppositions (praesupponendum) which say that he who 
is giving the Spiritual Exercises should “be ready to save his 
neighbor’s proposition than to condemn it. If he cannot save 
it, let him inquire how he means it; and if he means it badly, 
let him correct him with charity. If that is not enough, let him 
seek all the suitable means to bring him to mean it well, and 
save him.”2 When we apply this principle to interreligious 
dialogue it means that it is necessary to listen carefully to the 
religious experience of the other believers, trying more and 
more to assume the other’s perspective instead of coercing 
the other into one’s own viewpoint. “Listening is the first step 
in understanding. In listening we indicate both that we care 
about the other and also that we have something to learn 
from the other. It seems to me that religious humility 
mandates listening as a basic mode of being in an 

                                                           
2  See David L. Fleming, SJ, Saint Ignatius, The Spriritual Exercises: A 

Literal Translation and a Contemporary Reading 6th ed. (St. Louis: The 
Institute of Jesuit Sources, 1991). See also J.THOMAS, I Segreti dei 
Gesuiti. Gli Esercizi Spirituali (Casale Monferrato: Piemme, 1986). 

interreligious context.”3 We may formulate the golden rule of 
interreligious dialogue in this way: “Try always to understand 
the others, as you would like to be understood.”4 

We need to listen to the Muslim as a Muslim, the 
Buddhist as a Buddhist. Dialogue and Proclamation (DP), a 
May, 1991 document of the Pontifical Council for Inter-
religious Dialogue (PCID), states that Christians must be 
prepared to learn and to receive from and through others the 
positive values of their traditions. Through this attentive 
listening and open attitude Christians “may be moved to give 
up ingrained prejudices, to revise preconceived ideas, and 
even sometimes to allow the understanding of their faith to 
be purified” (§49).5 

In §235-§236 of the Spiritual Exercises we may find the 
second methodological principle for interreligious dialogue. 
Everyone is invited to acknowledge how God dwells, labors, 
and acts in all created things. That means that by giving up 
one’s own preconceived ideas and by having receptive 
minds, as the PCID document affirms, Christians should 
recognize that God has “also manifested himself in some 

                                                           
3  A. Goshen-Gottstein, “Judaism and Incarnational Theologies: Mapping 

out the Parameters of Dialogue,” Journal of Ecumenical Studies 39, No. 
3-4 (June 2002): 23. 

4  M. Schulz,  “Der Beitrag von Immanuel Levinas zum jüdisch-christlichen 
Dialog:Menschwerdung Gottes,” Müncher theologiszhe Zeitschrift  56 
(2005): 152. 

5  Cf., “Much contemporary theological thinking is done precisely in 
dialogue with others. The purpose of such dialogue is twofold: first, to 
correct imbalances that stem from a false perception of the other or 
from excluding the other from one’s horizons; and second, the 
encounter with the other furnishes us with new ways of perceiving and 
presenting our religious convictions. Ultimately, the encounter with the 
other fashions our own self-perception, as well as our religious 
understanding” (Alon Goshen-Gottstein, “Judaisms and Incarnational 
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way to the followers of other religious traditions” (§48).6 The 
Spirit of God is not only at work in the religious life of 
individual believers, “but also in the religious traditions to 
which they belong” (§17). During the first interreligious 
meeting in Assisi on Oct. 27, 1986, and again in his speech 
to the Roman Curia in December of the same year, John 
Paul II declared that “every authentic prayer is moved by the 
Holy Spirit.”7  In one of his Wednesday catecheses, on Sept. 
10, 1998, John Paul II remarked that “very often at the 
source of the variety of religions there are founders who 
realized in the Spirit a deep religious experience. This 
spiritual experience has been transferred into the doctrines, 
rites and teachings of the different religions.”8  

In order to perceive the Spirit at work within these 
religions it is necessary to go beyond the propositions and 
formulations of those to whom we listen. We need at this 
moment to pay attention to the eighth rule for the 
discernment of spirits of the Second Week. Ignatius Loyola 
distinguishes very carefully the starting moment of the 
spiritual consolation, in which the soul is touched by God 
himself, and the following moment of this experience. “For 
often in this second time, through one’s own course of habits 
and the consequences of the concepts and judgements, or 
through the good spirit or through the bad, he forms various 
resolutions and opinions which are not given immediately by 
                                                           
6  The Federation of Asian Bishops’ Conferences declared in November 

1986 that religions have the gift of an authentic experience of the self-
communication of the divine Word and of the saving presence of the 
Holy Spirit. (Quoted in Congregazione Generale 34a della Compagnia di 
Gesù (1995), Decreto V, Roma 1996, 86). See J.-M.Biron, “La 
Compagnie de Jésus et le dialogue interreligieux,” Cahiers de 
Spiritualité Ignatienne 110 (2004) : 97-111.  

 
7  Giovanni Paolo II, “Discorso ai cardinali, alla famiglia pontificia e alla 

curia e prelatura romana,” Il Regno-documenti 32 (1987): 136.
 

8  See L’Osservatore Romano (September 10, 1998).
 

God our Lord, and therefore they have need to be very well 
examined before entire credit is given them, or they are put 
into effect” (§336).  

If we extend this eighth rule not only to individuals but to 
religions, then we need to distinguish between the written 
and oral traditions, kept in Sacred Scriptures and teachings, 
and the original self-communication of God received by the 
founders of these religions.9 Dialogue and Proclamation 
(§30, §78) states that prayerful discernment and theological 
reflection is required in order to discern the presence of the 
Spirit within the doctrines and precepts of the other religions. 
The August, 2000 declaration of the Congregation for the 
Doctrine of the Faith, Dominus Iesus says that God “does 
not fail to make himself present in many ways, not only to 
individuals, but also to entire peoples through their spiritual 
riches, of which their religions are the main and essential 
expression even when they contain ‘gaps, insufficiencies 
and errors’. Therefore, the sacred books of other religions, 
which in actual fact direct and nourish the existence of their 
followers, receive from the mystery of Christ the elements of 
goodness and grace which they contain (§8).”  

By discerning the first and the second moment of God’s 
self-communication in these religions and distinguishing the 
original spiritual gift from its human interpretations and 
categories, we may be able to participate in the spiritual 
experience of the other and be receptive to the ways other 
religions proclaim and live their experience of God. By 

                                                           
9 “In religious experience it is possible to distinguish between a 

superstructure which I call belief and an infrastructure which I call faith. 
The superstructure is the external word, the external revelation, the 
external reality, the word used in history and culturally conditioned. The 
infrastructure is the interior word, the word which addresses the heart, 
the intimate revelation.” (W. Johnston, L’œil Intérieur. Mysticisme et 
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transcending the categorical expressions of other religions 
we reach “a much deeper level, that of the spirit, where 
exchange and sharing give a mutual witness to one’s beliefs 
and a common exploration of one’s respective religious 
convictions.”10 The aim of interreligious dialogue is a deeper 
conversion of all towards God and everyone is invited “to 
leave one’s previous spiritual or religious situation in order to 
direct oneself towards another.”11 “The Christian theologian 
in dialogue with the other is called faithfully to reflect on the 
experience of tracing a pilgrimage of constant departure 
which is also an entry into this fullness which God 
promises.”12  

By converting oneself more and more to God, one comes 
closer to Truth.  NA, §2 states that in the manner of life and 
conduct, in the precepts and teachings of these religions, 
there is a reflection of that truth which enlightens all people. 
This does not mean that the Truth, which enlightens all 
religions, is still hidden and inconceivable. Truth is not the 
outcome of complementary truths found in other religions. 
Jesus Christ is “the way, the truth and the life.” Dialogue and 
Proclamation states, however, that “the fullness of truth 
received in Jesus Christ does not give individual Christians 
the guarantee that they have grasped that truth fully. In the 
last analysis truth is not a thing we possess, but a person by 
whom we must allow ourselves to be possessed. This is an 
unending process” (§49). In order to reflect on this important 
aspect of the interreligious dialogue we need to consider the 
second moment of this discussion.  
                                                           
10 DP, §40. 
 
11 Secretariat for Non-Christians, “The Attitude of the Church Towards the 

Followers of Other Religions: Reflections and Orientations on Dialogue 
and Mission,” AAS 75 (1984): §37.

 
12 Michael Barnes, Theology and the Dialogue of Religions (Cambridge: 

Cambridge University Press, 2002), 219.
 

2. The Theoretical Moment 

In the contemplation to gain love, St. Ignatius invites the 
retreatant to search and find God in everything. This is not a 
nameless and abstract God but the God of Jesus Christ. 
God’s truth was made visible and accessible in the particular 
history of Jesus of Nazareth. God does not exclude 
humanity. The human Jesus defines God’s very essence.  “It 
is precisely God’s deity which, rightly understood, includes 
his humanity.”13 God can be humanly expressed since God 
is also human in his being. Dominus Iesus declares that “the 
truth about God is not abolished or reduced because it is 
spoken in human language” (§6).  

The human God is not less than God. God finds his 
appropriate and adequate self-expression in the humanity of 
Jesus. This does not dissolve the mysterious character of 
God’s revelation, but it is manifest in Jesus Christ. We 
should not look for God beyond the humanity of Jesus, but 
we should always go beyond our relative and finite ways of 
expressing the mystery of incarnation.  

This truth qualifies the identity of the Christian faith as a 
revealed religion. To set this truth aside means to alter 
Christianity and to make interreligious dialogue impossible 
because Christians would enter into dialogue without their 
own identity. We would not have a “sincere reverence,” if we 
dialogue already with a presumption, a common 
denominator for all religions called the unfathomable 
Mystery, into which we reduce all religions into one.14 On the 
contrary, each religion is in dialogue with its own 
presuppositions. 

                                                           
13 Karl Barth, The Humanity of God (Richmond: John Knox, 1960), 46.

 
14 See Paolo Gamberini, “Kenosi e universalità del cristianesimo,” Filosofia 

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To argue the truth of Christian faith is very complex in the 
cultural context of our days, which is on one side relativist 
and on the other side marked by a clash of civilizations and 
religions; but we cannot deny truth or become agnostic, 
either saying that truth cannot be known, or saying that truth 
is what the majority decides.15   

In a speech at the Pontifical Lateran University on May 
12, 2004, the President of the Italian Senate, Marcello Pera, 
asked, “If one truth is equal to another truth, why should we 
dialogue? And if in faith there is no truth, how can we ever 
be saved?”16 According to Pera absolute truth bars dialogue 
or an acknowledgment of what “is true and holy” in other 
religions, as NA, §2 and Ad Gentes, §9 declare.    

To answer this serious objection we need to articulate in 
the right way the criterion and the condition of truth, in order 
to avoid both relativism and fundamentalism. Whoever 
dialogues is well aware of his own criterion of truth (Torah, 
Holy Scriptures, Qu’ran). Denying what makes a Jew a Jew, 
a Christian a Christian, ignoring that everyone is committed 
thoroughly to his measure of truth, boycotts and does not 
promote dialogue at all. To leave one’s own belief in order to 
be in dialogue with the other would change dialogue into a 
monologue. Instead, each religion must question and clarify, 
what are the criterion and condition of the truth it claims.17  

                                                           
15 See Joseph Ratzinger, Fede-Verità-Tolleranza. Il Cristianesimo e le 

Religioni del Mondo  (Siena: Cantagalli, 2003), 115ff. 
 

16 M. Pera, “Il Relativismo, il Cristianesimo e l’Occidente,” Lezione alla 
Pontificia Università Lateranense per i 150 anni di fondazione della 
Facoltà di diritto civile, Roma, 12 maggio 2004,  http://www.senato.it/ 
presidente/21572/21575/28223/composizioneattopresidente.htm. 

 
17 By criterion we mean the objective reference (in se) of what constitutes 

an identity; by condition we mean the perspective (pro nobis) in and 
through which that objective reference is perceived. To deny this 

When Christians proclaim their truth, they refer to the way 
this truth became flesh in Jesus of Nazareth. There is a deep 
link between the truth and this Jesus, as it is stated in Jesus’ 
affirmation: “I am the truth” (Jn 14:6). This is quite a 
paradoxical affirmation and in certain way intolerant. This 
identification between the “I” of Jesus and the Truth is 
intolerable for everyone who encourages relativism, but also 
for those who oppose any form of fundamentalism. Behind 
that “I” there may be hidden an institution or an ideology, or 
even a church. If God is the Truth, whoever (an individual, a 
group, or a religion) stands on God’s side is also in the truth 
and becomes the interpreter of truth.  The attributes of God’s 
Word qualify God’s spokespersons.  

In order to understand the paradoxical character of the 
Johannine affirmation we must pay attention to the proximal 
context of Jesus’ self-definition: the paschal experience. 
“Now before the feast of the Passover, when Jesus knew 
that his hour was come that he should depart out of this 
world unto the Father, having loved his own which were in 
the world, he loved them unto the end” (Jn 13:1). Jesus’ 
passion, death and resurrection reveal that in the 
identification between Truth and the I of Jesus a deeper 
revelation of God and a different way of defining truth have 
been shown. Jesus’ self-giving for others (kénosis) is the 
essential condition by which Jesus expresses his being the 
truth of God the Father. There is a deep connection between 
“I am the Truth” of Jesus’ saying and the Johannine 
affirmation that summarizes the whole Easter event: “There 
is no greater love than this, that a man lay down his life for 
his friends” (Jn 15:13). Becoming the neighbor of whoever 
was poor, sick and marginal, until he made himself “friend of 
                                                                                                                       

correlative dimension of truth leads either to reducing the objective 
reference to one’s own perspective (relativism) or to making one’s own 
perspective the criterion of truth (fundamentalism). See  V. Melchiorre, 
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sinners” (cf. Mt 11:19), Jesus manifested that the criterion of 
his truth is the experience of otherness which has its origin in 
God the Father and has its end in embracing the other.  

Jesus’ identification with the Truth reveals that God 
defines his very being in the humanity of Jesus and in him 
God has assumed the extreme otherness of the sinner. 
Jesus emptied himself so totally for the sake of others, that 
his life was defined in relation to sinners. That God affirms 
himself in relation to another from himself, to that wholly 
other who is the sinner, this belongs to the paschal 
revelation of God, which can be recapitulated in the 
Johannine expression “God is Love” (1 Jn 4:8). 

The very possibility that God becomes other from himself 
is God’s very essence which is constituted by inner relations: 
Father, Son and Holy Spirit. Without denying biblical 
monotheistic faith, Christians believe that the one God is not 
an absolute being, resting in splendid solitude. The God of 
Jesus Christ is ontologically open within and beyond himself. 
Therefore, the category of “otherness” finds in the Christian 
idea of God its foundation. If interreligious dialogue is made 
possible by acknowledging the other in his difference and 
limits, then the logic guiding this dialogue is the same as that 
of the paschal existence, when Jesus laid down his life for 
the others, and of the Trinitarian life, where each person in 
the one God exists for the sake of the other person. 

This different God calls for a different understanding of 
what truth is. We may quote Saint Augustine: “We do not 
enter into Truth but through Love” (Non entratur in veritatem 
nisi per charitatem).18 God is not afraid of dialogue as the 
Dogmatic Constitution on Divine Revelation (Dei Verbum) 
declares: “The invisible God (see Col 1;15, 1 Tm 1:17) out of 
                                                           
18 Augustine, “De Gratia contra Faustum,” Opera, F. Tempsky - G. 

Freytag, Lipsia 1891, XXXII, cap. XVIII.
 

the abundance of His love speaks to human beings as 
friends (see Ex 33:11; Jn 15:14-15) and lives among them 
(see Bar 3:38), so that He may invite and take them into 
fellowship with Himself” (§2). The absolute truth is essentially 
“conversational” and “self-communication.” “Truth itself may 
become for us an idol, because truth, separated from love, is 
not God: it becomes an image, an idol which we must 
neither love nor adore.”19 In a Christian perspective, truth 
and dialogue are neither opposed nor juxtaposed: they 
essentially correspond to each other. 

This relation, between truth and dialogue, determines 
what kind of universality may be attributed to Christian truth. 
If Christian identity originates from the life-style and thought-
style of Jesus, we have to avoid any form of exclusive or 
inclusive Christianity in dialogue with other religions. “Instead 
of diminishing the scandal of the Word made flesh, in order 
to ease interreligious dialogue, it is necessary to show how 
the principle of incarnation, that the Absolute reveals Himself 
in and through a historical particularity, invites us not to 
make Christianity an absolute, that is, a religion excluding 
others.”20 If Jesus is defined by his relation to others, it 
means that also the other religions define Christ’s event. 
Dialogue and Proclamation, §48-49 states: 

[W]hile remaining firm in their belief that in Jesus Christ, 
the only mediator between God and humanity (cf. 1 Tm 
2:4-6), the fullness of revelation  has been given to them, 
Christians must remember that God has also manifested 
himself in some way to the followers of other religious 
traditions. Consequently, it is with receptive minds that 

                                                           
19 B. Pascal, Pensieri, a Cura di Paolo Serini 3rd ed. (Milan: Arnoldo 

Mondadori Editore, 1988),  n. 541, 314.
 

20 C. Geffré, “Le pluralisme religieux comme question théologique,” Vie 
spirituelle 3 (1998) : 586

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they approach the convictions and values of others. The 
fullness of truth received in Jesus Christ does not give 
individual Christians the guarantee that they have 
grasped that truth fully. In the last analysis truth is not a 
thing we possess, but a person by whom we must allow 
ourselves to be possessed. This is an unending 
process.21  

Only to God is known how the many religions participate 
in the work of the Holy Spirit and how they can be 
associated with the paschal mystery.22 “On the last day the 
mysterious convergence of all religions among them will be 
revealed together with their meaning within God’s one plan 
of salvation.”23 In the meantime, however, if it is true that 
God is love, the way the Spirit of Christ touches every 
human person is by the experience of mutual love.  

To give a Christian account of the experience of being in 
relationship with the other, committed always to living ‘in 
between’ this concrete position within history and the 
fullness of meaning which comes at the end of history and 
which can only be anticipated in hope, is only possible if 
one is willing to take the risk of crossing the threshold, of 
encountering the other person.24 

3. The Practical Moment 

After examining the methodological and theoretical 
dimensions of interreligious dialogue, we consider now the 
practical moment. In order to make the Catholic Church 

                                                           
21  N.B. “The Spirit of truth will lead you to the complete truth” (Jn 16:13). 
22  Cf. Gaudium et Spes, § 22. 
23  C. Geffré  “Le pluralisme religieux comme question théologique,” Vie 

spirituelle 3 (1998), 584.
 

24  M. Barnes, Theology and the Dialogue of Religions, 226.
 

receptive to interreligious dialogue in authentic spirit, both 
realism and discernment are necessary. 

First of all realism: everyone should seek to comprehend 
the religion of the other as the other understands it, 
according to its own parameters and not according to a 
superficial idea of that religion. Speaking about Islam in the 
post-synodal Apostolic exhortation Ecclesia in Europa, John 
Paul II said that a proper relationship with Islam needs to be 
conducted prudently, “with clear ideas about possibilities and 
limits, and with confidence in God’s saving plan for all his 
children. It is also necessary to take into account the notable 
gap between European culture, with its profound Christian 
roots, and Muslim thought” (§57).  

Together with realism we need also discernment. This 
asks first of all for an ethical foundation, which is the golden 
rule found in many religions: “Do to others what you would 
have them do to you, for this sums up the Law and the 
Prophets” (Mt 7:12);  “Love your neighbor as yourself” (Lv 
19:18); “Not one of you truly believes until you wish for 
others what you wish for yourself” (40 Hadith An-Nawawi, 
13); “This is the sum of the Dharma: do nothing unto others 
which would cause you pain if done to you” (Mahabharata 
5:1517). Card. Karl Lehmann declared that: 

[T]he problem of violence in every religion is of utmost 
importance. Whoever wants to dictate his conviction with 
power and violence cuts himself off from any kind of 
interreligious dialogue. Every religion should examine in 
which way its own image of God pursues an ideal of 
violent imposition of her belief upon the others [...] Each 
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coercion (for Christian churches: heresy, inquisition, 
missions).25 

Discernment should be done not only on an ethical base 
but also a spiritual one. The eschatological event of God, 
who became human in Jesus, continues in the self-
identification of Christ with the little ones, the hungry, the 
thirsty and the excluded (cf Mt 25:35). As God became 
other-from-himself (Incarnation) by being other-in-himself 
(Trinity), so Christians are called everyday to discover their 
own identity by becoming other than themselves. Saint Paul 
says: 

To the Jews I became as a Jew, so that I might win Jews; 
to those who are under the Law, as under the Law though 
not being myself under the Law, so that I might win those 
who are under the Law; to those who are without law, as 
without law, though not being without the law of God but 
under the law of Christ, so that I might win those who are 
without law. To the weak I became weak, that I might win 
the weak; I have become all things to all men, so that I 
may by all means save some.26  

Paul defines his own identity by relating it to others:  

He meets those who are under the Law not without that 
Law that binds to the problems of the Law. He meets the 
weak not as the strong one, in order to let them feel more 
greatly the suffering caused by their weaknesses. He 
does not face the Jews as a Christian who denies them 
the authenticity of their specific way to God. He meets 
everybody with what identifies each one of them before 
others and before God. Paul’s ego constitutes himself by 

                                                           
25 Karl Lehmann, “Una religione tra le altre,” Il regno-documenti  48 

(2003): 46.
 

26 1 Cor 9:20-22. 

encountering the human and religious determining factors 
of the other. Through these strong denotations of the 
other Paul articulates his own identity in a plural way. He 
needs these strong factors which determine the identity of 
the other, in order to find his own way to God, overcoming 
his own weakness and his inclination to violence.27 

Translating this into the language of interreligious 
dialogue, we may say that the Christian is called to become 
a Jew, to become a Muslim, “for the sake of the gospel” (1 
Cor 9:23). It is not simply becoming more tolerant or 
respectful for the dignity of the other. As God became 
human by remaining God, so the Christian is called to 
become a refugee with the refugees, an outcast with the 
outcast, a Muslim with the Muslims, by remaining himself. 
The more as a Christian he dialogues, the more he will be 
able to be incarnated in the belief and in the life of the other 
believer, and vice versa. The model for such dialogue is 
Jesus’ relationship with the Father. “Through participation in 
that relationship – Father and Son united by the Sprit of love 
– Christians learn how to relate to others. The analogy of 
“mutual indwelling” (perichoresis) of the divine persons 
within the Godhead teaches the virtues and practice of 
hospitality and welcome.”28 The more Christians dwell in the 
way of believing and of living of Muslims, of Jews, of Hindus, 
the more they will understand their own Christian identity 
and why God’s being is defined as Love.29  

                                                           
27 H.-J. Sander, “Il cristiano nel postmoderno: identità plurale,” Il Regno-

attualità 50 (2005): 23.
 

28 M. Barnes, Theology and the Dialogue of Religions, 228.
 

29 Cf. Frank  Whaling, Christian Theology and World Religions. A Global 
Approach, (London: Society for Promoting Christian Knowledge, 1986), 
130-131.

 



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“To be ‘oneself as another’ entails a participation in the 
mystery of God’s self-giving which alone can mend the 
‘broken middle’ of interfaith relations.”30 By getting to know 
the spiritual tradition of the other, Christians understand 
better their own faith, purifying it from what causes obstacles 
or misunderstandings in the partner. At the same time 
differences between the Christian faith and the other 
religions may appear more clearly. Everyone will understand 
his own religious identity not without the others but in relation 
to the others.31 “If Christian identity is found only in 
generous-hearted relationship, in learning to see ‘oneself as 
another,’ then it will be through trust in the Spirit that 
constant conversion is made possible. Faith, love and hope 
are reciprocal dimensions of the Christian life, manifestations 
of God’s own self-giving, the grace which makes for human 
flourishing.”32 

                                                           
30 M. Barnes, Theology and the Dialogue of Religions, 207.

 
31 Cf. “The Spirit of God breaks through the self-enclosed world we inhabit; 

the Spirit re-creates us and sets us on the road toward becoming what I 
like to call a ‘catholic personality’, a personal microcosm of the 
eschatological new creation. A catholic personality is a personality 
enriched by otherness, a personality which is what it is only because 
multiple others have been reflected in it in a particular way. The 
distance from my own culture that results from being born by the Spirit 
creates a fissure in me through which others can come in. The Spirit 
unlatches the doors of my heart saying: ‘You are not only you; others 
belong to you too’” (M. Volf, Exclusion and Embrace. A Theological 
Exploration of Identity, Otherness, and Reconciliation [Nashville: 
Abingdon Press, 1996], 51). “One does not live without others. This 
means that one does not live without fighting with others. So we need, 
not just once but everyday, to give up the naive conviction that ‘we 
understand each other’, and to get out of the sentimental meanderings, 
by which we hoped to hide under certain expressions and defenses the 
reality of the other” (M. De Certeau, Mai Senza L’altro [Magnano:  
Qiqaion, 1993], 41).

 
32 M. Barnes, Theology and the Dialogue of Religions, 228.

 

In conclusion, I summarize the three moments mentioned 
above as three theses:  

1) The dynamics of the Spiritual Exercises invites us to 
listen and to acknowledge in the other the work of the Spirit 
by distinguishing the religious experience of God from its 
consequent theoretical and ethical interpretations;  

2) The Spirit at work in the other religions is the Spirit of 
Jesus Christ, who became a human being for others; 

3) Interreligious dialogue lives the eschatological tension 
between the already and not yet. This tension should not be 
explained by means of a theory but lived and supported in 
the praxis of a believing love.